just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
Do you mind if your spouse watches porn and masturbates while you are at home in another room?
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I wouldn't mind at all
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I wouldn't mind, but my partner would.
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i want to be included
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If I'm home, I'm always available for sex. If he's masturbating when I'm home, there's some breakdown occurring. I consider it my job to satisfy his needs when I'm home. If I'm not home, whatever.
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He doesn't, but I wouldn't have a problem if he did.
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I want to watch!
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nope
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If I were in this situation, and our sex life is healthy and mutually satisfying, I wouldn't mind. I masturbate and don't expect my SO not masturbate because we are together. Sometimes you've just got an itch to scratch, and you want to scratch it. If it happened a lot, or it seemed to happen more than actual sex, then it would be a problem, and we'd need to talk.
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She can masturbate to porn as often as she likes.
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BrittaniMaree
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10/29/2012
I'd be kind of shocked if he did this. He doesn't have a great deal of interest in porn.
I do this myself, but I have a higher sex drive than my partner and I often get horny when he's busy playing video games. Unless I couldn't/didn' t want to have sex for some reason (which very rarely happens), I would rather he have sex or engage in mutual masturbation with me. He has 5 days of the week to masturbate when I'm not around.
I wouldn't mind it if we lived together though because I think that masturbation is important.
I do this myself, but I have a higher sex drive than my partner and I often get horny when he's busy playing video games. Unless I couldn't/didn' t want to have sex for some reason (which very rarely happens), I would rather he have sex or engage in mutual masturbation with me. He has 5 days of the week to masturbate when I'm not around.
I wouldn't mind it if we lived together though because I think that masturbation is important.
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As long as you aren't being ignored. I don't see why it would be worse than watching any other TV unless their masturbating prevents you both from having fun together.
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I don't mind
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If I was busy and didn't have time to satisfy them then it wouldn't bother me. If I was just watching tv and it happened then I might be a little peeved but nothing major.
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I think it would bother me a little. For some reason, I would feel like he preferred it over me.
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He's never done it with me around but I wouldn't care.
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BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
10/29/2012
I would just love it if my partner watched porn at all. If I was there though and she was watching it I would prefer to watch it with her because hey ... I like watching porn, but if she told me she needed some alone time I would understand.
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Unless we're watching it together, there is no point in him watching it at home when I'm there.
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It wouldn't bother me, although I'd rather watch. Neither one of us watches much porn, though. But usually if we are both home, we'll have sex rather than one of us masturbating, but we do both enjoy a little fun time to ourselves in the shower or bath. We also enjoy catching each other at it, it has led to some very hot sex.
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nope, I don't mind. I'd offer to join though
Originally posted by
BrittaniMaree
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Psh, I wouldn't mind really. But it is a habit, then it might.
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I would mind. not that she was watching porn or playing with herself, but that she did not invite me to join in.
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If I weren't home, whatever. If I were in the other room...come on, at least ask me if I'm in the mood. I also wouldn't date someone who tends to watch porn. Visual doesn't do it for me so we'd be rather incompatible.
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I said yes, and this is why...
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BrittaniMaree
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I do have a problem with it happening when I am home because I am always open and ready for sex. If he feels he needs to instead of asking me, then he has a problem because I have never denied him. He gets it whenever he wants it.
Even 6 years ago when hubby worked swing shift, I would either wait up for him or wake up when he climbed into bed.
Even 6 years ago when hubby worked swing shift, I would either wait up for him or wake up when he climbed into bed.
10/30/2012
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I personally don't see a problem with it. Masturbating is fun regardless of whether or not you're in a relationship. A person shouldn't have to wait until their significant other isn't in the house at all if they want a little alone time with themselves.
Originally posted by
BrittaniMaree
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M sex drive is a lot higher than my husband's, which is something he understands so he has no problem if I masturbate while he is home. On the other side of the coin, because my husband's sex drive is lower, I would be disappointed if he used that drive to masturbate instead of making love with me. BUT I completely understand the desire to masturbate, it is rather personal and sometimes you just need "you" time, so I would never deny him the opportunity.
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Nope
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Yes, because if it's hard I want to ride it!
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BrittaniMaree
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I don't mind at all! In fact I encourage him to, I bought lube especially for him to keep in his office room and make sure he has toys like his Fleshlight and corn starch for dusting. He can look at all the porn he wants, as long as he shares once in a while Masturbation is healthy, I really do encourage him to do it guilt free any time he feels the need. We've discussed and agreed that sometimes we crave masturbation instead of sex, it's a different experience, or sometimes you just want to get it out of the way and not deal with the process of sex. We're pretty open and fine with it all.
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