Have any of you ever taken back someone who has cheated on you? And if so did it work out?
Would you forgive a cheater?
10/31/2012
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We were only dating for about 6 months, so it was easier to say goodbye, I had no hesitations
10/31/2012
I never have, but I'd be willing to consider the circumstances before leaving.
10/31/2012
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No, I could never trust him again. I have never taken a cheater back. However I have had my payback on more than one occasion.
Originally posted by
TWE112
Have any of you ever taken back someone who has cheated on you? And if so did it work out?
10/31/2012
NOPE
10/31/2012
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Maybe.
Originally posted by
TWE112
Have any of you ever taken back someone who has cheated on you? And if so did it work out?
10/31/2012
I would forgive them, but the relationship would be over at the same time.
10/31/2012
I never did when dating. Thankfully those days are long behind us
11/01/2012
I would forgive them, but I would leave them also.
11/01/2012
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Never. That's one thing I can never forgive someone for.
Originally posted by
TWE112
Have any of you ever taken back someone who has cheated on you? And if so did it work out?
11/01/2012
Hell no!!! Never will--
11/01/2012
I have before but never would again.
11/01/2012
no.
11/01/2012
nolol. There is no excuse, it's 100% a choice...
11/01/2012
nope never!
11/01/2012
no way!
11/01/2012
I really don't think I could forgive someone that.
11/01/2012
Never. You have to weigh everything. If sokeone cheats on you, they basically have shit over everything you have built together so far. It's the ultimate sign of disrespect. Not to mention they obviously don't care about your feelings enough not to cheat.
So no.
So no.
11/01/2012
I think it all depends on circumstances.
11/01/2012
I have before, I would never again unless I was... yeah, probably just never again will suffice.
11/01/2012
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Thankfully, no one has ever cheated on me, however, if they had, there would be no "take back". Trust is the number 1, 2, 3, as well as 4 th, 5th and 6th, most important thing, to me, in any relationship. We can have all kinds of difference of opinion, thoughts, etc, so long as we have honesty and trust. Then the relationship is built on bedrock. Break that and you have zero basis for anything in else my book. Any other factors are then built on sand and smoke. Not a foundation for any relationship I care to be in. Thus, I have one FIRM policy in my life. It is "one strike and you're out. Period. No discussion.
Originally posted by
TWE112
Have any of you ever taken back someone who has cheated on you? And if so did it work out?
11/01/2012
No. I can't stand a cheater, I know a couple and it irritates me that they would throw away such a good relationship just to get some ass in bed. (both male and female)
11/01/2012
No. Everyone has their dealbreakers and hills to die on, and that's mine. If you don't value me enough to be honest with me, then you don't love me, and I don't need to waste my time with another person who doesn't love me.
11/01/2012
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I agree with this!!!!!
Originally posted by
hyacinthgirl
No. Everyone has their dealbreakers and hills to die on, and that's mine. If you don't value me enough to be honest with me, then you don't love me, and I don't need to waste my time with another person who doesn't love me.
11/01/2012
I'd at least attempt to. I try to be understanding that anyone can make a mistake which they regret, and be deserving of a second chance. It would probably depend on the exact circumstances though.
11/01/2012
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depends on the sitution and the circumstances
Originally posted by
TWE112
Have any of you ever taken back someone who has cheated on you? And if so did it work out?
11/01/2012
No because that would mean something is wrong with the relationship. I'd would most likely move on.
11/01/2012
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No way!!!
Originally posted by
TWE112
Have any of you ever taken back someone who has cheated on you? And if so did it work out?
11/01/2012
I have. We're no longer together but the cheating was not what ended it for us.
11/01/2012
I would forgive them, but their ass would be dumped. I'd never trust a cheater again ever.
11/01/2012
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