Anal partner sex is an additional source of sexual satisfaction beyond vaginal intercourse so how often do you engage in anal partner sex?
For those who have anal partner sex, what is the frequency based on vaginal sex.
05/29/2009
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I only get anal on special occasions. The fiancee gave it to me when I proposed, and once she gave it for my birthday. I take what I can get
05/29/2009
We have anal once in a while but not often. It's problematic bcs I have to prep with a plug and that takes a little bit of time and then I remove it and put a condom on him but all that takes away from the experience. It's hard for him to stay hard bcs he has to wait for me to be ready and putting on a condom just makes him go soft right away. So I would like to do it more often but it doesn't work sometimes.
05/29/2009
I can't do it without prep, that's for sure! We've been starting prep early with a plug (njoy or bootie) which helps cut the time down some.
05/29/2009
I'm not huge in to anal. It's not my favorite thing on the menu, but I'll order it from time to time. I'd say once or twice a month if I have at least one steady partner.
05/29/2009
Liz2 My first anal experience was painful and kinda forced, no lube, only saliva. I eventually looked into anal and experimented with my fingers, butt plugs and dils. This play was in conjunction with solo masturbation. A former b/f indicated he was interested in anal and after awhile (I did not want a repeat of my first experience) we went for it. I was ready by being warmed up with a series of butt plugs. It was ok, but somewhat clumsy but things picked up at later times and it was so fucking pleasurable to me.
My current b/f said he had done anal in the past but he was a challenge for me as he is endowed with a large head so I have some warming up to do prior to his penetration, again butt plugs, a dil and a prior orgasm seem to work. His p spot is sensitive so he has a tendency to climax rather fast.
Anal is not an every day kinda experience but when we are both in the mood; mind blowing! Anal so hits my g spot area for another orgasm.
I have also received anal from a g/f with a strap-on. No problem of loosing an erection and can go as hard, fast or long; as much as I need.
Toys are so important and in fact, necessary for me for overall sexual satisfaction.
My current b/f said he had done anal in the past but he was a challenge for me as he is endowed with a large head so I have some warming up to do prior to his penetration, again butt plugs, a dil and a prior orgasm seem to work. His p spot is sensitive so he has a tendency to climax rather fast.
Anal is not an every day kinda experience but when we are both in the mood; mind blowing! Anal so hits my g spot area for another orgasm.
I have also received anal from a g/f with a strap-on. No problem of loosing an erection and can go as hard, fast or long; as much as I need.
Toys are so important and in fact, necessary for me for overall sexual satisfaction.
05/30/2009
BF and I both love to give & receive anal, but it's generally more time-consuming than vaginal intercourse, between clean-up, preparation with toys, dealing with the strap-on, etc. It's definitely not usually a spur-of-the-moment thing for us. We like to set aside a few hours and really take our time when we're in the mood for anal play.
07/05/2009
I wanted to answer but none of those choices are appropriate for me! I would say it varies but for the most part its 50/50. My boyfriend and I have gone a solid month only anal and then sometimes anal sex only takes up about 1/3 of our sex. Anal is definitely a huuuuuge part of our sex life though.
10/13/2009
I have to agree with Domineight -- I chose 1 out of 3, but it's probably closer to half and half at the moment. Of course, that changes depending on passing interests and whether we've splurged on any new butt plugs! But anal is a big part of my sex life, and I would say that over time, it probably evens out to 1 in 2, or something around there.
11/18/2009
If I had a girlfriend (with a strap on)I would so indulge in the foreplay of preparing for anal it would seem like less of a hassle I think than it does with my man. Ah fantasys....
11/18/2009
I didn't vote since I have anal sex just as often, if not more often than vaginal sex.
02/04/2010
Anal and vaginal intercourse happen pretty much evenly I suppose.
08/06/2010
It's rare that we have anal intercourse, but the rear entry gets some kind of activity almost every time. With anal intercourse, I have to be "well prepared" there. Also, I find that the only place to do it very comfortably is in the shower. But I do like it there quite a lot! My partner likes it, but he doesn't like it so much that he wants to do it frequently.
08/09/2010
I voted one every three, but it's probably closer to every other. Most of the time when we have anal sex, we've had PIV sex and ALWAYS have had oral sex first, so it's hard to count.
But, we have anal about every 2 to 3 times we have sexual contract. I think.
But, we have anal about every 2 to 3 times we have sexual contract. I think.
08/10/2010
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I'm just wondering why it would be "less of a hassle." I can't think why.
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
If I had a girlfriend (with a strap on)I would so indulge in the foreplay of preparing for anal it would seem like less of a hassle I think than it does with my man. Ah fantasys....
08/10/2010
Probably about 1/6 I voted - I rarely seem to get it at the moment which is a shame... Like others have said, there are times it involves more prep and whatnot, but it's worth it
08/10/2010
I don't really think about it to keep track of it. I like both just as well.
08/11/2010
I haven't ever really thought about how often I have anal sex compared to Vaginal sex. I asked my bf, and he wasn't sure either lol. I guess whenever we are in the mood to we just do it =)
08/15/2010
I don't keep track of the actual ratio, but its pretty often since I've been with a partner who really enjoys it
08/16/2010
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Well, I do it solo, because he isn't interested. He finds it disgusting, and I have started to find it interesting!
Originally posted by
Liz2
Anal partner sex is an additional source of sexual satisfaction beyond vaginal intercourse so how often do you engage in anal partner sex?
08/19/2010
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I do anal solo most times when I masturbate. I enjoy the intensity of my orgasm even more. Hope your partner comes around.....perhaps suggest that he stimulate your butt with a dil?
Originally posted by
Sera
Well, I do it solo, because he isn't interested. He finds it disgusting, and I have started to find it interesting!
08/24/2010
I don't keep track. It seems like we have times when it's more frequent, but I don't know why that is. Mood, I guess.
08/26/2010
Probably 1:1 ratio I guess. We have A LOT of butt sex.
08/26/2010
It isn't steady. Over all...maybe 1 to every 15ish? We have sex a lot so it might be higher on the vaginal end. Idk lol. Sometimes we get in a mood where it is every other. It just depends.
08/28/2010
it happens when it does. cnt really say
10/22/2010
'Not nearly enough'
SO hates the prep time and the strange smell, so it's only successfully happened a couple times. Is it weird that I like it because he has to be patient throughout?
SO hates the prep time and the strange smell, so it's only successfully happened a couple times. Is it weird that I like it because he has to be patient throughout?
10/22/2010
It just kinda happens in the moment so I can't say it's often enough to bother counting. I really don't have a lot of prep time with it though just lots of lube no toys.
Solo is easier. Mainly cuz the toys aren't as big as hubby and the relaxation is higher. Toys also don't get over excited and turn into a bucking bronco.
Solo is easier. Mainly cuz the toys aren't as big as hubby and the relaxation is higher. Toys also don't get over excited and turn into a bucking bronco.
10/22/2010
I'd say about every sixth time, but I'm really starting to enjoy it, so it may become more of a habbit, plus it is the true way to get hubby in the bed if I know he's not too into it. All I have to do is mention the word ass and he's game!
10/22/2010
I have to be REALLY in the mood for it, or there's a special occasion (which is why we call it "super happy fun time"). But those times fluctuate a LOT.
10/22/2010
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I agree. I dated a guy once where for around 8 months it was strictly anal, around seven times a day.
Originally posted by
Domineight
I wanted to answer but none of those choices are appropriate for me! I would say it varies but for the most part its 50/50. My boyfriend and I have gone a solid month only anal and then sometimes anal sex only takes up about 1/3 of our sex. Anal is
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I wanted to answer but none of those choices are appropriate for me! I would say it varies but for the most part its 50/50. My boyfriend and I have gone a solid month only anal and then sometimes anal sex only takes up about 1/3 of our sex. Anal is definitely a huuuuuge part of our sex life though.
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