Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

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Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

gsfanatic gsfanatic
As long as it doesn't take away from our sex life, I can understand if she wants to burn off steam.
04/20/2012
VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I love when my partners watch porn alone, masturbate alone, or otherwise enjoy themselves in safe, harmless ways like that. Their happiness makes me happy.
04/20/2012
lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
yes i would because i dont do it
04/20/2012
pixxie87 pixxie87
its only porn
04/23/2012
mlmac mlmac
She doesn't watch porn, but even if she did ,I wouldn't mind if she did by herself. In fact, sometimes I wish she would watch porn. It might get here in the mood more often.
04/23/2012
Castielskitten Castielskitten
i really dont care if he watches porn or not. he has sex with me a heck much more then he does watching porn.
04/23/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Nope because I know he is coming back to me he normally only watches when he is away from home
04/23/2012
Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Quote:
Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I say no, but if he did it all the time and instead of having sex with me then there'd be a problem.
I agree with this.
04/25/2012
RedGoddess RedGoddess
it doesn't bother me all of the time- but occasionally it does..
i understand that he look at it to get turned on, or sometimes just to look, not for the sexual act of things.. just to see different women lol.
we are really open with our wants and needs, so i ma not against it... but it comes to a point where sometimes it is more frequent- and i get offended.

but i also have friends that don't "allow" their men to look at porn.... crazy
04/26/2012
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
It doesn't bother me at all. As I told her the other day, I don't care... because we are very open about our porn watching habits... but I would care if someone we knew was sending her naked photos. But one is an active thing and the other is objective and passive.
05/07/2012
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
yes it pisses me off hes done it before with dvds, sooooooooooo to solve that problem, i destroyed them lol with a knife! they r in the garbage i hid the rest of them for us to watch if we want, together
05/07/2012
CandE CandE
At times, the timing of it sometimes does bother me. Say when I feel in the mood, and I know he has had 'private alone time' it bothers me because I feel that either he won't be in the mood for some time or he would be thinking about someone else. I don't know if this makes any sense. We do watch porn together, but most of the time, he would watch it without me. I think its a whole male ego thing.
05/16/2012
queergaze queergaze
I am a porn *nerd*. I'm far more into porn than my partner, so I'm basically enthusiastic about any of their sexy interests.
05/16/2012
pix pix
I look at porn by myself, why would I be upset if my boyfriend did...
actually, the thought kind of turns me on.
05/18/2012
pasdechat pasdechat
Well, I'm a pretty jealous person, but I also watch porn by myself, so I suppose it would be hypocritical to get mad at a boyfriend for it. That said, if I found out he was watching something sexist...well, we would have to have a talk.
05/18/2012
Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I wouldn't care.
05/18/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Nope! I've never had a problem with it, though I do prefer if my partners look at porn from websites with feminist policies. They get to make their own choices on that front, though.
05/21/2012
That Guy over there That Guy over there
She doesn't watch porn, but I wouldn't care if she did. She doesn't care if I do either.

As for the whole porn is sexist thing. Porn is junk food, not sexist really. Everybody's had McD's at some point but nobody want to live off of that stuff. We all realize it's not the best food or the most correct. But some won't hurt you. A home cooked meal is best, but really who has the time every night.

Watch the siliconed bleached blonde jab herself with a jackhammer, pop off and enjoy the rest of the day. Tomorrow you can cuddle with them and bond.
05/28/2012
Chami Chami
it doesnt bother me BUT if it was home made porn...by people he knew i would be very bothered
05/28/2012
MaeGal MaeGal
Doesn't bother me at all. I look at porn alone, he looks at porn alone, we look at to together (we're into the same stuff, so it works out really well. Haa).
06/02/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
I wouldn't mind at all
06/02/2012
Sauceboss Sauceboss
shes with me so im fine with that
06/02/2012
ginainohio ginainohio
dont bother me none
06/10/2012
wes wes
It dont bother me one bit
06/12/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
kinda
07/29/2012
luvslukin luvslukin
I wish my partner watched it on her own more often. I don't think she EVER watches it alone.
08/18/2012
Deeder Deeder
It wouldn't bother me, but I think the idea of him watching alone would bother him. I have a much lower sex drive than my husband, and I think that if I'm unable/unwanting to get down at any particular moment, he should be able to have his own playtime, guilt-free. (As long as it doesn't involve another person, that is.)
08/18/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
As long as it's not getting in the way of our relationship or his life, why should I care what he does when he's alone?
08/21/2012
Shadowed Shadowed
Yes, but only because he didn't wait for me to watch it with him.
08/23/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
It would not bother me in the least.
08/23/2012
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