Bend over intermediate kit - harness and dildo set by Tantus - review by MM4Play

A great way to start anal play

This is for any couple looking to explore anal play. Both dildos in this kit are perfect for beginners. The harness is odd for her at first but once on everything seems to work as normal. Interchanging between the dildos is easy enough mid play and highly recommended to start with the small every time you play (until you graduate to larger toys)
Easy to use
Easy to clean
Small enough to start without any discomfort
not long enough.
bullet vibe is poor quality
Rating by reviewer:
somewhat useful review
We purchased this to explore role reversal. Perfectly sized for someone beginning to receive anal penetration. We had previously used small vibrators and dildos for anal play and both of the dildos in this package fit nicely. We started with the smaller of the two dildos but found that we used both every time we played. The smaller toy worked as a great way to loosen up and relax. Once relaxed, the larger toy slid right in and really hit the spot.

The harness is comfortable and has a small pocket for a bullet vibe. She found the bullet weak and also uncomfortable as the dildo pressed against the bullet during play. We have not tried this yet, but a We-Vibe would be a greeat toy to try to help satisfy her. The harness is easily adjustable and will fit almost any size. The straps are nylon strapping and the purple fabric front is removable and washable, making it very easy to clean.

The harness is also crotchless. We found that mid anal play he couldn't be laying back and watching and would assume his usual role and take over while she continued to wear the strapon, so sexy!

We definitely recommend this kit for any couple looking into role reversal. We would not recommend this for use on women; the dildos are far too small and thin to provide substantial g-spot stimulation. Overall this kit is a great way to begin exploring male anal play.

Role reversal is not something to begin by just getting a strapon and bending over. Men should explore on themselves or with a partner by hand. As with any type of anal play, cleanliness is highly recommended and will make for a much more enjoyable play date. We recommend the Colt Anal Douche be used an hour or so before play begins. If you cannot use the douche, use babywipes or similar to clean externally.

Most importantly, make sure to use lots of lube. We recommend Boy Butter as it is safe with silicone toys, easy to clean, and does not dry out during use.
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My Bend over intermediate kit tags
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Can be worn during intercourse
    • Couples
    • Pegging
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Bath / shower
    • Bedroom / on a bed
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • P-spot
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  • Jenyana
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