The only one that pisses me off royally is when a guy asks if I'm going to cum. Then I start thinking about it and there is no way in hell it is happening. I need to be relaxed and in the moment damnit! I know it's because he wants to make me cum and enjoy myself and that is wonderful, really but good God, ask me after. I never hold it over a guy if I didn't orgasm, I'm more than happy to give pointers. And you know what boys? I might even be willing to show you those pointers if you're willing to learn!
My current boyfriend was always worrying about making me cum, I had to explain to him that I personally don't need to cum to enjoy sex and feel satisfied. I also gave him ideas that would increase the chances of him giving me a g-spot orgasm and he was WONDERFUL about listening and understanding! And man oh man did he LEARN!
Men really do care about pleasing women and I think it is great! Sometimes they just have terrible timing! Love you boys, I really do!