3 B's & P - Beginner's Best Butt Plug
As butt plugs go, and for sure I'm no expert... yet, this one is great for the beginner. It's small size and smooth texture make it a perfect choice for those just starting out.Published: November 21, 2010
Pros:
Nice shape, color, and small size.
Cons:
Nothing in my book.
What do you call a hetero sexual guy who found himself looking forward to prostate examinations, colonoscopies, and enemas? Me... LOL.
Being in the late summer of life doesn't mean you can't try new things and follow some urges that you've been ignoring most of your life. In this case, following the occasional finger up the ass while masturbating, I was inclined to experiment more seriously with anal devices. I was always fascinated by the concept of using a butt plug. Trouble was, every plug I happened to see or search for seemed more like a butt exploding plug. Way too big to be safe and pleasant, at least for a beginner. That's when I happened upon the "Plug of Lust - small" at Eden Fantasies web site.
It was love at first site. Nice and small, smooth, translucent and inviting. I couldn't wait to give it a whirl. That's when the real fun began! Three times on three seperate occasions I tried to lube it up and work it in, but no enchilada. What's up with that I wondered? My wife always called me a starched shirt (my preferred dress attire), but a sphincter muscle that won't relax can be very irritating.
So I searched the cloud and next attempt tried some of the wonderful stuff I had read. I was relaxed with no stress apparent, had just done a dubbie and had some great Capri Anderson videos rolling. I applied lube, and massaged my anus gently, while softly pressing my muscles as if to take a bowl movement. Caution don't try this at home unless you've full and complete evacuation in the near term :-)). So... should be good to go right... not so fast!! The darn thing would still not clear my iron sphincter! :-((
If you've read my last review you already know I'm not one to give up without a fight, so I kept at it. Finally, I pushed very hard and like magic, the gates opened, trumpets sounded, and my anus gobbled up the plug! Holly shit, I thought, this is what I've been missing.
Needless to say at this point, there was a very happy ending achieved and I felt all my preparation was indeed worth while.
Can't help but wonder though if I'm different than most? Can't believe it should be this hard. I'm now searching for some sphincter relaxing spray or jell, so if anyone out there know of one that really works, I'd be very happy to hear from you.
Being in the late summer of life doesn't mean you can't try new things and follow some urges that you've been ignoring most of your life. In this case, following the occasional finger up the ass while masturbating, I was inclined to experiment more seriously with anal devices. I was always fascinated by the concept of using a butt plug. Trouble was, every plug I happened to see or search for seemed more like a butt exploding plug. Way too big to be safe and pleasant, at least for a beginner. That's when I happened upon the "Plug of Lust - small" at Eden Fantasies web site.
It was love at first site. Nice and small, smooth, translucent and inviting. I couldn't wait to give it a whirl. That's when the real fun began! Three times on three seperate occasions I tried to lube it up and work it in, but no enchilada. What's up with that I wondered? My wife always called me a starched shirt (my preferred dress attire), but a sphincter muscle that won't relax can be very irritating.
So I searched the cloud and next attempt tried some of the wonderful stuff I had read. I was relaxed with no stress apparent, had just done a dubbie and had some great Capri Anderson videos rolling. I applied lube, and massaged my anus gently, while softly pressing my muscles as if to take a bowl movement. Caution don't try this at home unless you've full and complete evacuation in the near term :-)). So... should be good to go right... not so fast!! The darn thing would still not clear my iron sphincter! :-((
If you've read my last review you already know I'm not one to give up without a fight, so I kept at it. Finally, I pushed very hard and like magic, the gates opened, trumpets sounded, and my anus gobbled up the plug! Holly shit, I thought, this is what I've been missing.
Needless to say at this point, there was a very happy ending achieved and I felt all my preparation was indeed worth while.
Can't help but wonder though if I'm different than most? Can't believe it should be this hard. I'm now searching for some sphincter relaxing spray or jell, so if anyone out there know of one that really works, I'd be very happy to hear from you.
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Mirror, mirror on the wall . . . who is the smallest, least intimidating butt plug of them all?
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I am completely new to anal play. Well, at least I am almost completely new: I have been attempting to get started for a couple of weeks now since my husband has expressed interest in trying anal sex.
Sadly, however, I have had a difficult time using what many reviewers have deemed as the perfect beginner's butt plug. It seems as though I need something even smaller than the following, all of which I have tried and find either very difficult to insert and/or too uncomfortable to wear for even a short period of time (and, yes, I do use a thick anal lube and try to insert gently and slowly):
Tantus Little Flirt (seems too long for my comfort)
Tantus Ripple (the last bead is too thick in diameter and it also is too long for me to fully insert comfortably)
FunFactory Bootie (the bulged head makes it very painful to insert, even going slowly and gently, and I find it too filling to wear comfortably for long, once it is in)
I am very sad that I am not "progressing" in anal play. Are there any smaller butt plugs out there to help me ease into using -- and hopefully even enjoying -- my *beginner* plugs so that I can eventually work up to trying anal sex?
Ironically, my husband has also just started to experiment with anal play to massage his prostate and he has even been able to use our Nexus G-rider with no problem. I don't understand why I am still stuck at the *pre-beginner* stage!
Thanks for any advice! I appreciate it. -
Quote: I am completely new to anal play. Well, at least I am almost completely new: I have been attempting to get started for a couple of weeks now since my husband has expressed interest in trying anal sex.Oh, I forgot to ask if the small Plug of Lust should be easier to use than the Tantus Little Flirt, Tantus Small Ripple, and FunFactory Bootie! Any other suggestions would be most appreciated, too.
Sadly, however, I have had a difficult time using what many reviewers have deemed as the perfect beginner's butt plug. It seems as though I need something even smaller than the following, all of which I have tried and find either very difficult to insert and/or too uncomfortable to wear for even a short period of time (and, yes, I do use a thick anal lube and try to insert gently and slowly):
Tantus Little Flirt (seems too long for my comfort)
Tantus Ripple (the last bead is too thick in diameter and it also is too long for me to fully insert comfortably)
FunFactory Bootie (the bulged head makes it very painful to insert, even going slowly and gently, and I find it too filling to wear comfortably for long, once it is in)
I am very sad that I am not "progressing" in anal play. Are there any smaller butt plugs out there to help me ease into using -- and hopefully even enjoying -- my *beginner* plugs so that I can eventually work up to trying anal sex?
Ironically, my husband has also just started to experiment with anal play to massage his prostate and he has even been able to use our Nexus G-rider with no problem. I don't understand why I am still stuck at the *pre-beginner* stage!
Thanks for any advice! I appreciate it. -
At that price, the Plug of Lust is tough to beat. If price is not an object, then I might go for the Fun Factory Bootie instead because I think the base is better for long term wear. Another consideration if price were no object would be the Bob pleasure object.
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Thank you for viewing Plug of lust small – sex toy review page!
Glad you like it and sorry it took so long to enjoy it. More time spent with butt play will make it easier.
To make this a good review we need information on the toy, like the material, care of it and lube compatibility. Not just your experience. If you are of the mind look into the Mentor program, you will get great advice from knowledgeable people that are willing to help, like me. You can also read review's to find the way to write a good review.
I definitely concur with what Dwtim said, and would like to add, as a safety note, that you shouldn't use numbing creams or gels for anal usage, because they can deaden sensation too much and, should something bad happen like a perforated colon, rips or tears, etc, you wouldn't feel the pain as intensely as you would without it and would continue, further risking your safety.
Agree with the others - try out the mentor program and all it has to offer for writing reviews.
Thanks for the good advice... I'll be sure to do as you suggest.
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