This toy was definitely designed
When I first saw the
Nexus O on EdenFantasys, I thought it looked pretty cool and immediately added it to my wish list. It looks so unique for a sex toy that I desired to have the chance to try it out. Unlike most of the
Nexus prostate massager line, it is made out of hygienically superior silicone, which in addition to being able to sterilize (boil, dishwasher, or 10% bleach solution) means with a little care it will last a lifetime. It’s too bad that the Nexus O ended up being so difficult to use in its intended application that, although it got me off, I was left frustrated by how hard it was to get there.
When I first opened the Nexus O and showed it to my partner, we both decided that it looked like a large teething ring for an infant. Maybe that is because we have a little one that is in that stage of life, but this thing definitely did not look like your average sex toy. The O included a set of instructions on use. Most of the text sounded like it could have come from almost any
prostate massager, but there were some things specific to the O. Since it is essentially a ring shape with three balls on it, it really cannot just be used like most toys. The silicone material is pretty flexible, so, with some effort, it is possible to flatten it out, but once you take the force off, it returns to its original shape. I guess that’s how it is supposed to
massage the prostate. The instructions state to insert the first two balls and then let it rest there while you proceed with whatever penile stimulation you are planning on. You can simultaneously rock the O with one hand to provide
prostate massage as well. When your orgasm seems imminent, stop the penile stimulation and let the orgasm proceed from the
prostate massage.
I found the O to be too hard to manage to be considered a very good toy for any activities. In fact, I feel it is mediocre at best. I think it might work well for some, but if you’re anything like me, there are better toys out there for
prostate massage and/or g-spot stimulation.
Before I end, I would be remiss if I didn’t say that you should use a condom over the O if you are going to be sharing it with some one else in the same session, or sterilize it before sharing it with your partner.
My first problem with following the instructions for the Nexus O was even getting it inserted past the second ball. The
Nexus O is so ring-shaped that inserting it to that point is difficult. Then, once it is inserted past the second ball, it just doesn’t want to stay there, so it requires some force to keep it in place. I eventually gave up trying to keep the second ball inside and just worked on rocking it and stroking my cock. As I say, I was eventually able to reach orgasm and I did as instructed and stopped penile stimulation and let the orgasm proceed from
prostate stimulation. It was a very good orgasm, but I was frustrated with the amount of work it took to try and follow the directions.
I didn’t want to complete this review without saying that we did try it out on my female partner. It did provide stimulation to her g-spot, but again, the angle is so harsh that it made the stimulation too intense for her. So intense that it was uncomfortable and after trying a few different angles we stopped and went to a different toy.
Weird. I would've put the second ball more off-center so it had a better chance of staying in... and what's the other end for, to stimulate the perineum or just as a handle?
Agreed, push the middle ball toward one end and/or put a second ball in-between the two (to maintain symmetry) and it would probably work better. The other end is supposed to stimulate the perineum but it didn't really do much for me - so it ended up being more like a handle. Having it on the outside allowed me to rock it while sitting on it, which was good. The other suggestion we had for it is to shorten one side to allow for two different insertion depths. Thanks for the comment and getting me to tell a little more about it.
I was also thinking that one end was meant to be a handle. This looks a bit awkward as a prostate toy.
Looks like it would make a good paper clip...
AR - yes, one end is to stay outside as a handle or pernium/clit stimulator. It is pretty awkward unfortunately.
DD - Looks are deceiving in this case.
Too bad, it looks so cool too! I thought about getting this for my husband, but I can tell from your review that he would have just thrown it in trash if I had. He gets frustrated easily and this sure sounds frustrating. Thanks for writing the review so I know to look at something else instead.
Yeah, Bulma, I think I would avoid this if I were you. There are prostate stimulators out there that are easier to use and work better.
Thanks for explaining about the insertion, it really helped me understand how it is supposed to work. By the looks of it I would never have guessed it was for prostate stimulation considering it's ring like shape. I had big doubts on it suceeding in fulfilling its purpose and you have definitely confirmed what I thought. It is a shame though since it has a unique and fun design :)
I admit, the design does look pretty cool. It's what attracted me to it in the first place, but it's one of those places where form and function don't meet well.
To begin you will need to apply a lot of lube into your anal canal, and also to the "Prostate Ball" of the Nexus O. Lie on your back with your knees bent slightly upwards. Hold the Nexus 0 by the "lovehandle" placing the prostate ball at your anal entrance. Slowly push the "prostate ball" inside and tighten the muscles in your arse, which will pull the "anal lips ball" to rest snugly at the anal entrance. Most of your asshole's nerve endings are on its surface so this ball will perform external anal massage during your session. Press the lovehandle to fit firmly along your perineum just below your balls. Relax and breathe deeply.
Tighten your buttock together and gently rock your whole pelvic area forwards and back. Breathe deeply as you increase the rocking motion to include your entire body. Close your eyes and let your self really feel your whole body connect to the energy eminating from your prostate. You may like to apply further stimulation by gently tapping on the lovehandle with your fingers. Some men will prefer to push the lovehandle firmly against the perineum.
When you feel yourself coming close to orgasm, completely relax. Stretch your right leg until it's fully extended. Then repeat with your left leg. Now, tighten your toes and gradually start to tighten your buttocks at the same time. When you are ready. Tighten every muscle in your body and hold your breathe for as long as you can. Do not be surprised that your orgasm does not come in spurts, but rather in one blast. All men should enjoy prostate stimulation with the Nexus O.
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Thank you for the instructions, seb, they seem very specific and I will have to give that a shot. From your website it appears that you are the designer of the Nexus O, so you provide a unique perspective. I am a little surprised that you found my review, but I will post a follow up review when I have tried to follow your instructions more fully.