will u allow ur daughters to do so?
should underage girls wear thongs?
09/23/2010
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I don't think it's appropriate for us to be monitoring or regulating what underage young girls wear to cover their genitals, do you? It's not really anyone's business.
09/23/2010
I dont see a problem with them wearing thongs as long as they dont go around bragging.
Ive been a mother figure to my sisters. My one sister was 13 and I cant rember how it came up, but needless to say she was curious. I trually didnt care. SI dont see a problem that shes now 14 and almost always wears thongs. As long as she is comfortable in it I dont care. As long as she doesnt look like a slut or a druggie or anything else I could care less what she wears.
Its not really for me to say what she should wear. Unless it is extremely revieling I dont care, luckily shes not into the short shorts and all that.
Ive been a mother figure to my sisters. My one sister was 13 and I cant rember how it came up, but needless to say she was curious. I trually didnt care. SI dont see a problem that shes now 14 and almost always wears thongs. As long as she is comfortable in it I dont care. As long as she doesnt look like a slut or a druggie or anything else I could care less what she wears.
Its not really for me to say what she should wear. Unless it is extremely revieling I dont care, luckily shes not into the short shorts and all that.
09/23/2010
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Originally posted by
Owl Identified
I don't think it's appropriate for us to be monitoring or regulating what underage young girls wear to cover their genitals, do you? It's not really anyone's business.
Well said
09/23/2010
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yeah, kinda creeper question how it's phrased now...like you texted it on your phone.
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
I don't think it's appropriate for us to be monitoring or regulating what underage young girls wear to cover their genitals, do you? It's not really anyone's business.
09/23/2010
If it's an 8 year old, no it isn't appropriate in my opinion. If i had, say, a 16 year old daughter, whatever. But if I find crotchless panties in the laundry we're having a talk.
But yeah, why is this here?
But yeah, why is this here?
09/23/2010
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If my girls felt comfortable wearing pretty underthings I wouldn't have a problem with it. I wore it myself when I was underage and no guy ever tried anything with me...it's a wives tale that wearing sexy underthings makes a girl act like a tramp. I was a young lady...and I'm still a lady in public. Hell my girls prefer going commando and I'm not about to look down their pants to find out if they are wearing underwear, their father and step-father feel the same. It's not appropriate and can in some cases be considered child abuse. I counsel them on their actions and we talk about their clothing choices at the time of purchase other than that I've done the best I could to teach them how to behave in public I have to step back just far enough I can catch them and pick them up but not so close they miss valuable life lessons.
Originally posted by
Kcito
will u allow ur daughters to do so?
I have to question why this question is in the anal sex forum...you are talking about underage girls. Anal sex is still molestation and contrary to popular opinion (I guess) thongs don't lead to anal sex...
09/23/2010
yeah, wrong place for this topic...TOTALLY wrong place
09/23/2010
It depends how under age. I would allow it once they were teenagers, and old enough to have properly formed sex drives. My basic opinion is you shouldn't care about being sexy until you start wanting sex.
09/23/2010
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yes, this should be in lingerie
Originally posted by
El-Jaro
yeah, wrong place for this topic...TOTALLY wrong place
09/23/2010
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lmao, I didn't even notice that until you pointed it out.
Originally posted by
El-Jaro
yeah, wrong place for this topic...TOTALLY wrong place
09/23/2010
WTF?
09/23/2010
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Underage as in under 18? Yes, they can but should they? Not necessarily.
Originally posted by
Kcito
will u allow ur daughters to do so?
I was not allowed to wear a thong until I was 16. I had to wear them for dance though. As long as the girl is dressing appropriately for school e.g. not showing them out of her pants, I don't see a problem with it. Plus, for dresses and things like that a young women going through puberty may not VPL, and I didn't either.
Would I let me daughter do it? I would let her once she entered H.S. as long as she didn't flaunt it like I said earlier. It's just a piece of clothing and it goes UNDER clothes.
09/23/2010
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LMAO!
Originally posted by
El-Jaro
yeah, wrong place for this topic...TOTALLY wrong place
09/23/2010
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Or just...not here at all...but yeah, I didn't even notice that it was listed under that heading. Doubly gross, in that case.
Originally posted by
petite-n-sweet
yes, this should be in lingerie
09/23/2010
My mom tried to make me wear granny panties until I moved out. I just took myself shopping and bought some.
Even if parents don't "allow" their kids to wear them, they still could, easily.
And really weird phrasing on the topic...kinda creepy.
Even if parents don't "allow" their kids to wear them, they still could, easily.
And really weird phrasing on the topic...kinda creepy.
09/23/2010
speaking as a father HELL NO!!
09/23/2010
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...why not? It's just a style of pantry. Or lack of panty. Whichever. However, a lot of clothing doesn't look good with pantylines.
Originally posted by
Kcito
will u allow ur daughters to do so?
09/24/2010
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I agree, it's like saying they shouldn't be allowed to go commando either! Do we need to check their undergarments before they leave the house? Just don't be flaunting and I'm okay with that.
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
I don't think it's appropriate for us to be monitoring or regulating what underage young girls wear to cover their genitals, do you? It's not really anyone's business.
09/24/2010
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Checking your teenager for underwear can be considered sexual abuse in some places...
Originally posted by
Jenniae09
I agree, it's like saying they shouldn't be allowed to go commando either! Do we need to check their undergarments before they leave the house? Just don't be flaunting and I'm okay with that.
09/24/2010
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Agreed. When my daughters were old enough to buy their own underwear, if they wanted a string up their ass, it was their choice. While I buy them, they get cotton bikinis or hipsters.
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
I don't think it's appropriate for us to be monitoring or regulating what underage young girls wear to cover their genitals, do you? It's not really anyone's business.
I've pulled my older dds' thongs out of the dryer (they tend to always end up in someone else's laundry, because they get stuck to the sides of the dryer) I always hold them up and think, "What's the point?" As you can tell, I don't wear thongs. I don't care for a string up my ass.....I wear underwear to protect my clothes and my genitalia from my clothes and so my Parts are covered when I wear a dress. I don't really see the point of underwear that doesn't protect you from your clothes. But, it isn't my decision, once they are old enough to buy their own.
I am NOT buying Tweens thongs. That's just silly IMO. As my kids usually don't buy their own clothing until they are at least teen agers, I don't care what they wear then.
09/24/2010
I don't care, if my daughter wants to wear a thong that doesn't bother me any.
09/24/2010
Kinda creepy, this topic.... I say when old enough maybe, but if I had a daughter, she's NOT wearing one at like 8 or so, maybe when she's a teenager, but nothing younger than that.
But I have to agree with P'Gell there. I think when they have money to buy their own, sure. Until then, wear what I buy you.
And i don't blame you, I don't like buttfloss myself much, either. I can't stick the pads anywhere on them.
But I have to agree with P'Gell there. I think when they have money to buy their own, sure. Until then, wear what I buy you.
And i don't blame you, I don't like buttfloss myself much, either. I can't stick the pads anywhere on them.
09/24/2010
I don't have kids, but I know my mom never cared what I wore once I hit high school. She'll still buy me pretty thongs for the holidays, even now. She just thinks they're super uncomfortable and can't see why I would wear them. I have 2 nieces and would bet my last dollar my brother and sister-law don't let them anywhere near a thong!
09/24/2010
Now a days girls are trying to grow up so quick. I say no let them wear little girl underwear or bikini. I have a daughter and I wouldn't let her wear thongs.
09/24/2010
Parents should have some say, but really as long as it's covered what does it matter?
For swimsuits I'm not in favor of sexualizing things on young children. It would be one thing if they were very comfortable, but let's face it - the best thongs are merely OK. Therefore the only reason to wear some sort of "display thong" is either to show of sexually or because it's considered popular (usually tying in to the first point), and for young people of either sex it really isn't appropriate. It's only appropriate for adults in certain situations as well.
For swimsuits I'm not in favor of sexualizing things on young children. It would be one thing if they were very comfortable, but let's face it - the best thongs are merely OK. Therefore the only reason to wear some sort of "display thong" is either to show of sexually or because it's considered popular (usually tying in to the first point), and for young people of either sex it really isn't appropriate. It's only appropriate for adults in certain situations as well.
09/25/2010
Wow, yea totally wrong place for this question..
I wouldn't care if my teenage daughter wanted to wear thongs. I personally wouldn't be buying thongs unless she had a reason she wanted them..no panty lines or something, and then I'd be buying the regular cotton thong, no g-strings or anything. If she was an older teen who had a job and was purchasing her own underwear I wouldn't go policing her underwear drawer and I doubt I'd ever see what underwear she had unless it's sticking out her underwear..and personally I'd have more of an issue with that then I would what kind of underwear she has on.
There is nothing wrong with a thong and wearing a thong does not mean that someone is sexually active or wants to be, it's just a style of underwear and people get their panties in a bunch (hurrr) about nothing.
I wouldn't care if my teenage daughter wanted to wear thongs. I personally wouldn't be buying thongs unless she had a reason she wanted them..no panty lines or something, and then I'd be buying the regular cotton thong, no g-strings or anything. If she was an older teen who had a job and was purchasing her own underwear I wouldn't go policing her underwear drawer and I doubt I'd ever see what underwear she had unless it's sticking out her underwear..and personally I'd have more of an issue with that then I would what kind of underwear she has on.
There is nothing wrong with a thong and wearing a thong does not mean that someone is sexually active or wants to be, it's just a style of underwear and people get their panties in a bunch (hurrr) about nothing.
09/25/2010
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That was my mom's rule too. I started wearing thongs when I was 14 or so, and only the ones I could pay for. My mom's theory was more that she didn't see the point of wearing things like that just for myself, she was convinced they were for someone to see, which wasn't the case at all. To this day it's just what I'm comfortable in, but if I were in her shoes, I wouldn't have bought them for me either.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
Agreed. When my daughters were old enough to buy their own underwear, if they wanted a string up their ass, it was their choice. While I buy them, they get cotton bikinis or hipsters.
I've pulled my older dds' thongs out of the dryer ... more
I've pulled my older dds' thongs out of the dryer ... more
Agreed. When my daughters were old enough to buy their own underwear, if they wanted a string up their ass, it was their choice. While I buy them, they get cotton bikinis or hipsters.
I've pulled my older dds' thongs out of the dryer (they tend to always end up in someone else's laundry, because they get stuck to the sides of the dryer) I always hold them up and think, "What's the point?" As you can tell, I don't wear thongs. I don't care for a string up my ass.....I wear underwear to protect my clothes and my genitalia from my clothes and so my Parts are covered when I wear a dress. I don't really see the point of underwear that doesn't protect you from your clothes. But, it isn't my decision, once they are old enough to buy their own.
I am NOT buying Tweens thongs. That's just silly IMO. As my kids usually don't buy their own clothing until they are at least teen agers, I don't care what they wear then. less
I've pulled my older dds' thongs out of the dryer (they tend to always end up in someone else's laundry, because they get stuck to the sides of the dryer) I always hold them up and think, "What's the point?" As you can tell, I don't wear thongs. I don't care for a string up my ass.....I wear underwear to protect my clothes and my genitalia from my clothes and so my Parts are covered when I wear a dress. I don't really see the point of underwear that doesn't protect you from your clothes. But, it isn't my decision, once they are old enough to buy their own.
I am NOT buying Tweens thongs. That's just silly IMO. As my kids usually don't buy their own clothing until they are at least teen agers, I don't care what they wear then. less
10/04/2010
To me, it depends on their age. I wasn't allowed to wear any "sexy" looking underwear until high school.
10/04/2010
I cringe.
10/04/2010