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Contributor: Britni TheVadgeWig Britni TheVadgeWig
I'm not sure if this is the right place to put this, but does anyone know of a good place to buy BDSM jewelry? I'm looking for a collar that I can wear daily. It can be one of those thick wire ones that closes pretty tightly, or just something that represents my collar. I'm not really sure what it is I'm looking for exactly. Part of the problem is that I tend to be on the quirky side and both me and my Master would like something that represents that. Also, if He could have it engraved, that would be best.

Anyone have any suggestions? I'm at a loss of where to look and Google hasn't been all that helpful.
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Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
Collar Factory does custom collars.
09/06/2009
Contributor: Juliettia Juliettia
I want the Rolled Stainless Steel Slave Collar myself.
09/07/2009
Contributor: Britni TheVadgeWig Britni TheVadgeWig
Thank you guys! Going to check those out now.
09/07/2009
Contributor: Britni TheVadgeWig Britni TheVadgeWig
Collar Factory makes gorgeous stuff, but I don't see anything for daily wear. Everything is leather and *looks* like a collar; I can't wear that to work.

I'm looking for something I can wear 24/7, to work, to dinner with parents, out with friends... that doesn't look like I'm wearing a collar.
09/07/2009
Contributor: Envy Envy
Perhaps try Ebay?

Only place I can think of is Pawstar, but again, that's collar collars. Though they do have cute animal hats and 'paw' warmers.

Or maybe you can comission someone on Etsy to make one for you?
09/07/2009
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
You could just get a nice choker. link
09/07/2009
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
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Originally posted by J's Alley
You could just get a nice choker. link
Forgot to mention these are wholesale, so you would have to either get a few and sell the rest on ebay, or find out where you can buy them retail. But there are some nice ideas.
09/07/2009
Contributor: Red Red
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Originally posted by Juliettia
I want the Rolled Stainless Steel Slave Collar myself.
Yeah, seconded, this is what I thought when I saw this post. These collars are available all over the net, the company also does bracelets and anklets, which are a good alternative for someone who really can't do the collar thing even with something as discrete as this one.
09/07/2009
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
I like the idea of using a choker.

Rhinestone choker might be nice for everyday wear link

I'm also a huge fan of softer, ribbon/lace/velvet chokers link

I prefer the latter, as it's less flashy.
09/07/2009
Contributor: Avery Dragon Avery Dragon
Here's a useful site!

This page has links to a few different companies. Some make pretty discreet collars My favorite company is SM Factory in Germany <3
09/07/2009
Contributor: Britni TheVadgeWig Britni TheVadgeWig
I've been looking on Etsy, too, because like I said, I want something unique.

The page that Avery Dragon linked to is very helpful.

Thank you for all the suggestions.
09/07/2009
Contributor: Miss KissThis Miss KissThis
I had been looking for one similar to what you were explaing a while, and ran across an AWESOME site. Very dainty and beautiful collars, with a crap ton of options. BondageCollars.com
09/08/2009
Contributor: Miss KissThis Miss KissThis
That should be "explaining" *headdesk*

Just click on "Collars" on the right-hand side. Everything is completely custom, and you can get a screw-down collar or just with a clasp.
09/08/2009
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
I've seen a variety of different options used by people who need a "public" collar, even wrist and ankle bracelets. One idea I love is an ankle bracelet with a locket or charm that was engraved.

The collar is a symbol of ownership and as such it can be interpreted any way you see fit. Even a clit piercing could be a collar, if you wanted it to be. Hell, even a wedding band could be a collar. The point is, as long as you are reminded of it's true meaning when you see it, your public collar can be anything you choose and doesn't have to go around your neck to serve it's true purpose.
09/08/2009
Contributor: TinyTease TinyTease
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Originally posted by Juliettia
I want the Rolled Stainless Steel Slave Collar myself.
Ooh that is nice!
09/21/2009
Contributor: TinyTease TinyTease
I've been looking at every day collars for my boy, so this thread has been very helpful for me, too! I want something that is either androgynous or semi-feminine as that is a big part of our play.
09/21/2009
Contributor: Mp4 Mp4
My collar that I wear most of the time(except at work) came from collar factory. It's held up great so far, is comfortable and looks nice.
10/14/2009
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
We have cuffs from EternityCollars.com. We have the raw line and LOVE them. Their customer service is great, too. We had to have his customized because of his large wrists and they were fantastic about it. The Eternal Exchange program is nice too.
10/14/2009
Contributor: Atargatis Atargatis
i'd take a look at these: link

i personally like using the really obvious ones, myself, but these might be what you're looking for. i also like necklaces with minerals as daily collars, or locking necklaces.
12/07/2009
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
My favorites are the ones that sub-shop.com. Some are very subtle, some not. Plus, they're really cute.
12/08/2009
Contributor: Atargatis Atargatis
Oh. Also check out collarfactory.com. It lets you design your own for not that much. If you make one to coordinate with the style that you usually wear, it can be perfect for daily wear.
12/08/2009
Contributor: DustBunny DustBunny
I love Collar Factory, they are a more personalized version of Spartacus Leather. They have awesome customer service and have been a pleasure to work with many times. Even going so far as to test new idea's for me and at one point making sure a collar made it on time for a special day. They're awesome for those looking for a collar that's not prefab or generic. Lately they've been working with me to send in items like different rhinestones and studs for even more customized collars and cuffs.

I also have an Eternity collar, great exchange program! I have to say for as much as they cost, it's a nice peace of mind to know that if you didn't get the right size, that they'll fix it. It's perfect for first time shoppers for a locking steel collar. Once you know your size in steel you can shop around on other sites.
10/06/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Juliettia
I want the Rolled Stainless Steel Slave Collar myself.
Oooh, that's gorgeous.
10/06/2010
Contributor: savincoin savincoin
Quote:
Originally posted by Britni TheVadgeWig
I'm not sure if this is the right place to put this, but does anyone know of a good place to buy BDSM jewelry? I'm looking for a collar that I can wear daily. It can be one of those thick wire ones that closes pretty tightly, or just ... more
Have you tried BeadCreation.com? They have hundreds of ribbon, lace, and leather collars and chokers. Plus they customize the size for free to any length you ask for. I think they are pretty affordable too. The ones I have are very comfortable. I wear mine constantly and they have held up well.
05/27/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
link this is also a good site, I know someone on tumblr who recommends them highly and they have the option for engraved tags
06/01/2012
Contributor: Chief Chief
My sub has two collars- a bedroom one and one that she can wear in public, which is just a necklace... with a twist. It lights up, which is useful if you ever do public play at night!
06/03/2012
Contributor: savincoin savincoin
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Originally posted by savincoin
Have you tried BeadCreation.com? They have hundreds of ribbon, lace, and leather collars and chokers. Plus they customize the size for free to any length you ask for. I think they are pretty affordable too. The ones I have are very comfortable. I ... more
I really have my eye on a cheetah print velvet one next. Will try to post a link.


BeadCreationlink
01/09/2013
Contributor: nickeyt nickeyt
i would try a beaded choker
05/21/2013
Contributor: lilswitch lilswitch
Etsy is nice for unique jewelry. They have some things that look more like traditional collars. You could also get a necklace, bracelet, or anklet as a way to represent your relationship.
05/26/2013