Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: Sweet Confessions— Erotic Fantasies for Couples — edited by Violet Blue (January 10, 8-10 PM EST)

Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by Antipova
Also when I was a teenager, I fantasized about being a high-end call girl... sort of like the neighbor in Big Sur, who would go to the cities in California for three months of the year and fulfill all her recurring clients' hard-to-attain ... more
What a nice fantasy! To fulfill other people's fantasies. That's very generous of you.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by removedacnt
True. But I wonder if I would back out if the opportunity presented itself again.

I will share here.

It was actually with two men, one of which was my husband and he was the one initiating the scenario. I would love to try dp but I ... more
If your husband was the one initiating, why is the opportunity gone? (feel free to let that be rhetorical.)

DP is extremely fulfilling.
01/10/2012
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
I'll have to come back later and read this. If I tried to read it now, I'd get hopelessly behind.
No kidding!
01/10/2012
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
I've done it and it was wonderful. However, you REALLY have to be comfortable with both men. If you're tense, it won't work very well. Have you ever done anything anally? With a toy or a person?
We've done it with a dildo several times. I loved it!!! I have a Liberator Wing and it works great for that.
01/10/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Snozzberries
Holy moly, I hadn't thought of that.

I'll look into that, thanks! (And I love reading EC too!)
Write for Eden Cafe
01/10/2012
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
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Originally posted by removedacnt
You write extremely well! Very nice!
01/10/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by wrmbreze
Write for Eden Cafe
GCs=more toys=WIN!
01/10/2012
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by removedacnt
True. But I wonder if I would back out if the opportunity presented itself again.

I will share here.

It was actually with two men, one of which was my husband and he was the one initiating the scenario. I would love to try dp but I ... more
Same here, but I don't think such a situation would arise anytime soon. My boyfriend accepts the possibility of an extra female, but not an extra man. But I'm like you, the idea is nice, but it's another thing doing it.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by removedacnt
True. But I wonder if I would back out if the opportunity presented itself again.

I will share here.

It was actually with two men, one of which was my husband and he was the one initiating the scenario. I would love to try dp but I ... more
I totally understand. Alan has tried to tentatively present me with a boy toy for a threesome a couple of times, but...
01/10/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
I've done it and it was wonderful. However, you REALLY have to be comfortable with both men. If you're tense, it won't work very well. Have you ever done anything anally? With a toy or a person?
I did it with my at-the-time boyfriend and a former coworker of his I'd never met before (and wasn't allowed to learn the last name of). But I wasn't tense, either
01/10/2012
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
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Originally posted by Sacchi
Have any of you tried to role-play fantasies inspired by stories you read? (Or movies, for that matter.)
Nope. My girlfriend and I have never really tried role-playing. I think both of us tend to think it would feel a bit awkward, but I guess we should give it a go someday just to see if it works.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
Oh right I remember fantasizing about being a geisha, quite similar to the concept of being high-end and all.
Yeah!
01/10/2012
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by removedacnt
We've done it with a dildo several times. I loved it!!! I have a Liberator Wing and it works great for that.
Well then sounds like a fantasy that is within the realms of possibility. I hope you get another chance at fulfilling it.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
I'm mostly straight, and I admit that I would enjoy using a strap-on on a willing girl. I don't know if it's something I want strongly enough to call it a fantasy, but maybe it is.
I'm not sure if I'd call it a fantasy either, but I wouldn't turn down an opportunity!
01/10/2012
Contributor: Sacchi Sacchi
Got to squeeze in the rest of Violet's intro, especially the part about Rachel's outstanding threesome story (MMF.) Not to be missed!


“The Female Gaze,” by Rachel Kramer Bussel, is a show- stopper of sexual confession and romantic lust and risk, gorgeously playing out one of the most popular emergent taboo fantasies of our generation. In it, a girl’s boyfriend is ogled by women and men in equal measure, but it’s what the boys want to do to him that gets her head spinning and her pussy thrumming. Realizing her secret fantasy is the same filthy scenario, she cruises a gay bar for them both—with a resulting sexual encounter that is as satisfying as it is surprising and unforgettable.

This book is a collection of confessions and fantasies so realistic that you could, in fact, try these at home. But whether you enjoy these privately, get a little bit of inspiration or share them with someone special, I hope you will take hold of your fantasies and promise to try a sweet confession—at least once in your life.
Release your desires to the one you love, and give chase. I promise you won’t regret it."
01/10/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by tim1724
Not my cup of tea, either, but I did appreciate having the extra variety in the book.
Welcome Tim!
01/10/2012
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
Well then sounds like a fantasy that is within the realms of possibility. I hope you get another chance at fulfilling it.
Thanks! And congratulations! You won the final $25 gift card of the night, Ivy. Please email me with your EF name at Liz @ Edenfantasys. com
01/10/2012
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by Antipova
I did it with my at-the-time boyfriend and a former coworker of his I'd never met before (and wasn't allowed to learn the last name of). But I wasn't tense, either
You and Ivy are lucky.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by Antipova
I did it with my at-the-time boyfriend and a former coworker of his I'd never met before (and wasn't allowed to learn the last name of). But I wasn't tense, either
I hope you had as much fun as I did when I did it.
01/10/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Thanks! And congratulations! You won the final $25 gift card of the night, Ivy. Please email me with your EF name at Liz @ Edenfantasys. com
Congrats Ivy!
01/10/2012
Contributor: Sacchi Sacchi
A great teaser, OutwardlyShy. I'd love to see where you go from there.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Sacchi
Got to squeeze in the rest of Violet's intro, especially the part about Rachel's outstanding threesome story (MMF.) Not to be missed!


“The Female Gaze,” by Rachel Kramer Bussel, is a show- stopper of sexual confession and romantic ... more
I would definitely like this!
01/10/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
You and Ivy are lucky.
Gosh, I know! I count my blessings all the time
01/10/2012
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
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Originally posted by Sacchi
Got to squeeze in the rest of Violet's intro, especially the part about Rachel's outstanding threesome story (MMF.) Not to be missed!


“The Female Gaze,” by Rachel Kramer Bussel, is a show- stopper of sexual confession and romantic ... more
I liked that one quite a bit. I wasn't expecting a story like that, and it was a fun departure from the preceding stories.
01/10/2012
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
I had a wonderful time tonight! I hope you all did as well! Please stay and continue chatting as long as you like.

The next meeting will be two weeks from today January 24th. We'll be discussing the book "Take Me There", edited by Tristan Taormino.

Thanks for joining us everyone! And thank you Sacchi, Kat, and all the wonderful people from Cleis that joined us this evening.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
I hope you had as much fun as I did when I did it.
Yes ma'am! Internet high five, Ivy!
01/10/2012
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by Antipova
I'm not sure if I'd call it a fantasy either, but I wouldn't turn down an opportunity!
Well, nowadays, I'd have to make sure my hubby was okay with it. But as long as he didn't object, I certainly wouldn't turn down the opportunity either.
01/10/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Sacchi
A great teaser, OutwardlyShy. I'd love to see where you go from there.
me too!!!
01/10/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by removedacnt
I had a wonderful time tonight! I hope you all did as well! Please stay and continue chatting as long as you like.

The next meeting will be two weeks from today January 24th. We'll be discussing the book "Take Me There", edited ... more
Pssssst---Take Me There was superb! I'm going through it trying to pick which stories to feature... and I've only been able to rule out like 3 of 29 so far... SO GOOD.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Thanks! And congratulations! You won the final $25 gift card of the night, Ivy. Please email me with your EF name at Liz @ Edenfantasys. com
Thanks!!! That's great. I really appreciate it.
01/10/2012