butt plug

mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
ever since i heard of a butt plug, i was always curious to try one. but i never understood the (pleasure) point of one. why use one? what are they for? how does it feel? can you recommend me one?
10/28/2010
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Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
In my opinion, butt plugs are more for long term wear. The pleasure is in a having that full feeling for a longer period of time. Plus, they're great to wear during masturbation or sex, so you can experience double penetration.

As for how they feel...well... you feel full. I find that I move differently while wearing one. Granted i prefer the sensation of anal beads to butt plugs.

As for recommending one, unfortunately I can't recommend one, I haven't found one I like enough to recommend. I am wanting to try the Tantus Ryder tho!
10/28/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
For both sexes they can provide a full feeling, like Jessica Elizabeth was saying and a means to stretch out for anal sex or bigger toy's.

Also;

For women they can also be used for DP sex or toy use, this will make for a smaller vaginal canal, thus more pleasure. Some women say a plug will stimulate the G-spot.

For guy's it will apply pressure to the P-spot, some will massage it also.

As far as recommending one, it will depend on you experience. For intermediate experience I like the Kaydens frosted Ice and the Ryder. Here are links to my review's; Kayden's frosted ice silicone P-spot plug and the Ryder Both have video so you can see them in hand, so to speak.

For more beggning sized, you might look at the Plug of lust small or maybe the Bootie Both are silicone, which is the best for back door fun, IMO.
10/28/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Quote:
Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
In my opinion, butt plugs are more for long term wear. The pleasure is in a having that full feeling for a longer period of time. Plus, they're great to wear during masturbation or sex, so you can experience double penetration.

As for ... More
why do the beads feel better?? ive gave these some thought aswell but theyre really long..
10/29/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
For both sexes they can provide a full feeling, like Jessica Elizabeth was saying and a means to stretch out for anal sex or bigger toy's.

Also;

For women they can also be used for DP sex or toy use, this will make for a smaller ... More
thank you so much. this is the first time that im hearing thing. and now im even more curious...ima have to try one. bottie looks fun. thank you!
10/29/2010
ScottA ScottA
Beads are more of an "active" toy. You put them in and can slowly pull them out. I'm not a big fan of most beads because there's no easy way to get them back in other than the slow one-by-one approach, so they're too much of a "one shot" toy for me. Bead sticks don't have this problem.

Plugs have a lot of different sensations depending on their design. They can give you a "full" feeling or a "stretched" feeling, they can wiggle as you move or be wiggled by hand, or several other sensations. I wrote a bit about them on my blog here link and here link
10/30/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
thank you all
11/06/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
why do the beads feel better?? ive gave these some thought aswell but theyre really long..
Beads not only are often graduated in size (usually the smaller ones go in first and as the bead cord goes in the beads get larger and the fullness increases) but the act of pulling the beads OUT is amazing! When the beads are made properly (like good silicone beads) they "pop" as each bead exits the anus.

If you can time it with orgasm, the feeling is incredible. Even if you don't do that, the popping on the way out is fun!

Also, anal sex, with a toy in the vagina (known as one form of Double Penetration) using a phallic vibrator or dildo, not a butt plug) is a really cool, fully full feeling. Many women learn to have anal sex, while using a toy in the vagina, as the feeling of vaginal penetration is familiar and makes anal penetration at the same time more pleasurable and fun! Also, the DP can push the toy into the G spot for some fantastic sensations. Other women like a plug in back while PIV sex is going on. It can reduce the width feeling of the vagina for both partners, and can help one feel the G spot.

I am not one to wear butt plugs for long periods of time. (Some people like them for long term day wear, and that works well for them. ) I only use them during sex play. Every one decides what feels best for them. There are no hard and fast rules; except always be ready, use a LOT of lube, don't numb the anus in any way, don't put ANYTHING that has been in the anus into the vagina, unless it's been washed if it's nonporus, and NEVER if it's a porous toy, and STOP if it hurts.

At the moment, My Man has been pleasuring and tormenting me with the X- 10 Silicone Beads and the Plug of Lust as well as playing a little with the Bubble Butt Ripply.

I'd really like to get a Love Pacifier Butt Plug and the Bubbles bead stick.
11/10/2010
bunnylovr bunnylovr
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
For both sexes they can provide a full feeling, like Jessica Elizabeth was saying and a means to stretch out for anal sex or bigger toy's.

Also;

For women they can also be used for DP sex or toy use, this will make for a smaller ... More
thnxx
12/30/2010
Hockeytown9 Hockeytown9
I like to use it on the wife during sex. She loves it.
12/31/2010
dv8 dv8
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Originally posted by Hockeytown9
I like to use it on the wife during sex. She loves it.
Ditto. (With my gf, not your wife.)
01/01/2011
tffnyandrs tffnyandrs
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Originally posted by dv8
Ditto. (With my gf, not your wife.)
LOL
04/22/2011
messer69 messer69
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
For both sexes they can provide a full feeling, like Jessica Elizabeth was saying and a means to stretch out for anal sex or bigger toy's.

Also;

For women they can also be used for DP sex or toy use, this will make for a smaller ... More
does sixe matter or placement?
08/02/2011
messer69 messer69
what is the best anal pleasure?
08/02/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
I use one to open myself up for my toys. Being a tapered object, it works better to relax the muscles and let yourself open up softly. After it's in I like to see how long I can leave it in before desire makes me start masturbating and at that point I swap it for something more active.
08/03/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by messer69
does sixe matter or placement?
In the anal realm, I believe size matters more, but not the same way as it would apply for vaginal. Personally I prefer penetration over girth, but there's others who are the other way around. And some others still who like it tiny and teasing, they don't want to be opened up or penetrated.

As for placement, you don't have much for choices.
08/03/2011
bunnyrabbit89 bunnyrabbit89
Just bought my first bp a couple of days ago and used it during sex. I got a small silicone one, it was great for foreplay and felt great while left inside during sex the dp is amazing! I'm ready to try something bigger now.
09/18/2011
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
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Originally posted by messer69
does sixe matter or placement?
Both!
Butt plugs come in a ton of different shapes (which decide which areas get stimulated), and size definitely makes a difference (because you need to get something you can fit into your butt, but actually feel full with it in there).
11/09/2012
subbieforHer subbieforHer
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Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
ever since i heard of a butt plug, i was always curious to try one. but i never understood the (pleasure) point of one. why use one? what are they for? how does it feel? can you recommend me one?
Butt plugs are typically cone-shaped objects that are tapered to a wide bulge with a narrow neck and a base at the end. This is what separates a dildo from a butt plug in the sense that dildos are meant for in-and-out play and a butt plug simply slides in past the bulge until the sphincter rests around the neck. Then it just sits there and plugs the butt.
While a simply task-oriented sex toy might seem unexciting, the magic occurs from the sensation of fullness resulting from having your ass stuffed. There are many nerve endings down there, making the region an erogenous zone.
They're great for enhancing sexual activity and/or as a warm-up for a strap-on or other intensive anal play.
And while they are used in a taboo part of the body, butt plugs aren't shy about extended wearing, in and out of public. For many into BDSM, a butt plug is a wonderful tool. I am enslaved to my fiancée/Mistress and am required to be plugged for several hours every single day. It helps focus me and reinforce my status in our relationship and remind me of who's in charge (in addition to the fact that being plugged feels awesome!).
12/11/2012
AF AF
Well, the point of using one according pleasure: this can be very personal. For me its the combination:
1st of all working your way up: the feeling of relaxing your anal sphincter and somehow 'giving up'.
2nd of all: at the the end when the plug slides in and your ass and swallowing the plug is just an indescribable feeling.
3rd: the feeling of being stuffed.
4th: but this is really personal, I like the feeling of staying relaxed when you pull the buttplug out of your ass. This also called gaping. A lot of people don't like this cause it is associated with xtreme porn (wich I also detest). But gaping in a 'normal' and healthy way gives me the feeling of really being in control of your anal sphincter and can help you when you want to go bigger.

Its all hard to explain how it really feels when you never used a plug, but its good . You just really have to try to conclude whether you like it or not.
12/15/2012
hannahlsperru hannahlsperru
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Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
ever since i heard of a butt plug, i was always curious to try one. but i never understood the (pleasure) point of one. why use one? what are they for? how does it feel? can you recommend me one?
I didnt use it for more pleasure I used it in different sizes to help me enjoy anal
02/19/2013
hannahlsperru hannahlsperru
Quote:
Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
ever since i heard of a butt plug, i was always curious to try one. but i never understood the (pleasure) point of one. why use one? what are they for? how does it feel? can you recommend me one?
I would start small and get bigger the more you get used to it
02/19/2013
MrWill MrWill
For me, the feeling of a nice stretch and my prostate having some pressure against it is what does it.
02/19/2013
Roshandalaquanda Roshandalaquanda
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Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
ever since i heard of a butt plug, i was always curious to try one. but i never understood the (pleasure) point of one. why use one? what are they for? how does it feel? can you recommend me one?
they are for loosening your butt for sex. not for pleasure.
02/28/2013
smithmr smithmr
Quote:
Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
ever since i heard of a butt plug, i was always curious to try one. but i never understood the (pleasure) point of one. why use one? what are they for? how does it feel? can you recommend me one?
exactly
03/02/2013
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