Bend over intermediate kit - harness and dildo set discontinued by Tantus - review by MM4Play

We purchased this to explore role reversal. Perfectly sized for someone beginning to receive anal penetration. We had previously used small vibrators and dildos for anal play and both of the dildos in this package fit nicely. We started with the smaller of the two dildos but found that we used both every time we played. The smaller toy worked as a great way to loosen up and relax. Once relaxed, the larger toy slid right in and really hit the spot.


The harness is comfortable and has a small pocket for a bullet vibe. She found the bullet weak and also uncomfortable as the dildo pressed against the bullet during play. We have not tried this yet, but a We-Vibe would be a greeat toy to try to help satisfy her. The harness is easily adjustable and will fit almost any size. The straps are nylon strapping and the purple fabric front is removable and washable, making it very easy to clean.

The harness is also crotchless. We found that mid anal play he couldn't be laying back and watching and would assume his usual role and take over while she continued to wear the strapon, so sexy!


We definitely recommend this kit for any couple looking into role reversal. We would not recommend this for use on women; the dildos are far too small and thin to provide substantial g-spot stimulation. Overall this kit is a great way to begin exploring male anal play.


Role reversal is not something to begin by just getting a strapon and bending over. Men should explore on themselves or with a partner by hand. As with any type of anal play, cleanliness is highly recommended and will make for a much more enjoyable play date. We recommend the Colt Anal Douche be used an hour or so before play begins. If you cannot use the douche, use babywipes or similar to clean externally.


Most importantly, make sure to use lots of lube. We recommend Boy Butter as it is safe with silicone toys, easy to clean, and does not dry out during use.