A Rather Expensive Mistake?

An expensive way for females to experience ED... the Feeldoe is a great concept, but not intended for mere mortals.
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Pros:
Sporting a blue penis is kind of fun...
Cons:
Too heavy, weak vibe, and too large for my man. Just not for beginners.
Rating by reviewer:
2
useful review
My husband has wanted me to anally penetrate him for quite some time. The whole idea really excites him, but I've been truly nervous. I dread hurting him and turning what should be an adventure into a nightmare.

I bought a Feeldoe slim with the idea that he'd want to start small. I chose to practice my technique before springing my "erection" on him, and I'm glad I did. The Feeldoe is *heavy*, and even though I do plenty of Kegel exercises, I found it very difficult to maintain my fake erection. The bulb is large, and I didn't find it hard to hold on to, but it was the weight that made it bob around unsteadily. It pushed against my vaginal walls uncomfortably, and I couldn't seem to keep it facing forward.

The ridges are in the wrong spot for me. I've found this to be the case with other sex toys as well - my clitoris seems to be higher than those of other women. These ridges are tough too, and I got a little bit of irritation and chaffing while wearing it. The little insertable vibe feels pretty darn weak when it's inside the stiff silicone, and the batteries didn't last very long at all. I think I got a grand total of 90 minutes out of it (I removed it from the Feeldoe to use separately, which is a nice feature).

I decided not to risk hurting myself or my husband, so instead of holding it with my vagina, I used my hand that first time. I'm so glad I did - he found the angle to be awkward, the silicone to be too stiff, and the diameter a little too much to start with.

Perhaps we were rushing things by going straight to the Feeldoe. I've got it tucked away in the toy drawer for some future date when we've got a vagina and buns of steel. More experienced couples might enjoy the challenge, but my next anal toy purchase will be a sturdy harness and a very thin strap-on.
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Comments
  • Sleeping Dreamer
    Sleeping Dreamer  
    Great review! Welcome to the community. Rabbit
  • Dame Demi
    Dame Demi  
    "An expensive way for females to experience ED" -- omg, TOO funny!
  • Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
    Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady  
    Nice review. Be sure to let us know when you get "a vagina and buns of steel" LOL
  • Jimbo Jones
    Jimbo Jones  
    It's interesting how some find the Feeldoe very easy to hold vaginally and some have a very hard time with it. My partner is in the same camp as you in that it is hard for her to hold without additional support from a harness. The creator of the Feeldoe wasn't really thinking of "pegging" when she invented it, but it has been stolen for that use even though the kegel muscles are almost always going to lose a battle against an anal sphincter. The slim Feeldoe is not the smallest of toys, girth wise, so it may require some preparation for an anal beginner. I don't think it was a bad choice, necessarily, but it is going to take some work or additional help. Thanks for the honest review.
  • Betty Rocket
    Betty Rocket  
    Work them Kegels!!! Smile

    You will be able to work this one into your routines, it just takes practice!

    Great review!
  • Red
    Red  
    Good review! There certainly is a learning curve with the feeldoe; the easiest position is you laying down with it inserted and him on top - which is a challenging anal position unfortunately. I would really recommend getting a simple harness (example) to secure it in place. I wouldn't dream of using my feeldoe without a harness, it's just not possible to clench and do wide legged thrusting stances.

    You are very right about the ridges and inflexability as well. It isn't exactly right. The Share is an improvement on the design; easier to hold in, softer, and more stimulating to the wearer. Good luck with future feeldoe experimenting!
  • Red
    Red  
    Oh wait I have more useful advice. You will find that wearing a bittplug may help you hold the feeldoe a bit better (the butt plug will have the effect of making you tighten up). Play with it solo before you use it with a partner again - get a feel for what you can and can't do with it.

    Also it really isn't the best starter anal toy - but if you get the simple harness I recommended in my last comment, you can get a smaller toy to pave the way and use it with your harness.
  • Opal
    Opal  
    Thanks for the warm welcome, all! I have actually been a reviewer for over a year, but I had to take an extended break. I just love Eden Fantasys - it's the only website I constantly recommend to my friends!
  • Opal
    Opal  
    Red - Thanks so very much for the recommendation! I think the idea of using a butt plug at the same time is an excellent idea. We don't own a harness yet, but when (wrote "if" the first time... ha!) we get one, I'll give it a shot and write a follow-up review. Smile
  • Victoria
    Victoria  
    Thanks for the review - it looks like you got tons of helpful advice already Smile
  • whoops
    I just bought this for the wife & I to use. She gives new meaning to the word prude. I had hoped that this would let out her wild side, if there was one, or at least show her my wild side. Now I am worried that things will go horribly wrong!
  • Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
    Viktor Vysheslav Malkin  
    Nice review! Big smile
  • dhig
    dhig  
    Thanks for reviewing
  • Naughtyboy
    Naughtyboy  
    Thanks for the review!
  • bayosgirl
    bayosgirl  
  • r00ster
    r00ster  
    thanks
  • PassionCpl
    PassionCpl  
    Nice review. We've found that those little ridges don't do anything for us either
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