The Butterfly Kiss: What Absolom the Caterpillar Became After Alice Left
The Butterfly Kiss was my first vibrator, and I was not disappointed. I've had it for over a year now, and it's still working fine. It's waterproof, powerful, and easy to clean. This little guy is an excellent partner, and I hope he sticks around for a long time.Published: May 22, 2011
Pros:
Excellent vibrations. Waterproof. Easy to clean.
Cons:
Kind of sucks battery life. Occasionally makes strange noises.
First off, the Butterfly Kiss is an excellent vibrator for beginners; I was a beginner when I bought this toy.
The Butterfly Kiss is a total of 7" in length, and its diameter is 1 1/8". It takes 2 AAA batteries and has a single push-button for the controls. The shaft is non-intimidating, and there is a bulb at the end to help stimulate the g-spot. The butterfly is meant to stimulate the clit, and it feels amazing. The clitoral stimulation of this toy is top notch.
The vibrations of the Butterfly Kiss are split up into three levels: low, medium, and high. That may not sound very exciting, but the high vibrations are decently strong and are capable of causing some serious orgasms. The bulk of the vibrations are concentrated in the clitoral stimulator (the butterfly) where the motor is. The vibrations travel up the shaft and cause the bulbed head of the shaft to wiggle against the g-spot. When the batteries start to die, the vibrations become weaker (as with a lot of sex toys). As this toy is a year old now and is on the rather cheap side, its battery life has gotten shorter and shorter throughout my use of it. The batteries will only last about an hour on high now. The toy still provides excellent stimulation despite its shorter battery life.
The toy is also waterproof! I have submerged my Butterfly Kiss in water and used it in the shower, so I have tested it and all tests were successful. Since the toy is waterproof, that means it is a snap to clean. I use warm water and soap, but alcohol wipes should be fine, too.
The Butterfly Kiss is made of jelly material. When it was new, the toy never had any sort of smell or stench to it. It looked very clean. It's up to you if you choose to use the toy with a condom, but it would be difficult due to the shape of the vibe. I personally do not use a condom on this toy. Since the toy is so flexible, it's not possible to press the bulbed head into the g-spot effectively, but the vibrations feel wonderful and strong inside.
My Butterfly Kiss has not had any physical deformations, but I do keep my jelly toys from touching each other after hearing some of the other reviewers' horror stories about how their toy melted in the heat or when it was placed on another jelly toy. I have NOT had this experience with mine, but I do try to prevent it by storing it in a cool place and separated from my other toys.
Since the controls and care for this toy are very simple, I would recommend this toy to any beginner. Advanced users that like bigger toys might be disappointed by this toy because the shaft is very thin and may not fit properly in a vagina used to thicker and longer penetration. Users looking to find a decent g-spot vibe that fits their budget will love this toy.
The noise level of the Butterfly Kiss isn't that loud. On the highest setting, there is a loud buzzing, but it's easily hidden under the covers and through a shut door. The actual feel of the toy is "squishy." Since the toy is jelly, the texture is soft and supple; the wings and antennae of the butterfly are easily bent, and the shaft is flexible and easily adjusted. The embossed heart pattern on the handle of the vibrator helps with gripping and also adds a bit of cuteness. The weight of the toy isn't all that heavy either. It's quite light, actually.
The actual design of the toy is for the clit and g-spot to be stimulated. My g-spot is located closer to my vaginal opening, so the bulb didn't hit it the right way. The vibe still feels amazing inside though. The vibrations travel up the shaft rather well and skillfully tease the vaginal walls. The clitoral-stimulating butterfly is heavenly. The antennae of the butterfly flutter gently against you, and the ridges on the body of the butterfly provide an interesting sensation along the clit that is quite pleasurable. I have used lubricant with this toy. I used a water based lubricant that EdenFantasys doesn't carry. Overall, this toy performs its functions rather well.
The Butterfly Kiss is an excellent vibe for beginners. It's a nice alternative to getting a boring, traditional vibrator as a first one.
The Butterfly Kiss is a total of 7" in length, and its diameter is 1 1/8". It takes 2 AAA batteries and has a single push-button for the controls. The shaft is non-intimidating, and there is a bulb at the end to help stimulate the g-spot. The butterfly is meant to stimulate the clit, and it feels amazing. The clitoral stimulation of this toy is top notch.
The vibrations of the Butterfly Kiss are split up into three levels: low, medium, and high. That may not sound very exciting, but the high vibrations are decently strong and are capable of causing some serious orgasms. The bulk of the vibrations are concentrated in the clitoral stimulator (the butterfly) where the motor is. The vibrations travel up the shaft and cause the bulbed head of the shaft to wiggle against the g-spot. When the batteries start to die, the vibrations become weaker (as with a lot of sex toys). As this toy is a year old now and is on the rather cheap side, its battery life has gotten shorter and shorter throughout my use of it. The batteries will only last about an hour on high now. The toy still provides excellent stimulation despite its shorter battery life.
The toy is also waterproof! I have submerged my Butterfly Kiss in water and used it in the shower, so I have tested it and all tests were successful. Since the toy is waterproof, that means it is a snap to clean. I use warm water and soap, but alcohol wipes should be fine, too.
The Butterfly Kiss is made of jelly material. When it was new, the toy never had any sort of smell or stench to it. It looked very clean. It's up to you if you choose to use the toy with a condom, but it would be difficult due to the shape of the vibe. I personally do not use a condom on this toy. Since the toy is so flexible, it's not possible to press the bulbed head into the g-spot effectively, but the vibrations feel wonderful and strong inside.
My Butterfly Kiss has not had any physical deformations, but I do keep my jelly toys from touching each other after hearing some of the other reviewers' horror stories about how their toy melted in the heat or when it was placed on another jelly toy. I have NOT had this experience with mine, but I do try to prevent it by storing it in a cool place and separated from my other toys.
Since the controls and care for this toy are very simple, I would recommend this toy to any beginner. Advanced users that like bigger toys might be disappointed by this toy because the shaft is very thin and may not fit properly in a vagina used to thicker and longer penetration. Users looking to find a decent g-spot vibe that fits their budget will love this toy.
The noise level of the Butterfly Kiss isn't that loud. On the highest setting, there is a loud buzzing, but it's easily hidden under the covers and through a shut door. The actual feel of the toy is "squishy." Since the toy is jelly, the texture is soft and supple; the wings and antennae of the butterfly are easily bent, and the shaft is flexible and easily adjusted. The embossed heart pattern on the handle of the vibrator helps with gripping and also adds a bit of cuteness. The weight of the toy isn't all that heavy either. It's quite light, actually.
The actual design of the toy is for the clit and g-spot to be stimulated. My g-spot is located closer to my vaginal opening, so the bulb didn't hit it the right way. The vibe still feels amazing inside though. The vibrations travel up the shaft rather well and skillfully tease the vaginal walls. The clitoral-stimulating butterfly is heavenly. The antennae of the butterfly flutter gently against you, and the ridges on the body of the butterfly provide an interesting sensation along the clit that is quite pleasurable. I have used lubricant with this toy. I used a water based lubricant that EdenFantasys doesn't carry. Overall, this toy performs its functions rather well.
The Butterfly Kiss is an excellent vibe for beginners. It's a nice alternative to getting a boring, traditional vibrator as a first one.
Experience
I'd suggest using this toy in the bedroom and bathroom only. It's not very discreet despite its adorableness, and it could be quite embarrassing if it was discovered by someone other than you. Through my year of having this toy, it has never broken, but occasionally, it makes a weird noise if I start it up. The only way I can describe the noise is that it's like one of those noise-makers at New Year's (those cone-shaped ones that come in metallic colors and make the high-pitched annoying sound). It stops making the noise after I've let it rest for a while (I usually just don't use it that day if it makes that noise), but I've yet to discover why it does it. I think it might have something to do with the fact that I wear it out so much. The battery life seems to get shorter and shorter as time goes on, but I'd readily buy another if it completely goes ka-putt.
This is a really good vibrator, and I plan to keep it a part of my Fun Box as long as I can.
This is a really good vibrator, and I plan to keep it a part of my Fun Box as long as I can.
Follow-up commentary
1 month after original review
It finally broke on me. I will look for another, though! This will remain a part of my box because it is an excellent vibrator and it was my first. I'm just nostalgic like that.
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Blue more expensive?
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Anyone know why the blue is more expensive than the pink? They're the same, right? So why is one more expensive?
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I've never noticed.
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Quote: Anyone know why the blue is more expensive than the pink? They're the same, right? So why is one more expensive?Send in a ticket, see what customer service says.
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i have experiment attraction to women,,, i´m bicurious?
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hi my name is yesenia paris,, and i´m 22 but since i was in high school i kind of have curiosity for girls,, i never like really kiss a girl or anything or i never had any female friend to experiment that, like i am very shy person and also like a lonely girl,, althought i am a very pleasant person and i good human being ,, noone seens to like me,,, but although of that matter i still feel the curiosity may because i have never been with a girl before
does that make a bisexual,a bicurious,of it just because the loneliness or the lock of friends,, like i never have a real
girl friend ,, like it´s samething that happens with boys,, you are not friends with them ,, but you like them in a different way,,, i always thing it´s because my loneliness
and the need of an another ,, girl being friends with me i also don´t have a mom to call and talk about my problems maybe it´s because of that the confusion thanks have a nice day -
Someone made a similar post a while back, and I'll basically tell you what we told her. Don't follow stereotypes. Don't label yourself. If you are interested in girls, then you just are. If you haven't experimented with girls, personally I feel that when I liked someone it isn't based on any particular factor, it is based on the person themselves. I tell people I am bisexual, but really I think of myself as pansexual, not limiting emotion and attraction to anything. Not gender, not age, not race, not social status.
I think that sometimes people can become lonely and will "settle", making them open their views and ideas of dating up, to allow "just anyone" to enter into their lives. My boyfriend was this way, before meeting me, dating anyone who would say yes because he had no friends, and had been hurt and heartbroken so badly he just wanted to feel loved and accepted. I also have a straight friend who dated women just so she could have someone to date, but she wasn't attracted to them, although she liked to experiment and have fun, she says she is straight, but I don't give her a label.
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Excellent advice Peggi and I second that. We don't need labels...we're just people. I'm a good listener too.
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What's up with different Butterfly Kisses?
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When I bought my Butterfly Kiss I thought there were only 2 versions - the standard and the Platinum Edition. Since I couldn't find the PE in my country I went with the regular one. I was so bent on getting it after watching Kara Sutra's review of it. She said it was TPR. I got my Butterfly Kiss. On the packaging (plastic shell with a piece of paper) it said that it's "phthalate-free" and made of TPR. I'm inclined to believe it as it didn't smell, didn't turn ugly yellow even when I had it for more than a year, didn't sting my bits (jelly does).
Now, however I see those jelly Butterfly Kisses. What's the deal? Was my vibe mis-labeled or are there more than 2 versions? I still have the paper insert from the packaging if you'd like to see it. The vibe itself looks a bit more opaque than what I see in EF catalog - it's always looked like this.
I would also ask people from EF who deal with the Review Program. Is my Butterfly Kiss same as yours (and thus qualifies for a review) or is it a different product? -
Hi there!! California Exotic Novelties was the 1st to come out with this fantastic design. & yes we only have 2 versions, the platinum & the original. Check it out on our website link
Many other companies have tried to duplicate our product but have had no success. We are the original creators with the best product :) Hope this helps! -
All butterfly Kiss items are made from Safe&Pure TPR
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i used this one and after
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my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got off
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Quote: my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got offIt's the jelly - throw it away or always use a condom. Look for better materials like silicone or VixSkin.
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I wouldn't even use a condom...just get rid of it and stay away from the material.
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Jelly Deformation?
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Well I loved this little bugger and it came at a bargain so I suppose I can't complain too much. But I whipped it out for play tonight only to find that the jelly seems to have dented and deformed itself on the lovely bulbous head. I had it in a pocket next to my turbo glider and I suspect with some heat and pressure, that's the culprit that did this. It has very odd dents/suctionish things on it now.
Is this prone to happen to jelly toys? Could it have been the California summer heat? I would like to prevent this from happening in the future.
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It is my experience that jelly toys just deteriorate really fast...the heat may have sped up this process though. I do know heat can cause more phthalates to leak out of jelly. It probably just kind of melted on you a little. I would have to say you should go ahead and get a new one or better yet, find a comparible toy in silicone! Silicone can be boiled so, heat shouldn't be an issue with it at all! It always sucks when one of your favorites melts.
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Does your house get pretty warm? I've never had that problem and I live in AZ. Was it touching the turbo glider? Sounds like a toy material interaction to me.
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