Does having sex with your partner and using toys mean things just are not as fun as they use to be? Not at all. My husband and I used to never use toys while having sex. He was really all I needed to get off (and still is). We decided to get a little adventurous one night and use some toys I had gotten before we ever got together, and it brought us so much closer. It is not that we did not have tons of fun before, but now we have fun in a whole new way. We are able to get each other off so much faster and more times in one round than before. So do not be afraid to bring toys in to the bedroom, because once you do, you will open up a whole new world and may never go back.
We have a variety of toys, anywhere from a simple bullet to butt plugs. After our first time using toys, we became more and more curious about how other toys would feel and ever since our collection just keeps getting bigger and bigger. We still have not used every toy in the world but I would say we are not far from it. We love experimenting with new things now. It just brings new things into our lives instead of doing the same thing over and over every night.
If you are embarrassed about bringing it up to your partner, do not be. They may be just as curious as you are and just embarrassed at what you might think. You never know how you will feel about it till you try it. Just take things slowly and try everything at a time. Do not over do it and try to go over board. Just simply start out with something small, maybe a bullet or a small sized dildo. I much prefer a vibrator but not everyone is the same.
Just try it once. Bring it up to your partner and see what they think. You may both love how it makes you feel, but if not, it is not like you have some obligation saying you have to keep using toys. I have a feeling you will love it once you try it.
If you do not have any toys, EdenFantasys.com has plenty of toys for beginners at a very affordable price. I love all their toys but I am most fond of the Doc Johnson brand for beginners. It is what I began my collection with and I am very happy I did. I love all the toys they make. I do have other brands, but theirs are the ones I am most happy with and my husband likes them more than most brands as well. But once again every one is different and has their own opinion. So just give it a try and see where it takes you both. Experiment a little and add a little spice to your relationship.
We have a variety of toys, anywhere from a simple bullet to butt plugs. After our first time using toys, we became more and more curious about how other toys would feel and ever since our collection just keeps getting bigger and bigger. We still have not used every toy in the world but I would say we are not far from it. We love experimenting with new things now. It just brings new things into our lives instead of doing the same thing over and over every night.
If you are embarrassed about bringing it up to your partner, do not be. They may be just as curious as you are and just embarrassed at what you might think. You never know how you will feel about it till you try it. Just take things slowly and try everything at a time. Do not over do it and try to go over board. Just simply start out with something small, maybe a bullet or a small sized dildo. I much prefer a vibrator but not everyone is the same.
Just try it once. Bring it up to your partner and see what they think. You may both love how it makes you feel, but if not, it is not like you have some obligation saying you have to keep using toys. I have a feeling you will love it once you try it.
If you do not have any toys, EdenFantasys.com has plenty of toys for beginners at a very affordable price. I love all their toys but I am most fond of the Doc Johnson brand for beginners. It is what I began my collection with and I am very happy I did. I love all the toys they make. I do have other brands, but theirs are the ones I am most happy with and my husband likes them more than most brands as well. But once again every one is different and has their own opinion. So just give it a try and see where it takes you both. Experiment a little and add a little spice to your relationship.
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Partners can surprise you more than you realize, I've found that out myself!