is it okay for an 18 year old girl to date a 32 year old guy?

Moniqua Moniqua
It's their choice.
10/14/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
It depends on a lot of factors. Maturity level, life plans, etc.
10/14/2012
Velocity Velocity
Age doesn't matter, the only thing that stands as an obstacle is maturity levels.
Love is love though, and thats all that matters.
10/31/2012
Rory Rory
I said its fine but only as long as she is mature. I have known a few 18 year olds that were not but by the time they were 20 or 21 they were mature.
11/01/2012
Sparowfang Sparowfang
I don't see why not. I've been there.
11/02/2012
pussy licker pussy licker
it's fine with me
11/08/2012
RememberMe RememberMe
Quote:
Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
It may be, but I would seriously question his motives.
11/13/2012
Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
It really depends on the person. I've dated people with a significant age difference.
11/13/2012
Quackinator Quackinator
Quote:
Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
Don't. He's just gonna use you for sex.
11/13/2012
Ivanna Ivanna
ehh it depends on the people and the relationship if he's just a creeper looking for a teenage play toy then no I dont but if it's deeper than that then sure why not
11/13/2012
Inkkythesquid Inkkythesquid
If she's 18, i don't see a problem
11/18/2012
hmb12 hmb12
I have a friend whose dad is going through some mid-life crisis where he wont date anyone older than 26 and he's in his 50s. I find it really strange, but my biggest concern is the motive for an older guy to go after an 18 year old and her really trust him.

For the man I'm talking about, I think he just likes the look of these women and then realizes they aren't that intelligent or that they are after money and then he breaks it off and sulks for a while.
11/20/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
why is a 32 year old man going after a 18 year old?
exactly my thought!!!
11/20/2012
sweet&lush sweet&lush
If she wants him and vice verse I think it's perfectly fine.
12/10/2012
EmuLove EmuLove
I dated a 37 year old when I was 18 (I hadn't even graduated high school yet). We got married going on 3 years now
12/18/2012
apple4me apple4me
I'm not sure that a relationship could last with that sort of age gap, but good luck.
12/19/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
the dick part kind of answer the bigger question
12/19/2012
shorejen9 shorejen9
I see no problem with this. My husband and I have been together for ten years and we are eleven years apart. My parents have been married for 33 years and are thirteen years apart. When my daughter is 18, she's two now, she will be an adult and I will hope she dates a good person regardless of age.
12/19/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
You're an adult now...you may do as you please.
12/21/2012
wwwww wwwww
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
The assumptions on this thread are amazing.

I was 18, he was 34. TWELVE years later we're going strong.
Agreed
12/21/2012
shnsmth6 shnsmth6
Quote:
Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
if you're happy
01/22/2013
fizzygato fizzygato
Yes, absolutely.

As long as they both want it, and are able to communicate their wants and needs with each other. Some people criticize me for playing with a 40 year old dude and other older people (even though I don't like any of them "that way") but I don't care

When I was 15 my family tried arresting my bf for being 18. I think varied- age relationships can work
01/22/2013
novanilla novanilla
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
why is a 32 year old man going after a 18 year old?
this.

I don't think it should be illegal or anything, but it's just fucking weird.

32-year-old men dating 18-year-old women scream creep to me.
01/23/2013
Bleu Bleu
I find the guy more creepy than I find her. I'm honestly okay with it as long as the younger one prepares for what could possibly happen.
01/23/2013
purpledesert purpledesert
It is really dependent on maturity.
01/28/2013
Llahsram Llahsram
Why should it matter?
01/30/2013
falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
there is nothing necessarily wrong with it, but both people are going to be in very different places in their lives so it probably wouldnt work. priorities are just different.
01/30/2013
Nurse Katie Nurse Katie
Quote:
Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
If both people want to be with each other then I think it's fine
01/30/2013
edeneve edeneve
would need more info. about them & the situation to give a real opinion.
01/30/2013
Nickki Hard Nickki Hard
I married my first husband 2 months after I turned 18. guess how old he was at the time...wait for it.... wait for it... 44! Yes no lie I ran away two months after I turned 18 we had only been dating for about a month and he was 44 at the time. My mom and dad were so mad at me.
01/30/2013
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