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Forced Orgasm play
04/04/2011
My boyfriend does it to me.
It drives me crazy, but I absolutely love it. I usually end up screaming the most bizarre string of curse words before and during orgasm. haha.
It drives me crazy, but I absolutely love it. I usually end up screaming the most bizarre string of curse words before and during orgasm. haha.
04/04/2011
it's BDSM thing..it's about giving up control to another. Allowing someone to control you completly. The hatachi is best for this...forced orgasms.
04/04/2011
love it but if it goes on for too long then i have a sort of defeated orgasm that just isnt satisfying.
04/05/2011
Would not mind trying this out.
04/14/2011
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ditto
Originally posted by
callsignhusker
That is unbelievably sexy...
04/25/2011
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Had not heard of it until this post, we will have to discuss it and see if it might be fun.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Who else engages in this type of play? We like to use my Fairy wand for this sweet torture Love it!
04/28/2011
I've never done this, but I'd like to.
05/08/2011
My partner really enjoys doing it, and I kinda love it too now! The Hitachi is the best!
05/10/2011
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Ooh, I like this idea!
Originally posted by
MeliPixie
I'm not sure if this counts as what you are talking about:
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to ... more
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to ... more
I'm not sure if this counts as what you are talking about:
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to orgasm. So when he got to that point I would hold off, slow down just enough to bring him back from the edge. And I did this several times before he grabbed my hand and made me help him finish. Not angrily, but playfully, and with just enough "I need this please" in it to let me know it'd been enough torture
What I was trying to do was first and foremost, a little orgasm play as we had previously discussed. He told me later he really enjoyed it. But I have to confess like I did with him: the other thing I was trying to do? Was see how far I could make him shoot by staving off his orgasm longer and longer. Which, for the record, was past his shoulder (lying down) and there was a lot more of it than usual
It was fun for both of us, whatever you would call this experience, and we'd both do it again less
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to orgasm. So when he got to that point I would hold off, slow down just enough to bring him back from the edge. And I did this several times before he grabbed my hand and made me help him finish. Not angrily, but playfully, and with just enough "I need this please" in it to let me know it'd been enough torture
What I was trying to do was first and foremost, a little orgasm play as we had previously discussed. He told me later he really enjoyed it. But I have to confess like I did with him: the other thing I was trying to do? Was see how far I could make him shoot by staving off his orgasm longer and longer. Which, for the record, was past his shoulder (lying down) and there was a lot more of it than usual
It was fun for both of us, whatever you would call this experience, and we'd both do it again less
05/10/2011
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I love doing this!
Originally posted by
Cedarlooman
The refractory period is the big killer here. For males it is much easier to get into orgasm denial as slowing down or stopping the orgasm can be done for most guys, but a lot of guys have great difficulty getting off after the first
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The refractory period is the big killer here. For males it is much easier to get into orgasm denial as slowing down or stopping the orgasm can be done for most guys, but a lot of guys have great difficulty getting off after the first one.
That being said, if intercourse isn't on the menu or you are willing to wait, I have experienced forced orgasm for the first one. My lover has grabbed me as soon as I enter the room, pulled off my pants and underwear, grabbed my hips and given me oral and wouldn't let go until I came. So hot and so powerful. The killer is when I tried to pull away, she looked me in the eye, pulled off, shook her head, said uh-uh and smiled wickedly before plunging all the way down again. I swear I almost blacked out from the force of those orgasms! less
That being said, if intercourse isn't on the menu or you are willing to wait, I have experienced forced orgasm for the first one. My lover has grabbed me as soon as I enter the room, pulled off my pants and underwear, grabbed my hips and given me oral and wouldn't let go until I came. So hot and so powerful. The killer is when I tried to pull away, she looked me in the eye, pulled off, shook her head, said uh-uh and smiled wickedly before plunging all the way down again. I swear I almost blacked out from the force of those orgasms! less
05/10/2011
I've never tried it, but it sounds fun!
05/10/2011
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We still gotta get around to trying
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Who else engages in this type of play? We like to use my Fairy wand for this sweet torture Love it!
05/11/2011
I like a little bit of rough play, but not forced. I don't do well with any forcing. Major past issues! But, I like when he says "You will come, now" He always smiles and isn't ever serious or forceful. It's mostly playing rough and I like for him to kinda take control and fling me onto the bed and jump on me, but I don't think I could handle pretend rape stuff. It wouldn't go over well with me. He usually doesn't like to fling me onto the bed and be too rough even though I tell him I'd like it if he just grabbed me, threw me on the bed and done me! But he's afraid to catch me off guard and bring up my past. As long as I was aware he was home & all I don't mind being caught off guard, but he'd never forgive himself if it caused me to have flashbacks. He's just too nice sometimes! lol
05/11/2011
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This sounds fun
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Who else engages in this type of play? We like to use my Fairy wand for this sweet torture Love it!
05/11/2011
my wife is not into bondage.i have tried but its just not her thing.poor me
05/16/2011
We both have forced orgasms on the other. Really hot
06/01/2011
Most definitely interested in forced orgasms, mostly because my lover says I've never actually had one before.
06/04/2011
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this is awesome
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Who else engages in this type of play? We like to use my Fairy wand for this sweet torture Love it!
06/27/2011
Sometimes my bf rubs my clit to make me cum and it feels good the first and second time but then he wants to keep going... I let him and I cum but sometimes do not like that feeling of being out of control. Hes said one day hes gonna tie me up and make me cum like 20 times... ACK!!
06/27/2011
I'm really interested in exploring this with my Master. We already play a bit with orgasm denial (dear gods, that sucks. lol). I also do this with my male sub. He loves/hates it as well.
06/27/2011
I'd be willing to give this a try...have to pose it to the Mrs.
06/30/2011
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whawhawhawhat?! you can buy sex toys on amazon?
Originally posted by
Lucidity
I have never participated, but I just found this forced orgasm belt that I thought you all might find interesting.
you have just opened my opinion of the slave-driving factory.
still, of course. amazon is like mcdonalds and eden fantasys is like... puttin on the ritz.
06/30/2011
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Yea I do that too!
Originally posted by
PassionQT
I've fantasized about it, but I like to be in control and force myself to have them
06/30/2011
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this is funny. i definitely want to try it! i've been using this site and the addition of toys to try to elongate our sessions (my boy is hardpressed for a makeout session over a peck, a lovemaking session over a quickie, even taking all our clothes off to fuck, and never wants to talk and cuddle after sex. ever.) so i'm slowly introducing things one by one. this sounds like one to add to the growing bucket list.
Originally posted by
bunny love
My boyfriend does it to me.
It drives me crazy, but I absolutely love it. I usually end up screaming the most bizarre string of curse words before and during orgasm. haha.
It drives me crazy, but I absolutely love it. I usually end up screaming the most bizarre string of curse words before and during orgasm. haha.
06/30/2011
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That's too bad... Definitely a different experience between men and women though, so it's not particularly unusual to not understand the other side of the coin or to have doubts. The forced orgasm stuff is very fun though, if you both have the right personality... It doesn't have to be physical, but you definitely need the mindset to really get into it and enjoy.
Originally posted by
[Red]
Most definitely interested in forced orgasms, mostly because my lover says I've never actually had one before.
06/30/2011
This is actually something I have had a fantasy about since I was in middle school; I've yet to experience it.
06/30/2011
I find it interesting, but, to be honest, I prefer driving her crazy with the exact opposite - having her play with herself, but not letting her cum.
07/01/2011
Never tried it, but I'm curious.
07/01/2011
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Definitely a very rare treat!
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Who else engages in this type of play? We like to use my Fairy wand for this sweet torture Love it!
07/01/2011