So I've had this kinky relationship for about seven months and Christmas is coming up as well as both our birthdays. We're both helpless geeks so I was considering getting him a gaming t-shirt or a second xbox controller but I'm trying to think of appropriate fetish toys I could get him because we don't utilize toys all that often. He has a pair of hinged handcuffs, he has rope that he rarely uses, he has a crop that he rarely uses, and some other things. I'm kind of reluctant to get him anything that would also be a gift for me, such as the chastity belt I know he wants or the arm binder/straitjacket we both keep talking about. But I was thinking about a really mean paddle possibly. I would get enjoyment out of it too but it would contribute more to his enjoyment than mine I think.

Any other ideas? That are within a good budget?

-Happy Camper