My boyfriend hasn't had any experience with anal at-all yet, and im hoping to ease him up to taking my (fake) cock--strapons have always been a HUGE fetish of mine, so iv already roamed around and found the harness and cock for me-now im just looking for one the one taking would be more comfterble with xP

id like a set with different sises, so we can start small and ease him up, it seams to me though, that the booty bumper kit ((link)) actually ISNT the best to start off with because it increases in length NOT width-i think he would me much more comfterble with something like whats in the bend over beginner kit ((link)) but as i said i already have a harness picked out

are there any other sets that he may be interested in that i somehow skimmed over? or possibly just cheeper beginner sises that i can get a selection of? less

For pegging you want something longer - over 5.5" in usable length. Tantus Silk Small is a good starter hand dildo, but it is too small to use for pegging unless you're very careful and deliberate (which sort of takes the fun out...). Smooth Operator is very similar to the Small Silk in design and width, but it's long enough to be usable in a harness. Since he hasn't had any experience at all with anal it's probably best not to start with pegging, since that adds logistical difficulties and potential psychological baggage to the anal beginner. Start with fingers or a plug, and then he can start to get a feel for how anal activities feel and begin to like them (for many people, anal pleasure does have to be learned, it's not automatic. For other lucky ones it is automatic). You can also figure out about what diameter of toy he's most comfortable with and use that to guide your toy choices. Definitely talk with him about styling, though - it's possible that a realistic or semi-realistic dildo might be a bit too much psychologically for him, and he'd prefer a nonrealistic to start with - or a realistic dildo on you could be a big turn-on for him. less

For pegging you want something longer - over 5.5" in usable length. Tantus Silk Small is a good starter hand dildo, but it is too small to use for pegging unless you're very careful and deliberate (which sort of takes the fun out...). Smooth Operator is very similar to the Small Silk in design and width, but it's long enough to be usable in a harness. Since he hasn't had any experience at all with anal it's probably best not to start with pegging, since that adds logistical difficulties and potential psychological baggage to the anal beginner. Start with fingers or a plug, and then he can start to get a feel for how anal activities feel and begin to like them (for many people, anal pleasure does have to be learned, it's not automatic. For other lucky ones it is automatic). You can also figure out about what diameter of toy he's most comfortable with and use that to guide your toy choices. Definitely talk with him about styling, though - it's possible that a realistic or semi-realistic dildo might be a bit too much psychologically for him, and he'd prefer a nonrealistic to start with - or a realistic dildo on you could be a big turn-on for him. less

My boyfriend hasn't had any experience with anal at-all yet, and im hoping to ease him up to taking my (fake) cock--strapons have always been a HUGE fetish of mine, so iv already roamed around and found the harness and cock for me-now im just looking for one the one taking would be more comfterble with xP

id like a set with different sises, so we can start small and ease him up, it seams to me though, that the booty bumper kit ((link)) actually ISNT the best to start off with because it increases in length NOT width-i think he would me much more comfterble with something like whats in the bend over beginner kit ((link)) but as i said i already have a harness picked out

are there any other sets that he may be interested in that i somehow skimmed over? or possibly just cheeper beginner sises that i can get a selection of? less

My boyfriend hasn't had any experience with anal at-all yet, and im hoping to ease him up to taking my (fake) cock--strapons have always been a HUGE fetish of mine, so iv already roamed around and found the harness and cock for me-now im just looking for one the one taking would be more comfterble with xP

id like a set with different sises, so we can start small and ease him up, it seams to me though, that the booty bumper kit ((link)) actually ISNT the best to start off with because it increases in length NOT width-i think he would me much more comfterble with something like whats in the bend over beginner kit ((link)) but as i said i already have a harness picked out

are there any other sets that he may be interested in that i somehow skimmed over? or possibly just cheeper beginner sises that i can get a selection of? less

For pegging you want something longer - over 5.5" in usable length. Tantus Silk Small is a good starter hand dildo, but it is too small to use for pegging unless you're very careful and deliberate (which sort of takes the fun out...). Smooth Operator is very similar to the Small Silk in design and width, but it's long enough to be usable in a harness. Since he hasn't had any experience at all with anal it's probably best not to start with pegging, since that adds logistical difficulties and potential psychological baggage to the anal beginner. Start with fingers or a plug, and then he can start to get a feel for how anal activities feel and begin to like them (for many people, anal pleasure does have to be learned, it's not automatic. For other lucky ones it is automatic). You can also figure out about what diameter of toy he's most comfortable with and use that to guide your toy choices. Definitely talk with him about styling, though - it's possible that a realistic or semi-realistic dildo might be a bit too much psychologically for him, and he'd prefer a nonrealistic to start with - or a realistic dildo on you could be a big turn-on for him. less