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Contributor: Ansley Ansley




Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's Day you've ever had. Were you stood up? Not able to make the plans you wanted in the first place? Something else?



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Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Worst was back in 2011. I met a guy on OKCupid a few weeks before and we hit it off pretty well, then friended on Facebook. We had a date a week before V-day which was incredibly great, and we agreed to see each other again ...

Complete silence from him the following week, no response to my calls.

Defriending on Valentine's Day without explanation.

I deleted my account on OKCupid that evening. Then bought a shitload of discounted chocolate for the next two weeks.
01/28/2013
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by Ansley
Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's Day you've ever had. Were ... more
The worst I can think of now is breaking up with my boyfriend. Ironically, my partner's birthday falls on V-day.
01/28/2013
Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
All the Valentine's Days I had before I met my boyfriend. I can't even imagine life without him now. I remember that Valentine's Day was always lonely and depressing.
01/29/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
My then-boyfriend had the flu and was throwing up all day. I spent the day with him and tried to make him feel better, but he had to sleep it off and I ended up eating the candy I got for him.
01/29/2013
Contributor: Curvy Curvy
Worst Valentines Day ever.... Without dating myself I have to ask... Which one?

One Valentines Day, was my court appearance for a divorce.

Another, my dog given to me by my sexiest and best male FWB, died.

The Creme de le Creme, Valentines date night + Ice + Curb + 6 inch heels = Me in the hospital with a torn dress, broken strap on my favorite shoes and a broken wrist.

Needless to say, I enjoy Valentines at home in the safety of some bunny slippers and takeaway.
01/30/2013
Contributor: Locke Locke
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Originally posted by Ansley
Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's Day you've ever had. Were ... more
My worst was in high school. Seeing my ex girl friend, (and future wife) on a date even though I was still in love with her. But now we are together, things have a way of working out.
01/30/2013
Contributor: Locke Locke
My worst was in high school, seeing my ex girlfriend, (and future wife) on a date even though I was still in love with her. But we are together now, thing have a way of working out.
01/30/2013
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Worst one I ever had was the V-day after my first boyfriend broke up with me. I always hated being alone and then there I was, alone again after 6 years! It sucked
01/30/2013
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
My V-days haven't been too bad, except for last year. I don't ask for much; just wish me a "Happy Valentine's" and maybe give me a hug. That was totally ignored. Plus, later that year, I didn't even get a "Happy Birthday". He forgot...
01/30/2013
Contributor: MadisonRobyn MadisonRobyn
I have to admit I havne't had that many bad ones. I don't go out expecting much... Hubby has never been the gift/celebration type (I buy my own birthday gifts and christmas gifts etc... it works for us). But when we were exepcting our first child I remember having to cancel dinner because my first appt with my OB/GYN was on Valentines day, and I got lost downtown, and missed dinner(I hate downtown and the busses... yuck).
01/30/2013
Contributor: kytah00 kytah00
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's Day you've ever had. Were ... more
So my last FIVE or so Valentine Days have been crappy! A) It seems like every time this day comes around, me & the beau are broken up or whatnot. B) OR worse, I don't have a beau... like now, and last year. Wonderful life isn't it?... =(

-Angel- kytah00 (AT) yahoo (DOT) com
01/30/2013
Contributor: Dodger79 Dodger79
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Worst was back in 2011. I met a guy on OKCupid a few weeks before and we hit it off pretty well, then friended on Facebook. We had a date a week before V-day which was incredibly great, and we agreed to see each other again ...

Complete ... more
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01/30/2013
Contributor: LadyNova LadyNova
worst vday was my (now ex) boyfriend didn't pay attention to me at all that day. just spent it screwing around with his friends and playing video games
01/30/2013
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
3 years ago I was violently ill for valentines and my Anniversary. Of course, that was when we had great plans to stay at the Castle Marne in Downtown Denver. They were great and let us reschedule.
01/30/2013
Contributor: frankiilee frankiilee
My first valentines day that I celebrated was with my ex. I traveled 50 miles to get special diabetic versions of his favorite candy (he had just been diagnosed). I made a collage of photos of us together and gave him the first "I love you" I had ever muttered to a significant other.
His reply? "we need to break up.. I've been having an affair with your best friend for 3 months. sorry, babe."
01/30/2013
Contributor: shellyy shellyy
I was in a fight with my girlfriend for the week leading up to it and on valentines day she slept with someone else. Worst V day ever.
01/30/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I guess.

I've been broken hearted on V day before, but I don't think it's because I was ever stood up. I just felt alone and unwanted.

I've never had a Valentine.

Once, I spent Valentines very confused when I thought my crush gave me a Valentine and everyone kept saying he didn't, then later I found out he really did. Idk, I spent the whole day thinking maybe I wanted it so much I just imagined it
01/30/2013
Contributor: Brenda Witherspoon-Bedard Brenda Witherspoon-Bedard
my ex husband brought his sister on our first vday togther
01/30/2013
Contributor: meitman meitman
I honestly can't remember a Valentine's Day that has gone that badly. We usually don't plan anything to major so there's little chance of things going bad. As long as we're together that's enough for us.
01/30/2013
Contributor: morgporg morgporg
The only time Valentines day is bad is when, you have no one to spend it with.
01/30/2013
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Worst has been every Vday... no one to spend it with.
01/30/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
I'm happy to report that I haven't really had a bad Valentine's Day so far...
01/30/2013
Contributor: Jo22 Jo22
My worst is probably that I don't have any memories, I've never liked the holiday, I'm not a 'cuddly/lovey' type person so my B-friends never tried anything, admittedly I would've liked them to have tried something special, but you get what you ask for-or in this case don't ask for. Single now so it's kind of a melancholy feeling seeing all of the hype-even the cheezy stuff...
01/31/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I can't say I can ever remember having a bad Valentine's Day. I've had those I was alone when I was single, but they weren't bad. In the last 20 years I've been with my wife and all of those days were wonderful.
01/31/2013
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
There were several 'worsts' when I was married to the ex, but I don't remember them in great detail. The good memories since have overwritten them.
01/31/2013
Contributor: newfiechic newfiechic
My worst Valentine's Day was when I was a teen. My boyfriend at the time had came to visit and brought me a rose, and teddy bear. He then said he doesn't think we should see each other anymore, but since he already had the gifts picked up, he thought he'd give them to me anyways.
01/31/2013
Contributor: mzyummy69 mzyummy69
My worst Valentine's day was all planned out and I ended up being stood up . Then went to the movies later and there's the guy that stood me up with another girl .
01/31/2013
Contributor: Lynx Lynx
The worst Valentine's Day I've had was a couple years ago, when my boyfriend cancelled our plans and broke up with me, to date another girl.
01/31/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
My worst Valentine's Day was the year I found out I was pregnant, the abortion was six days before the 14th. I was confused, devastated, and really turned-off by the idea of relationships, sex, and romance altogether. I'll never forget that year. I have had many more wonderful days and holidays since then and while it is a distant memory as far as pain goes, it's definitely one of those "life-changing" moments.
01/31/2013