Fingering males?

Sam The Bam Sam The Bam
Well ive had a friend come to me with the topic of fingering a male during straight sex. She is both cofused but curious towards trying what her partner is asking. Any advice to her about the normacy of this?
06/16/2014
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SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Some men enjoy being fingered, this includes straight men. The enjoyment of receiving anal play is not a reflection of their actual sexuality. A few of my male friends have talked about enjoying prostate stimulation during either masturbation or during sex. I would tell her to discuss this with her partner in an open manner, since from your post it seems as if he is already receptive to the idea he could perhaps tell her exactly what he enjoys.
06/16/2014
KinkyCouple KinkyCouple
This actually becoming a pretty normal, or a least much more talked about, activity between straight couples. I would encourage your friend to give it a shot, trying new things can be very fun and pleasurable for both people involved. As always with any sort of anal play use TONS of lube, I recommend a water based gel.
06/17/2014
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Sam The Bam
Well ive had a friend come to me with the topic of fingering a male during straight sex. She is both cofused but curious towards trying what her partner is asking. Any advice to her about the normacy of this?
My hubby is about as straight as a javelin pole, and he loves it when I finger him during oral or other play. In fact, the strongest orgasms he has, and indeed, the one's he claims he cannot "slow down" or "hold back" on, are when I am doing oral, with one finger giving him direct prostate stimulation. I always keep one middle finger trimmed short just for him and for doing this with him! Holding my hand or looking at my hand reminds him daily, I am here to give him all the pleasure I can (he reciprocates more then his share, I should add). In fact, the anus is full of powerful, pleasurable nerve endings. You can finger him around the anus, or penetrate slowly with a finger, using lots and lots of thick lube, and if going for the prostate, simply aim your finger as if you were trying to rub his belly button from behind. It is kind of "up and forward". You will feel it like the size and indeed the surface texture of a walnut shell (but much softer, of course). Be mindful to have your nail VERY trimmed or at least smoothed, and do not scratch or poke the soft tissue with your nail at any point. That can do damage to the soft rectal tissue. It is all about gentle rubbing of the anus and rectum. If he enjoys this, he might enjoy small anal toys as well (Only get one's made for anal play, with a safe "flare" at the end, and always start small...with HIM calling the shots on when "enough is enough"). Tell them to relax and enjoy.
06/17/2014
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
You can tell her there are a lot or nerve ending in the anus/rectum area. She can google anal rectum nerve endings and find out for herself. If she is into giving him oral, she can finger him then. Straight men also can enjoy stimulation back there. Best to use some lube and have trimmed finger nails.
06/17/2014
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Oriental husband and wife
You can tell her there are a lot or nerve ending in the anus/rectum area. She can google anal rectum nerve endings and find out for herself. If she is into giving him oral, she can finger him then. Straight men also can enjoy stimulation back there. ...
Indeed, indeed. It's just one more way to have fun.
06/18/2014
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