Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

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Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i don't mind at all, if anything i have picked some up for him to enjoy by himself.
02/02/2011
lezergirl lezergirl
it's especially not an issue if it's long distance
02/04/2011
danellejohns danellejohns
I would not care if he watched it or not. I have watched before but have not done so in a very long time. I would think and agree with my husband that he would not mind if I did.
02/06/2011
danellejohns danellejohns
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Originally posted by markeagleone
If my wife watched it, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I would only hope a part of her thinks of me. I don't thinl I have to worry, though. If she watched it, it would be with both eyes closed. I personally haven't for years. I learned ...
Both eyes would so not be closed. I am not that bad. I am more of the romantic and love a really good plot in a movie. Porn very rarely has that so it is not my top choice in viewing
02/06/2011
closed account closed account
I am not always in the mood for porn. I try to be understanding in the difference in our appetite for porn. I have though, on occasion found myself upset about it. There is a time and place, and geez, some sort of time limit.

If we are fighting and he's off doing that.....ERG!
02/06/2011
vegan.guy vegan.guy
I think it would bother me if my girlfriend looked at porn on a regular basis.
02/10/2011
gladiola gladiola
Nah, that's not a problem for me. I look at porn on my own as well, and my boyfriend and I end up discussing what we've watched individually, and then watch those movies together.
02/17/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
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Originally posted by Sammi
I watch it a lot by myself, and it doesn't bother him, and vice versa. Most of what we have is stuff we watch together as well.
Ditto!
02/17/2011
extrafun extrafun
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
We just got our first porn, my wife piced it out. Sometimes when we are sextexting she will have me watch it and describe it to her.
02/17/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I don't mind, as long as it doesn't become a replacement for me.
02/17/2011
BuckeyeMan BuckeyeMan
I think it is a turn on so I could "punish" her later for it...
02/18/2011
ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
I actually try to get my boyfriend to watch it, but he is the only guy I have ever met that does not like it.
02/19/2011
al16 al16
We all need our "me" time, that's how I see.
03/07/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have no issues with him watching porn,

what I do have issues with is him masturbating when he could be boning me instead!
03/07/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
It shouldn't be a problem as long as it is not all the time, it is just a way to release that sex desire without doing it.
03/08/2011
extrafun extrafun
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
i incourge it
03/10/2011
Mr. E Mr. E
We normally watch porn together, but it is not an issue if one wants to go solo.
03/10/2011
boredbi69 boredbi69
It doesn't bother me, but then he doesn't know that I watch his porn when he's not at home so I can't say if it would bother him. We've watched it together, and had fun with it, but for the most part, he still hides his porn from me.
03/10/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Caught her watching it once or twice by herself, and vise virsa. Doesn't bother me because I know she prefers me : )
03/10/2011
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
normally no....
03/11/2011
AngelicaU AngelicaU
Sometimes I'll come home from work to find that my boyfriend has already masturbated. It's not that I mind him looking at porn and doing that, it's just that I feel as if he prefers to masturbate rather than wait an extra hour to have sex with me. I think it's mostly me being insecure about myself that makes me feel that way since he insists he would rather do it with me, but he was bored.
03/11/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
It used to bother me big time. I would get so pissed off! But lately, I really don't care. I know who he's thinking of while he's jacking off, and that's me. I told him next time he's doing it he needs to video it for me b/c I love watching him play with himself, lol.
03/11/2011
(Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
I have no problems with porn-viewing; I do it myself and with partners.

If a long-term, cohabiting partner watched porn alone, I'd be ok.

Three things I'm not ok with:

1. Compulsive porn addiction (dealt with someone who had it...awful addiction)

2. Porn that is what I feel to be destructive, misogynistic, or detrimental to society IN MY OPINION. I watch kink.com stuff, and to the uninitiated might look like all of the above, but I research and read up on the adult industry, and I give it the green light. Certain other porn, not so much. I could go on for paragraphs on what I consider destructive/anti-femin ist etc, but let's leave it there for now.

3. Using porn instead of me. Partner for awhile had money issues (I was making more, he was making little, which I guess guys can get odd about sometimes...old stereotypes about breadwinners) and didn't sleep with me but instead looked at porn and also half-naked high school girls on his Facebook friends list (he's a radio guy and has way too many friends, but still, ew!). He did this even when I grabbed for him one morning at 7am, and he knows I hate morning sex. So yeah, that was an issue.

If it's not what I consider immoral/unethical and simply supplements our sex life, I'm happy to find a partner watching porn. I love typing in something in the status bar and seeing they've looked up some kinky porn...I often watch it and text them right after. With a shared computer, of course.

What someone does on their own, personal computer, whatever. But if it's teen girls who are REAL and on a friend's list, no way. But on a shared computer, I don't want to see things that offend me.

It sounds like a lot of rules, but it keeps my life simpler. Coupled life is so...complex. Easier to avoid hurt feelings or fights this way.
03/11/2011
Mattie Omega Mattie Omega
I'd want to watch porn by myself, so I couldn't stop them from partaking in their own private viewings
03/11/2011
Zapples Zapples
Well, as one in a long-distance relationship monogamous relationship, I think it'd be kinda cruel if I got miffed over a little porn-viewing. We've watched it together and I end up laughing for the most part - actually that was pretty fun.
03/11/2011
aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
he does all the time, i dont' mind at all!
03/14/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
sure why notif he wantedto watch it i getthe after effects if it turns him on
03/15/2011
REDRUM REDRUM
I'd probably be looking at porn too. So I wouldn't mind if they do.
03/15/2011
bunny love bunny love
No, I don't care.

We both like porn, so we will watch it individually and together. He found the most awesome porn the other day of scuba divers having sex! It was so cool! haha.
03/21/2011
El-Jaro El-Jaro
It wouldn't bother me at all. Masturbation is normal and healthy, who am I to deny that to someone?
03/21/2011
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