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Orgasms: You're not a freak.

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No one ever told me what a normal orgasm was like, and so I spent years feeling like a freak for the way(s) that I orgasm.


Contributor: ashxxx

Great article. It's also a great read for the guys here too. Like your SO, I don't think a lot of men (and even women too) realize the emotional intensity that some orgasms bring.

Contributor: Bri9

I agree. This is a great article and something that most women should read. When I was first sexual active, I never knew what an orgasm was supposed to feel like. All I knew was that it was supposed to be "mind shattering" and "mind blowing," but that’s it. There were times where my body would shake uncontrollably and I would stop my partner because I didn’t know what was happening to me. I have also experienced becoming emotional after an orgasm. All women are different and experience things differently.

Contributor: SMichelle

Thanks so much for your comments, ashxxx and Bri9.

I felt like this was an appropriate article to write due to my experiences... I mean, I literally would stop my partner when I felt myself nearing orgasm, because I thought that I orgasm'd "wrong!" It turns out that my orgasms are just fine.

Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust

I've never had toe-curling orgasms like you see in the movies, so I assumed I wasn't having them for the first few years. It's interesting how we expect them to only be a certain way

Contributor: ScorpionMoon

Great article here!

Contributor: The Sexologist

I love this article!



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