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Contributor: phozersexy phozersexy 05/19/2012

We are going to try pegging and we are trying to decide on a dildo to use with a latigo harness. I have seen pros and cons for them all.

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Which strap on dildo would you recommend for a beginner? (29 posts)
Contributor: phozersexy phozersexy
We are new to the pegging world and trying go decide which dildo would be good to use with our harness. If you have any others to recommend feel free.
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Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Acute I guess...
05/19/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Acute I guess...
Yup, I assume... ^^
05/19/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Acute! Love tantus
05/19/2012
Contributor: phozersexy phozersexy
Thanks for your input
05/19/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
the acute actually looks the least extreme, but its hard to tell because I don't know your body
05/20/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
Acute, although Curve is also a solid choice.
05/20/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by phozersexy
We are new to the pegging world and trying go decide which dildo would be good to use with our harness. If you have any others to recommend feel free.
I only use my cooter hole, but Leisure looks best for first-timing. I'd buy leisure and acute for vaginal use and have planned to buy them both, but I always end up with a cart full of lingerie! Lol They both get fantastic reviews.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Fawkes Fawkes
of these I'd say the curve
05/20/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
My ex really enjoyed the Curve, but it might be a bit big for a complete anal novice.

It depends on how much other anal experience you have. always start small and take it slow.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Big Dog Big Dog
For a first timer, try the Red. I wouldn't suggest anything with a "head" on it.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I'd go with the acute
05/20/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Acute
05/20/2012
Contributor: BiLikesSciFi42 BiLikesSciFi42
I would recommend the Leisure as it's a simple dildo - no bumps, veins, head, or anything to get in the way. I would even recommend trying the Silk line of dildo's as they size up small-medium-large. If you're unfamiliar and not used to having something in your ass, even a 1 1/4" dildo can seem really big. We started with the silk small and then worked up from there. I would stay away from anything with a head or bumps, etc, as these are really for personal taste and for more of an experienced use.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by phozersexy
We are new to the pegging world and trying go decide which dildo would be good to use with our harness. If you have any others to recommend feel free.
I'd get the Acute (Purple).
05/23/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by phozersexy
We are new to the pegging world and trying go decide which dildo would be good to use with our harness. If you have any others to recommend feel free.
I'd pick the Acute (Purple).
05/23/2012
Contributor: theavocadopit theavocadopit
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Originally posted by phozersexy
We are new to the pegging world and trying go decide which dildo would be good to use with our harness. If you have any others to recommend feel free.
05/23/2012
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
The Acute is a nice choice. It was the first one we used years ago and it is still a toy that gets regular use.
05/30/2012
Contributor: phozersexy phozersexy
Did u have any problems with base? That is the main complaint I see with acute .. a flimsy base..
05/30/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I can seriously recommend the acute. I own this dildo and absolutely LOVE it & it's a great size for beginners.
05/30/2012
Contributor: PinkiePie PinkiePie
I never know where to start with this sort of thing so I kinda am glad I have some direction now.
05/30/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I'd go Curve. It's the newer Tantus design with a much more solid base, and it has a bit more length so it will stay in better during use. It's also great for prostate stimulation.
05/31/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Acute or curve
05/31/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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Originally posted by phozersexy
We are new to the pegging world and trying go decide which dildo would be good to use with our harness. If you have any others to recommend feel free.
Mistress vibe kit because I love the color
06/09/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
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Originally posted by Big Dog
For a first timer, try the Red. I wouldn't suggest anything with a "head" on it.
That was my thought. I have the Acute and really like it (although I've only used it vaginally), but I think the head could still feel pretty prominent if you're not used to penetration.
06/10/2012
Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
Acute.
06/10/2012
Contributor: phozersexy phozersexy
I'm kinda shocked that the acute won hands down...thanks for all the feedback
06/19/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by pasdechat
That was my thought. I have the Acute and really like it (although I've only used it vaginally), but I think the head could still feel pretty prominent if you're not used to penetration.
That's one reason I recommended Curve. Curve doesn't have as noticeable a head, and it is tapered for easier penetration. The sturdy base will also help for pegging (increased stability), as will the longer length.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
I like the acute because of the texture and the fact that its not too intimidating but I honestly haven't tried the others.
06/19/2012