Bend over intermediate kit - dildo harness by Tantus - review by Moo

Personally, I absolutely love this kit. I bought the small silk a while back (this was the first toy I ever used for penetration). When I decided that I wanted to "step it up," I decided to stick with the Silk family and buy this kit for my partner and myself.

The dildos are both completely smooth. I love the silicone material; they bend so well with the body (which is great for beginners). The Large Silk has a more bulbous head than the others, which I personally find noticeable (not in a bad way). My partner and I both use these, so I like how easily they can be wiped off/cleaned. Much easier to clean than toys that do have ridges/texture. I primarily clean these using toy cleaner and/or soap and water. If you have a pet that sheds (which I do), these will attract some hair. But not nearly as much as a material such as jelly. And again, super easy to clean.

The harness is pretty good. I'm a bit chubby, and my partner is plus size, and it fits both of us. One of the straps (that snaps around the o-ring) did break a little after we got it. Not too difficult of a fix, but it did happen. The straps are easily adjustable, and pretty comfy overall. I sometimes wear underwear underneath the straps, but I'm fine not to; it's not so uncomfortable that I HAVE to create a barrier between the straps and my skin.

I enjoy the vibrating bullet. But as with all bullets, it of course requires teeny watch batteries which I haven't replaced since the ones included died. How well the bullet actually works depends a lot on the position. I noticed it most of the time, but other times not as much, and its vibrations aren't that strong. But again, it's a bullet, so that's to be expected.

In terms of use with a strap-on, the medium can be difficult to use, depending on the position. It's not too difficult with a position such as Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl, but expect it to not stay in if you want to try something like Doggy style; it's just not long enough. The large one, on the other hand, is great for all the positions my partner and I have tried; we haven't really had any issues with it coming out.