This toy was definitely designed
The Feeldoe was created by a woman for lesbian use, but I’ve never been one to ignore a toy so revolutionary just because it wasn’t necessarily made for me. It really interested me for a few different reasons. I thought it would make for a unique “pegging” experience because, ideally, my partner would have some stimulation while she was stimulating me. I was also interested in the ability to use it for
double penetration on my partner which has always been a fascination of mine.
I chose the
Feeldoe Slim instead of the
regular or
stout versions because I was somewhat new to the concept of “pegging” and didn’t want to make it an uncomfortable experience. Although the Feeldoe concept is relatively unique, it isn’t really all that conducive to “pegging.” My partner found it too difficult to keep the bulb end in her vagina while the other end was inside my ass. We ended up pulling out the harness to continue the session. The harness allowed her to have good control over the movement of the Feeldoe and she said that she liked it more than a
traditional dildo in the harness because it did provide her with additional stimulation and control. I enjoyed the curve of the shaft end of the Feeldoe very much and enjoyed the
prostate stimulation that it delivered. The silicone material is conducive to transmitting vibrations, and it does come with a small bullet vibrator and batteries, which is nice. The vibrations didn’t add much to my “pegging” experience as the thrusting was the prominent motion involved.
On another occasion (after appropriate sterilization, of course) it was time for some double penetration on my partner. After some warm up on my end I was able to get the bulb end inserted anally pretty easily. I must say, I found it interesting having two penises. I was able to put both of them inside my partner, but I found thrusting difficult. Since this was such a fantasy of mine, I found myself unable to resist and I came in short order. Unfortunately, the experience didn’t do very much for my partner as she isn’t a big fan of anal, but she was willing to let me give it a shot. We don’t use it for this purpose very often.
I have found that the bulb end makes a great handle when it’s used in more traditional dildo applications as well. The vibrator is more useful in these applications and it is nice that Tantus made this thing so versatile. I mean what other vibrating silicone toy is there that can be used as a strapless strap-on for
lesbian sex, pegging, and DP? I think
Nexus makes something with those features, but I think the Feeldoe would be easier to hold without a harness. I think that makes the Feeldoe one of a kind.
Thanks for mentioning the sterilization- always a good feature of silicone.
There needs to be something to justify its high $$$, and versatility is the way it does it.
That being said, in order to use the Feeldoe with a harness, the harness needs to have a removable back panel or the back panel must have a hole in it. If a lesbian couple wanted to use the Feeldoe along with a separate strap-on in a harness I suppose it would be possible, but the exact logistics would have to be worked out according to the harness being used and its placement. A double penetration vibrator might be a better toy to use in that case (with a condom of course since it seems like nobody makes a sterilizable double penetration vibrator).
It really helps to get a man's point of view on this, as I already know that I will probably love this toy, but wasn't sure about my husband. Thanks a bunch
This really is a great toy, but I will say that the DP option is not for the anal beginner. But, if your guy is already into toys, then he probably isn't an anal beginner. It is sort of like a butt plug with a dildo attached.
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Thanks for the fast reply!
This is definitely a toy that is worth the investment for all of its uses long term. I'm sure since you both get something out of it during pegging, you'll probably both love it for that and then it gives you options for the future as well.
As you know, with proper care, the silicone can last a life time unlike some other sex toy materials out there.