Feeldoe slim vs. Share?

Contributor: Spilock Spilock
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I'm wanting to finally get a double ended strapon soon, but I'm stuck deciding between the two. My goal is to have something slimmer on the receiver's end, and the feeldoe slim looks to be about the right size. However, the share's bulb looks like it would be much better for my wife, and it seems to taper down in size quite a bit.

So, which one would you guys recommend? Would the share be noticeably larger for me as a receiver? Should I just go with the feeldoe slim?
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Contributor: hails5988 hails5988
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Originally posted by Spilock
I'm wanting to finally get a double ended strapon soon, but I'm stuck deciding between the two. My goal is to have something slimmer on the receiver's end, and the feeldoe slim looks to be about the right size. However, the share's ... more
I would go with the share. The feeldoe is not really worth what you pay for it. The vibrator is minimal (while it last) and its hard for the receiver to be pleasured. Also, its very difficult to keep the feeldoe instereted into the giver. I believe you would be happier with the share!
10/24/2011
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Consider that the Share is larger than the Slim on the receiver's end. Did you also consider the Nexus Jr.?
10/25/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
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Originally posted by hails5988
I would go with the share. The feeldoe is not really worth what you pay for it. The vibrator is minimal (while it last) and its hard for the receiver to be pleasured. Also, its very difficult to keep the feeldoe instereted into the giver. I ... more
Haven't tried the share, but hubby and I had a g/f who owned a Feeldoe and had exactly the problems you mention.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
Those problems are the main thing that have me worried about the slim. It does certainly look nice, but I don't know how well it would work for us.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
For what it's worth, I ended up going with the Share. It's not nearly as large as I was expecting it to be, which is a pleasant surprise, so I don't think it'll be a problem for us at all. I'll have a review on it up eventually.
02/19/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Spilock
For what it's worth, I ended up going with the Share. It's not nearly as large as I was expecting it to be, which is a pleasant surprise, so I don't think it'll be a problem for us at all. I'll have a review on it up eventually.
The Share also has a gradual taper to the maximum circumference, so you can easily "work up to it".
02/20/2012
Contributor: elfshot elfshot
I owned two Feeldoes; the slim and the stout.

I found that they both worked fine for f/f play, but the slim is a little floppy. The stout is a bit sturdier, but the extra weight kind of pulls it down when you wear it. Definitely a kegel workout!

For f/m play, the extra length on the slim made it easier to wear with a harness, but it wasn't as firm as I wanted. Without a harness, it's really difficult to use for anal play.

I think the Share will be my choice in the future; The Feeldoe was fun, but the Share looks like a better design, overall.
03/07/2012
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
If I had to go with one, it would be the Share. But I'm not sold on the whole double ended concept yet. Neither one seems to stay in very well for the giver.
03/07/2012
Contributor: Alex Time Alex Time
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Originally posted by Spilock
For what it's worth, I ended up going with the Share. It's not nearly as large as I was expecting it to be, which is a pleasant surprise, so I don't think it'll be a problem for us at all. I'll have a review on it up eventually.
Hey spilock. Let us know how you guys got on with the share.
04/04/2012
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
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Originally posted by Alex Time
Hey spilock. Let us know how you guys got on with the share.
To be blunt, we haven't. I've used it a few times solo myself, but it's significantly more rigid than my usual (one of the Doc Johnson Ballsy Cocks) and it is much more pokey as a result. My wife managed to get the givers end in, but we advisably did so without much warmup before hand, and it left her significantly sore. Due to college and the previous experience we haven't actually used it for its purpose yet.

My current verdict is that it may not be bad, assuming the receiver can find a good position and the giver is comfortable with large girths or has something large to warm up with (at least 1.5" diameter or slightly more). At any rate, when I do eventually get around to the review, I suspect that ours will be positive, but not glowing.
04/09/2012
Contributor: redhead1977 redhead1977
My friend swears by her Feeldoe.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Vadim50 Vadim50
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Originally posted by redhead1977
My friend swears by her Feeldoe.
exactly
08/08/2012
Contributor: Robert Paulson Robert Paulson
Used to have a feeldoe more, I got rid of it because it was too big for me to handle comfortably. Now I'm thinking about getting the Slim. The share looks as if it would still be too big for me.
12/13/2012
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
I have a Realdoe, and I'm very happy with the design. I can't say anything about the Share, since I haven't seen or played with one yet.
02/01/2013