my boyfriend isnt as much into the kinky side of sex as i am and i want to try and ease him into it so im curious on what would be like the best kits to start off on and any tips and hints to trying to get him in to the lifestyle (btw im sub and hes a dom)
Trying to spice up the bedroom...
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which would be best?
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08/19/2012
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Bondage basics looks like it is of best quality among these... Drop in a whip or crop and you're good to go...
08/19/2012
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Agreed...
Originally posted by
Master DarkWolf
Bondage basics looks like it is of best quality among these... Drop in a whip or crop and you're good to go...
08/19/2012
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Bondage basics restraint kit
Originally posted by
tweet420
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08/19/2012
I guess I'd go with the Bondage basics restraint kit, although I'd probably just opt to buy things separately and make my own kit.
08/19/2012
I voted for bondage basics over some of the others because intro-level/light bondage seems to me to be a bit easier to pull off (and a bit less intimidating to a newcomer) than intro-level/light pain play.
08/19/2012
The basics kit looks good for starters. Never tried any, but that is what I would do if I choose out of these. Good luck
08/19/2012
I don't know - but I wish you luck. Just curious are you trying to make him the dom or sub?
08/20/2012
Agreed on the bondage basics.
08/20/2012
Bondage basics restraint kit
08/20/2012
I would go with the basics kit. The whip maybe a little intimdating to him.
08/20/2012
Bondage basics restraint kit
08/20/2012
I have lovers prisoner kit and something similar to the bondage basics. They are nice starter kits.
08/20/2012
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The bondage basics one
Originally posted by
tweet420
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08/20/2012
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the enchantress set I think would be a good way to lead him into more kinky practices because it would be a very gentle nudge and if it went well then you could pick up some more of the restraints/ropes/etc.
Originally posted by
tweet420
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08/20/2012
Bondage basics kit
08/20/2012
I've read a lot of good reviews about the bondage basics kit.
08/20/2012
I voted the lovers prisoner kit because it isn't intimidating at all, comes with a small whip and the collar and cuffs are very soft and plush.
08/20/2012
I would talk to him. Find out what he likes. BDSM isnt just bondage
08/20/2012
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Yes, and the material is the safest amongst the choices...
Originally posted by
Master DarkWolf
Bondage basics looks like it is of best quality among these... Drop in a whip or crop and you're good to go...
08/20/2012
Bondage basics
08/20/2012
Bondage basics restraint kit
08/20/2012
I don't think you can go wrong with any of those
08/20/2012
the beginners bondage kit is great
08/20/2012
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Agreed. This would be a good "start" and you can always build your kit with different things that fit your taste.
Originally posted by
True Pleasures
I guess I'd go with the Bondage basics restraint kit, although I'd probably just opt to buy things separately and make my own kit.
08/20/2012
Bondage basics.
08/20/2012
Out of those, bondage basics.
08/20/2012
Bondage basics is good, I like it.
08/21/2012
Bondage basics looks like a good set to start off with
08/22/2012
Ultimately, it makes more sense for him to decide so he'll take ownership of the toys.
08/23/2012
I chose the enchantress ties, because if you're really easing him into it slowly and bit by bit (and good for you by the way--I think a lot of people get turned off by kink because they encounter a partner who is too aggressive about it, or lays ALL the cards out on the table at once), that set is the least threatening--it's pretty, it's feminine, it gives him a chance to tie you up and have his way with you...
Good luck!
Good luck!
08/23/2012
No offense, but they all look rather cheap. You'd be better off, in my opinion, buying the items separately. You can get decent cuffs for <$20, a blindfold for $10 and some rope for another $10.
08/23/2012
I think applied right, any will add spice!
08/23/2012
Bondage basics restraint kit.
08/23/2012
Bondage basics or you could just buy one or two things and then add as you go!
09/01/2012
Enchantress Playful Ties (Blue)
09/01/2012
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I would choose the bondage basics kit
Originally posted by
tweet420
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09/07/2012
Bondage basics seems like a solid kit.
09/07/2012
keep it simple
09/11/2012
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Bondage Basics would be a good place to start.
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tweet420
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09/12/2012
Bondage basics restraint kit
09/13/2012
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Bondage basics restraint kit
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tweet420
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03/14/2013
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all of these are nice but if you're trying to say it without REALLY saying it then the enchantress one is nice~
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tweet420
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03/16/2013
Bondage basics has very good reviews, I would go with that.
03/17/2013
Bondage basics restraint kit
03/29/2013
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Exactly, communication is definitely a huge factor.
Originally posted by
Zandrock
I would talk to him. Find out what he likes. BDSM isnt just bondage
03/29/2013
If he is hesitant, I would get cuffs with velcro as they are less intimidating.
03/29/2013
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I totally agree!
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
No offense, but they all look rather cheap. You'd be better off, in my opinion, buying the items separately. You can get decent cuffs for <$20, a blindfold for $10 and some rope for another $10.
03/29/2013
I'd say lover's prisoner kit if you're trying not to scare him off. the cuffs are soft and non-threatening and it offers both restraint and sensation options to try out
04/15/2013
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