No CLUE how to "call that up". Would not be sure what to call it. In our little group, we have half a million (okay, maybe that is a bit of hyperbole....) but a LOT of DVD's between us. NO ONE has ever seen that act done. We discussed it "at length". If anyone KNOWS of a movie with that action...let us know. Please share. We can make it POPCORN/PORN MOVIE NIGHT...ha, ha.

Neither of us are into ATM, but if it is in a movie, we will watch it and DO think it is a "turn on". A couple of our friends think we are nuts about this, since we DO enjoy Rimming...but just cannot "go there" ourselves, to the ATM thing. Our friends freely admit they do it and it is "nasty forbidden fun", to use their own words. To each his or her own. However, the ACT of watching what was described above, seemed to have some real sexy nastiness to ALL of those in the group, except the four out of seventeen...and those four said they "wouldn't" be freaked out or turned off if they saw it in a movie (again, we are all very into anal and oral), but they would not find it a "big turn on" either.

THANKS for the tip. Before I spend the cash to treat my whole little group to MOVIE NIGHT, I need to know...is the exact action listed above (the girl actually licking the shaft or inserting her tongue between the guy and girl still doing anal) included in that movie (which I assume you must have)? We have, between us, TONS of videos where AFTER he removes his penis he pops it in the other girls mouth, or she goes down on the one girls anus with her tongue...AFTER the guy is out.

We were being pretty darn specific about the action we were discussing and describing.

Thus, any SPECIFIC information about this you can offer is REALLY appreciated.

THANKS AGAIN for the direction on where to look.

There are lots of us here at EF who are into anal, but that doesn't mean we like to orally lube a guy's penis that just slid out from someone's ass. I'm sure the porn stars have douched themselves before their acts, but mentally there's still an unsanitary feel to it.

Hey @Bignuf, this is kind of off topic of your discussion here, but I read about your group a lot. Would you consider another thread discussing how your group got started? I think that would be an interesting concept for a lot of people on here. A free speaking group sounds like a marvelous concept!!

I always think it's neat how much people's opinions differ; it always depends on the people that you happen to catch in the poll as well.

No kidding. I totally agree. Wow!

First of all, my partner and I do not watch porn or anything remotely related to it so there was really no option for THAT vote. But then again, rarely is that ever an option.

I find it very unsanitary and not a turn on. I can't say whether or not it is sanitary, but I doubt it's all that safe. I mean, even if you've douched or whatever it's called, there is still a great deal of bacteria there that probably shouldn't be put in the mouth. I mean, it may make a nice fantasy, but in reality, I doubt there's too much you can do to make that a safe act. It's actually pretty dangerous to get some bacteria that thrives there in your mouth. You can find info about that by searching online.

I guess I could, but I am not sure there is much of a story...truth be told. We are friends from work, and by chance the group grew and thinned over time. It really started as a purely social "go out to dinner every Friday at some local restaurant" and STILL is that. Sex is only ONE topic we are VERY open on....POLITICS, FINANCES..etc. is the other.

However, as we grew more comfortable talking to each other, we realized ANY topic was "wide open". Couples not into "free speech" kind of drifted away, while others in our group brought in OTHER couples who they knew were really "open". Over about two to three years it "evolved" into this FREE WHEELING group. We are all married, monogamous. Most have grown kids, and all are professionals of some kind...have a lot in common, and perhaps sharing in this "group" really helps keep us happily married!!!!!

At first, of course, the conversations were NEVER as "animated" and open as they are now, and if one of our grown children is in town and joins us for dinner, or we have an unexpected guest (someone's mom, who she is caring for, joins us), obviously the entire evenings conversations stay "G" rated.

We usually have our "sex" and other "more sensitive topics" talks after dinner, when in more private settings (we go to each others homes for INCREDIBLE deserts)....sometimes we meet at six thirty PM and don't leave each others company till one or two AM. No kidding. We look forward to it EVERY week.

It is hard to explain how this kind of chemistry happens. It just "did". We had another amazing, but very different chemistry with our old neighbors, who, all living on a cul-de-sac in our first homes, made life long friends with each other, and even though we now live across the country, we still stay in touch and even visit. You cannot "create" that kind of chemistry...it just happens.

I will say that. You folks hear about our SEX conversations, when I post things. Believe me, it is the POLITICAL conversations that are the MOST heated, as we have the most left leftist union folks and the most conservative, far right folks all in that same group. Makes for VERY fun...and heated discussions. However, with true friends, we CAN discuss (and occasionally yell) and still be friends. The SEX is actually the COOL DOWN topics...Ha, ha.

We have been looking and cannot find it. If you see it, please share with a title. Thanks.

I should clarify...just so folks don't start sending advice about how unsafe or whatever ATM is. We don't personally do it. We do happen to enjoy rimming and will "tongue" each other, but that is after a nice shower and of course, does not go too deep. Our friends think we are nutty, since they figure if you do rimming, ATM is the same thing. She enjoys the "nasty thrill" of having her hubby poke her in the rear, sucking him off and then poking her there again, or sucking on toys and putting them into her bottom and sucking them off (again, the rectum is empty, and clear if you don't have to have a bowel movement, so there should be no fecal matter visible on the toy or penis). Germs, however, are another matter, but they both claim to NEVER have had any problems and I will say they are both "health care professionals". Let's leave it at that.

Anyway, the only reason for this post was the fact that at our Friday Night free for all speech dinner, this topic came up and none of the many couples there had ever seen it in a video...so on the search we went!!!

FYI...This video is okay, but does not have that specific action in it. This video, free on PornTube, does!!!

link

Thanks for the advice, however. We added APD to our library of porn.

Watch the linked video. It IS possible. Strange but possible.

This is exactly my thought

I guess it actually HAS all been done before, but has it all been FILMED before? If so, can you find EVERYTHING possible on film??? Ha, Ha.

Looked like it in the video!

We don't disagree. We personally will do rimming, but are NOT into ATM (don't know exactly why, but we "feel" there is a difference there, and we don't cross that line..though some of our friends think we are "splitting hairs" on that one, and don't see any difference. IN any case, we didn't say we wanted to do it, it was just a challenge, to see if we could find that specific "act" in a video. It was a "contest" for us. Nothing more, nothing less. We did the same for an oral sex act and a few others!!!