There is no one toy that works for everyone. Prostate stimulators have gotten a lot of attention lately and they have a bit of a reputation for being miraculous.
So it's totally a matter of personal preference which one would be the best - some men find prostate toys without massage to be enough, others like vibration against the prostate.
BUT please remember that we discourage putting anything without a flanged base in the anus, because the muscles can "pull up" and the toy can get lost inside.

It's true that no one toy will be everyone's favorite. I actually have a prostate massager. It's the Aneros Helix. It was supposed to be the best on the market, or one of the best. It feels good but it's not orgasmic. It's not long or thick enough for my liking. And the little stimulator that is supposed to massage around the perenial area (between balls and asshole) is a little disk that should really be a sphere of some sort. It's just not pleasurable at all. I think I've used it once or twice.

I actually prefer "Danni's E-glass G-spot Lover". It's a glass didlo that is ultra smooth, easy to control, and can be frozen or heated up. Plus it comes with a great cock ring, a velvet pouch, and a mini-vibe that can be used with the toy or numerous other situations.

What I would do is start out with your finger (or your partner's finger(s)) Insert the finger and see what bend, depth, etc. it takes until you really feel the stimulation on your prostate. Then try to look for a toy that will duplicate that shape. That way you'll have hands free stimulation.

Good luck!

-Emt

it just depends on what you prefer