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Contributor: k3 k3 05/15/2011

My guy(and Dominant) and I don't own any impact toys like whips, floggers, canes, crops, etc yet...but we have played around with a flogger and a crop a little bit, and know we want to eventually get both. Neither of us are sure which one we want to purchase first, so I thought I'd leave it up to you... ^_^

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Which should we buy first--our flogger, or our crop? (60 posts)
Contributor: k3 k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
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Contributor: CAKES CAKES
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
the riding crop is really cute. i think it would be great for beginners.
05/15/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I think the crop looks great!
05/15/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
(EdenFantasys)
I really prefer using a crop over a flogger. They're much easier to control.
05/15/2011
Contributor: zizfaye zizfaye
I've allways wanted a crop! I just never got around to getting one. Plus this one is so cute!
05/16/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Crop! I want a crop so bad
05/16/2011
Contributor: lunapixie lunapixie
The crop would be easier to control.
05/19/2011
Contributor: Novs Novs
Riding crop
05/19/2011
Contributor: AgnesTrevejo AgnesTrevejo
the riding crop is beautiful.
05/19/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
I'd go with the crop.
06/16/2011
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
I'd lean towards a flogger but not that one in particular.
06/18/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I'd go with the flogger.
06/18/2011
Contributor: big b big b
ride boldly ride
06/18/2011
Contributor: Ms. Paprika Ms. Paprika
Crop-it's easier to get the hang of crops than floggers in terms of the impact you inflict.
06/18/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I have found a new fondness for crops.
06/18/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
really dont like whips that much
06/19/2011
Contributor: RedGoddess RedGoddess
i have a great whip, and just got a new crop- sounds like fun!
07/11/2011
Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
I love riding crops.
08/13/2011
Contributor: Shadowfall Shadowfall
If you're new and want immediate play, go with the crop. Easier to target and control, unless you're only using the flogger as an across the arse type impact. I'd also suggest considering straps, since it sounds like you're leaning towards stingy more than thuddy.
08/17/2011
Contributor: PonyGirl Sin PonyGirl Sin
Riding crop is better for a beginner
08/21/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Riding crops are a better bet for beginning doms and subs alike. Crops are easy both to wield and to vary the sensations for the bottom. For said bottoms, crops proivde lovely and varied impact play, and can go anywhere from mild pain to deep thudding pain. Go for the crop!
08/22/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
I think crops are fun because mine is thuddy AND snappy. I like my flogger but I think the crop is more satisfying (or my partner is just better at using it)
08/26/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I think I'd like a flogger more than a riding crop.
08/27/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I like crops.
10/16/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
The crop!
10/16/2011
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Crop can be more intense but it's easier to control it too in my opinion...
12/15/2011
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
I think crops are a bit easier to control over all with where they hit, but they can hit a bit hrder without you realizing it. Plus i think they just look cuter.
12/15/2011
Contributor: voenne voenne
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
Crop can be more intense but it's easier to control it too in my opinion...
I agree with the easier to control/use comment. I would get that.
12/30/2011
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
Riding crop! Thats what i'd go for.
04/01/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Riding crops, and if you feel like getting creative (and your body and the material can both handle it) you might be able to use it for a light caning as well.
04/01/2012
Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
get both...both are very fun
04/11/2012
Contributor: Faeya Faeya
I have a flogger and am waiting ever-so-impatiently for the crop to come back into stock so I can add it to the collection, too. I really think He'll have fun with it
05/15/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
I like the Riding crop.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I'd go with the Black and Blue because it distributes the impact over a wider area you can use a wider range of force.
05/16/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I looooove crops. So stingy and nice.
05/16/2012
Contributor: WD40watcher WD40watcher
Crop looks more sturdy and easier to place aim and give a rougher spank.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
Riding crop, it's on my wish list.
05/16/2012
Contributor: KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
I say get the crop first, Its easier to control and get the desired feel and sting your are looking for.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
Go with the riding crop.
05/16/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
well the riding crop is a bit cheaper and imo looks like more fun
05/16/2012
Contributor: BloodHound BloodHound
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
Crops are always fun to play with.
05/17/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
Riding Crop!
05/17/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
Riding crop
05/17/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Get a crop for your first, not a flogger!
07/08/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
i'm a crop girl myself
07/10/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I'm a really big fan of the whip/flogger.
07/10/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I'd pick the riding crop.
07/10/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
The crop seems higher quality than the flogger to me.
07/10/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Both
07/10/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
crops are easier and IMO more versatile
07/10/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
We intend to purchase both, just haven't decided which one we want to get first! What do you think? :]
You should use the riding crop.
07/10/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Flogger
07/10/2012
Contributor: ScarletFox ScarletFox
I say start with the crop, work up to the flogger. Crops are easier to be precise with and you have to get used to wielding a flogger before using it on a partner.
08/30/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Start with the Riding crop.
08/31/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
riding crop
08/31/2012
Contributor: inkky inkky
I'd Say A Crop Wold Be Easier To Start With.
09/01/2012
Contributor: requiem dreams requiem dreams
Riding crop
06/05/2013
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
The riding crop its a good place to start
06/15/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
wanna try a riding crop BAD
06/22/2013
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
I think the Crop is a good place to start if you don't know how to wield a Flogger. Best of luck!
06/23/2016