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While I do have a friend who jokingly says her safeword is "pineapple pineapple pineapple" in rapid succession, I actually think that the safest way to use these signals is to settle on something simple. "Red" and "yellow" have pretty clear meanings (stop and proceed cautiously). I am not saying those are your only options...penumbra's "lawsuit" is a great example of what to use when playing with new people. I just don't think that, when a bottom has reached their limit, they're going to be able to remember anything complicated (or silly).
01/24/2012
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Lol!
Originally posted by
moments-in-time
While I do have a friend who jokingly says her safeword is "pineapple pineapple pineapple" in rapid succession, I actually think that the safest way to use these signals is to settle on something simple. "Red" and
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While I do have a friend who jokingly says her safeword is "pineapple pineapple pineapple" in rapid succession, I actually think that the safest way to use these signals is to settle on something simple. "Red" and "yellow" have pretty clear meanings (stop and proceed cautiously). I am not saying those are your only options...penumbra's "lawsuit" is a great example of what to use when playing with new people. I just don't think that, when a bottom has reached their limit, they're going to be able to remember anything complicated (or silly).
01/28/2012
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lol seriously? My partner and I are brainstorming a lighthearted "stop" or "slow down" word and we want it to be completely detached from our public lives. It's more difficult that we expected. Any suggestions? We tried Spanish because we are fluent-ish, but it got weird.
Originally posted by
Ansley
Supercalifragilisticex pialidocious
03/02/2012
We have a Safe Word, but usually he can tell from my tone and I can tell from his tone or body movements (Doms sometimes need to stop, too) when something is too much.
Last night, he was getting too aggressive with the anal probe and I gently touched his hand.... nothing. So, I finally did have to say, "Not so hard." Then, I had to really let him know it was getting into "bad hurting territory." Not terrible bad territory, just it was at a weird angle and I wanted him to change it. He did and after that it was amazing.
We know each other really well, so usually he can tell from my tone when to slow down or stop. I guess last night he was really into it and I had to stress the Safe Word.
Last night, he was getting too aggressive with the anal probe and I gently touched his hand.... nothing. So, I finally did have to say, "Not so hard." Then, I had to really let him know it was getting into "bad hurting territory." Not terrible bad territory, just it was at a weird angle and I wanted him to change it. He did and after that it was amazing.
We know each other really well, so usually he can tell from my tone when to slow down or stop. I guess last night he was really into it and I had to stress the Safe Word.
03/02/2012
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That is beautiful.
Originally posted by
penumbra
when bottoming in public venues and demos, particularly with tops new to me, I use 'lawsuit.' I have yet to have anyone not stop when they heard that word, regardless of thier focus and attention.
I said "chicken nuggets" once, I think.. I had made chicken nuggets for my girlfriend's birthday and it was the first thing that popped into my head.
03/02/2012
