Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

alayamae alayamae
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
Yes, it would bother me!
08/23/2012
neil i. neil i.
There may be a few circumstances in which it might upset me, but for the most part, I would welcome it.
08/23/2012
Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
It used to really bother me with my ex. I think I would be okay now, but my current partner doesn't really watch porn anyways.
08/23/2012
Rory Rory
Watch away!
09/03/2012
Andrey2052 Andrey2052
No.
09/03/2012
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
09/07/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
to an extent...i dont mind that he views it, not at all. i do mind that he dosnt feel comfortable to discuss what he is into..im into many things id never tell anyone unless i trust them to never judge me, but there are things i think he dosnt trust me with and it makes me bounce between anger, frustration and sadness.
09/08/2012
SavingMyself SavingMyself
Doesn't bother me as long as he doesn't start choosing porn over me and as long as he doesn't try to hide it.
09/18/2012
ChuChii ChuChii
It doesnt bother me, ill be going to sleep while he's up watching porn and next thing you know it im woken up by my partner having sex with me.
09/23/2012
Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
as long as he wasnt opting for porn over me then we're good lol
09/23/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
I wouldn't care even a little bit. Porn is fantasy, and I would be bored to tears with a partner incapable of fantasizing. I watch porn by myself, too. We talk about the ones we've seen, and have even gotten some very fun ideas from it. I enjoy erotica, I enjoy porn, and I enjoy having a partner who does too.
09/23/2012
yummyos yummyos
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
I watch porn by myself and I enjoy it so it'd be unfair of me to expect him not to do the same. If it was coming between our sexual life then I would mind.
09/23/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
No, but she doesn't...kinda wish she would now and then
09/24/2012
pixylove101 pixylove101
When we watch porn it's together only.
09/24/2012
Velocity Velocity
I had a boyfriend that lied about liking porn, which made me upset when later on he said he did like/watch it.

when they aren't lying it doesn't bother me at all. if i watch it, why can't they?
09/28/2012
JennSenn JennSenn
No. Not unless it was a bad enough habit to get in the way of our life.
09/29/2012
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Nope. I wouldn't mind at all.
09/29/2012
skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
He can watch it all he wants. But if it starts as a he'd rather watch that than be with me, yes, I will care.
10/19/2012
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
i wouldnt care
02/07/2013
spiced spiced
I answered for my wife. She doesn't usually want to watch it together, but sometimes we do and, if I've chosen the porn wisely, it can be a big turn-on for her.

She's totally cool with my watching porn by myself. I want to have sex every day (often more than once) and she wants to have sex about twice a week. She understands that when I masturbate with porn, I'm not actually fantasizing about having sex with the actual people in the videos, just about having the kind of sex they're having.

The only times porn ever negatively impacted our sex life were a couple of times she spontaneously wanted to have sex in the evening after I'd masturbated multiple times that day (while watching porn). Since then, I've made sure not to masturbate after about noon if there's even a slight chance she might want to have sex with me that evening.

I've always been open with her about the things that turn me on and the types of porn I like. She knows she's always welcome to check out anything in my collection - although she hardly ever takes me up on that!
02/07/2013
DixieDoo DixieDoo
It doesn't bother me. I like to watch porn on my own so he can too.
02/07/2013
Rainbows Rainbows
Neither of us mind at all. I think it's silly; porn and actual sex are wayyyy different. Hell, my girlfriend occasionally goes through my porn folder on my computer just to critique it.
02/07/2013
Callisto Callisto
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
I watch it solo sometimes.. as does my guy. We're just perverts, I guess.
02/09/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
Doesn't bother me either matter of fact I encourage it before we are together.
02/09/2013
I Am Sherlocked I Am Sherlocked
Doesn't bother me at all. I'm glad she's able to when I'm not around.
02/10/2013
brevado brevado
Doesn't bother me in the least.
02/10/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
i actually encourage my wife to do it more often. she needs to get her juices flowin' more often.
02/21/2013
Mr. John Mr. John
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
It would not bother me in the least, if my wife chose to watched porn alone.
05/05/2013
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
No. It doesn't bother me as long as they are honest about their porn consumption. If I ask, "What kind of porn do you like?" I'd much rather hear "I'd rather not talk about it," rather than, "I don't... uh... watch porn..."
05/05/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
If he's watching porn more than he's fucking me? I'm fucking pissed. If we're having sex regularly, I don't care at all.
05/05/2013
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