Fantasy versus Reality

Contributor: kdlt kdlt 11/30/2012

I haven't seen this post here (granted, I didn't look back TOO far) but I'm really curious about this stuff.

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Contributor: kdlt kdlt
Do you watch more porn regarding...
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Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch more porn regarding...
Acts I haven't done before
11/30/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
I prefer reality -- it's far more fun, and I don't watch porn, so basically our sex life is 100% reality!
12/01/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Mostly things we would never do.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
I don't really watch porn, but when I do it's fairly normal.
12/01/2012
Contributor: SaraW0512 SaraW0512
We watch things we don't normally do, then normally try it.
12/01/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Acts I've done
12/01/2012
Contributor: elPancho elPancho
We usually like the stuff we don't have the guts to actually try the best.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
Stuff we haven't done
12/04/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Stuff I haven't done.
12/04/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Things we usually do.
12/05/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
All of the above.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
acts I have done a few times or have not done at all
12/05/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Acts I have not done
12/05/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
new stuff I have not done
12/05/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
It's always stuff I haven't done. I'm a virgin.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Mostly stuff I have done before.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch more porn regarding...
Acts you haven't done before
12/05/2012
Contributor: Voir Voir
Things I haven't done and in most cases fantasy - many of the acts are also things I can't do, due to possessing the wrong 'bits' and not being in possession of a strap-on or male willing to partake.
12/06/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch more porn regarding...
little of all really
12/09/2012
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
Usually things I haven't done before....Usually haha
12/12/2012
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
I watch it all. if it's a fetish or turn on, it's a turn on regardless of my own experiences.
12/12/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
We watch it all (except two girls/1 cup)
12/12/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch more porn regarding...
Things we have not tried.
12/13/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch more porn regarding...
i usually watch stuff i havent done, like a threesome or lesbian, but sometimes i just want to watch stuff ive done.
12/22/2012
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
mostly stuff I havent done yet.
01/08/2013
Contributor: Experiment Experiment
Stuff I haven't done. For some reason I really like the "blah blah gets facefucked" videos. And if someone just starting ramming into my face in real life, I'd probably be really offended.
01/09/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
girls with glass toys and threeways with two girls. convincing the wife to try these things is not quite as easy as one might think...so, i watch it on dvd instead.
01/14/2013
Contributor: dm dm
watch it all
01/27/2013
Contributor: dawnkye dawnkye
Acts I haven't done before.
02/23/2013
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
Do you watch kinky/hardcore porn and would you do those acts in person?
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28  (52%)
4  (7%)
17  (31%)
2  (4%)
1  (2%)
2  (4%)
Total votes: 54
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Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch kinky/hardcore porn and would you do those acts in person?
Yes I watch it and yes I would.
11/30/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Oh definitely!! And Hell no!!!!
12/01/2012
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
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Originally posted by js250
Oh definitely!! And Hell no!!!!
haha I love your reaction.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I'll watch it and it would depend on the act
12/04/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I think I'd try ALMOST anything once.
12/04/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Yes, and depends what it is.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch kinky/hardcore porn and would you do those acts in person?
Yes I watch it and yes I would.
12/05/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch kinky/hardcore porn and would you do those acts in person?
hell yeah i would and do
12/09/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch kinky/hardcore porn and would you do those acts in person?
Might give some of it a try....
12/13/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
Do you watch kinky/hardcore porn and would you do those acts in person?
i dont really watch kinky or hardcore porn, but i might try some of it depending on what it was.
12/22/2012
Contributor: Experiment Experiment
I like the idea of spanking and dirty talk and such, but I don't think I would actually like being tied up and zapped or have nipple clamps on. I think I'm going to leave the stuff that requires equipment to the videos.
01/09/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
Some of it, but not all! We've actually gotten some of our best ideas from porn, or at least seen real examples of how they work in real life. For examples: pegging and bdsm. But there's other stuff that we (or at least I) have enjoyed watching, but would never want to actually try.
02/24/2013
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
If you watch kinky or taboo porn, has your partner ever stumbled across it or have you shown it to them and have they been creeped out by it?
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3  (7%)
20  (43%)
5  (11%)
11  (24%)
7  (15%)
Total votes: 46
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Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
The kinkier porn that I watch, some of the stuff I would do, some of the stuff I wouldn't do. But it's fun to imagine, in any case. My partner and I dig each other's tastes in porn, and I have yet to weird him out.
11/30/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by kdlt
If you watch kinky or taboo porn, has your partner ever stumbled across it or have you shown it to them and have they been creeped out by it?
So far, I am not entirely sure.
11/30/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
We watch together and have the same taste in styles--makes it pretty interesting!!
12/01/2012
Contributor: Synthete Synthete
My partner and I share the same fetishes and fantasies, so I can't think of anything, no matter how extreme, that one of us would be into watching and the other would be creeped out by.
12/01/2012
Contributor: SaraW0512 SaraW0512
Porn gives you ideas. The wilder the better
12/01/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
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Originally posted by SaraW0512
Porn gives you ideas. The wilder the better
Yep! Making fantasy a reality is always fun.
12/01/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
They are fine with it.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
They weren't weirded out by it
12/04/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
My wife has seen it, and although she might have questions, she's never been judgmental.
12/04/2012
Contributor: atryonix atryonix
I have been creeped out but some pron I have seen
12/05/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
If you watch kinky or taboo porn, has your partner ever stumbled across it or have you shown it to them and have they been creeped out by it?
Yes they've seen it and no they haven't been weirded out.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Voir Voir
I actually didn't watch porn back when I was dating... I watched the occasional risque movie but not all out porn... My male friends know I watch porn - not specifically what kind but they give no shits.

one of them however, does know. We often have long and involved conversations about sex and porn and any other topic under the sun because we have no judgements toward each other. He finds the whole pegging idea a bit strange but not disgusted or anything.

We've both kind of have this 'live and let live - whatever floats yo boat'(within reason of not harming other people) philosophy.
12/06/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
She wasn't weirded out.
12/09/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
If you watch kinky or taboo porn, has your partner ever stumbled across it or have you shown it to them and have they been creeped out by it?
we watch it together
12/09/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
If you watch kinky or taboo porn, has your partner ever stumbled across it or have you shown it to them and have they been creeped out by it?
No real creeping out yet.
12/13/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by kdlt
If you watch kinky or taboo porn, has your partner ever stumbled across it or have you shown it to them and have they been creeped out by it?
i dont really watch any taboo porn.
12/22/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
Yep, they've seen it and been creeped out by it. Oh well, can't please them all.
01/23/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I don't watch it anymore, but when I did I don't think he would've been weirded out by it.
02/23/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I have an "open book" policy with my wife on the porn I watch. She's always welcome to watch anything of mine. She HAS sometimes been a little creeped out (or maybe "overwhelmed" would be more accurate) by some of the things I like. Oddly, it's not the femdom or other bdsm stuff that she finds hard to take - it's mainstream hardcore porn. She finds the explicit sex, especially the focus on the genitals, very unappealing.
02/24/2013