Hitachi magic wand vibrator - massager by Hitachi - review by Vamp Ire

Many years ago I started recommending this toy to the women and men in my life, and I've yet to hear anyone complain about it!

If you are a woman that has a difficult time achieving orgasm, this is your miracle worker. If you are a person with a female partner that enjoys a lot of intense or heavy clitoral stimulation, it just might save you the jaw cramps and claw hand that you may be developing from orally and manually stimulating her for hours. (I'd never want to put you off of those activities, but it is a nice supplement to your natural enthusiasm!)

The wand is large, makes a lot of noise, and can be awkward to work into partnered play. It is also completely worth the effort to use! I highly recommend combining cunnilingus or rimming with this vibrator. There are few pleasures as great as straddling a fabulous partner and feeling their tongue while operating this vibe on yourself. I also recommend combining penetration with this toy, as it does little by itself to stimulate you in that way. My own partner likes to sit at the edge of the bed while I straddle his lap and face away from him, then he bounces me using the natural spring of the bed while lightly rubbing the vibe on my clitoris. This is highly recommended, as it always seems to bring me over the top (and I'm a very difficult woman to bring to orgasm)! If you need something a bit more sedate, try having a partner slowly finger your vagina and/or anus while operating the vibe. I won’t even explain how this can enhance fisting, but I will warn you that you might have to work on accepting most of the hand before having too many orgasms with the wand. I know that I tend to tighten after orgasm, and it can make further penetration more challenging.

The texture of the toy can make cleaning a bit of a chore, since you need to get all the little crevices washed. I recommend a slightly damp textured washcloth and antibacterial soap if the head becomes soiled. If you've managed to get menstrual blood in the crevices, then you may want to use a soft nailbrush as well. If you are highly organized and fastidious, I suppose you can put a barrier over the head and neck before use. This is also a great option for folks that are not fluid bonded (sharing body fluids) with their partner. I'm fluid bonded with mine, so this is rarely an issue for me. I was quite careful about it in the past, however, and in a pinch I’ve even used a nitrile glove over the head and neck of the vibe (this added valuable comedy to the latex-free safer sex experience) and it still worked wonderfully.