There is so much untapped sexual satisfaction possible through anal partner sex. So based on your experiences, what is your attitude toward anal partner sex?

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There is so much untapped sexual satisfaction possible through anal partner sex. So based on your experiences, what is your attitude toward anal partner sex?

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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by ScottA
Make sure to keep some clit stimulation in the mix while you're doing buttplay, but do make sure it is with a different hand or toy. Go slow, use warm toys/lube, and do some talking about why she likes external play but is less enthusiastic about ... more
Scott - thanks. Although we haven't gotten to toys yet (anally) but use a heating pad on her glass vaginal toys. As you say keeping clit stimulation in the equation is vital - she 'drives' her favorite clit vibe while I use a dildo vaginally - so this is also what the plan is when we move to anal.

Our anal adventure is mutual - I'm learning as well. I always ask her to use a plug, vibe or glass dildo on me anally while giving me a BJ or HJ. As she's able to observe how I adapt to penetration, she's starting to get her mind around the concept for herself.

Personally I prefer the thrusting of a dildo to a static plug - although a vibrating plug is good for when we're having intercourse - she can feel the vibes coming from me. My next step is going to be to try to have her accept a vibe anally so that I can feel the vibes - we'll see how that goes.

Thanks again for the ideas.
01/04/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
See my partner is all about anal. I am basically a newbie to anal, and He's helping me learn how to enjoy it with toys before we go all the way.
01/27/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
It doesn't much appeal to me at the moment but I'm open in the future.
02/07/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
We both enjoy it but depends on the mood sometimes
03/02/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I am extremely excited about trying anal. I think I'm just not gonna let my guy leave after the coming visit until we try anal. I think it could be very fun!
06/03/2011
Contributor: CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
I experimented some by myself and concluded it is not a sensation I care for at all.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I love it(both giving and receiving). She hates it any way it's served.
06/29/2011
Contributor: RedGoddess RedGoddess
I am in between answers on this one, but i will respond.
My man love anal, but for me it is more of a mental thing vs a physical thing.

I do not usually have any trouble with the physical act itself, if well worked in with toys (which many we have), but for me- it is more the mental aspect that i have done the prep work so i am not 'dirty', +++ chance for no accidents haha

it pleases my man a great deal, so sometime I just go with it. but i do enjoy it ++ alot more if the conditions are right!
06/29/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
I love anal sex. I didn't always. But since I've been with M, I've found that it can be yummy.
same here, didnt always used to like it but i love it now.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
I'm not a fan. I do it for my husband occasionally but I don't enjoy it.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Can't vote.

I loooooove anal, both giving and receiving. She hates the very thought of it and will never do it in a million years.
11/19/2011
Contributor: harryboy1967 harryboy1967
My old GF brought me out for I really enjoyed the feeling an have orgasms without any erection. She brought over a sybian an as we made out I became so week I could barly stand up after a hour. All the girls said usually no but after a good bath an they knew I would be gentle, from rimming, to orl love to there anus they had no problem ofcourse I'm a ass man. My wife hates it an when I asked her to use her dildo she said I was "gay" I've only had "bi" encounters with a woman there watching an helping out. I truely enjoy being taken an "FETLIFE" has help in those endavors. Even though it's a Mistress I feel I actually belong as I offer my self fully, She actually has fisted me but she is Asain..Harold
11/19/2011
Contributor: corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
We've never tried. Too many other holes available, more readily, with less work and cleaning.
03/26/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I have tried and I just can't do it.
03/26/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I like it a lot. I wish we did it more often.
05/29/2013
Contributor: Dominica Dominica
My first anal experience was rather unpleasant. I was ok with a finger inside, so we decided it was time to take the next step with the penile penetration, which turned out to be painful and uncomfortable for me. And I gave up trying anal sex.

But after some time I decided to give it another go, and with another partner, with proper foreplay and lubrication, it worked so fantastically, that now I can not imagine my sex sessions without backdoor play!
07/15/2020
Contributor: LovesItHot LovesItHot
Thankfully in today's world there is a lot of info about all ins and outs of anal sex, and this is not a so big taboo anymore.

I have a positive attitude towards partner anal sex as well as solo anal sex. I have quite a large collection of anal toys but started with a finger as many others do It's very important not to push too hard at the beginning so that any negative emotions like unconfidence, pain or fear were associated with anal penetration, and with mindful practice, anal sex is an amazing experience for both partners, either giver or receiver.
07/15/2020
Contributor: Stellar Stellar
I wouldn't say anal is a rare treat for us - a little bit of butt action foins its way in each and any play we have. It feels natural, it feels good - I can't believe that there are still people who thinks it's dirty or something.

I wish anal play would work both ways - I know he loves it when I play with my fingers, but It's been almost two years since he last let me do it.
07/16/2020
Contributor: JustinVisual JustinVisual
I pretty much enjoy having anal sex, but my current girlfriend is quite negative about anal. With our relationships becoming more trustful and intimate, it seemed to me that she changed her opinion, and I was able to persuade her at least to try fingering. From what I can tell, it wasn't hurtful for her or something, but she was so tense and nervous, that I decided to stop. I think she conceded because of the desire to please me, but actually still was against it.

I really want she could feel less restrained towards anal sex and share this awesome experience with me, but not sure what my next step should be.
07/16/2020
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
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Originally posted by JustinVisual
I pretty much enjoy having anal sex, but my current girlfriend is quite negative about anal. With our relationships becoming more trustful and intimate, it seemed to me that she changed her opinion, and I was able to persuade her at least to try ... more
I think you should give her more time. She decided to take the first step and it wasn't hurtful, and that is already a success! I suppose, all the restraints and fears are in her head, and when her brain understands that nothing bad is happening and vice versa, gentle stimulation of anus is rather pleasurable, then she'll be ready to move forward.

Just don't push too hard and go slow, making tiny steps one by one, adding a bit of delicate anal caressing now and then (maybe you should try rimming before moving to fingering), and she'll be getting more and more comfortable with the idea of anal penetration.
07/16/2020
Contributor: Dominica Dominica
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Originally posted by JustinVisual
I pretty much enjoy having anal sex, but my current girlfriend is quite negative about anal. With our relationships becoming more trustful and intimate, it seemed to me that she changed her opinion, and I was able to persuade her at least to try ... more
Yes, dear, you're thinking in the right direction! Easy does it. What was helpful for me to love the anal is well-done foreplay at the backdoor region. Firstly my partner massaged that area a lot, then added a finger, then two fingers...As the pleasure increased, I was getting ready for more and more action there. It happened not at once, but I'm glad that I tried and now anal for us is an essential part of our sex life!
07/17/2020
Contributor: JustinVisual JustinVisual
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Originally posted by Leil@
I think you should give her more time. She decided to take the first step and it wasn't hurtful, and that is already a success! I suppose, all the restraints and fears are in her head, and when her brain understands that nothing bad is happening ... more
Thanks for the input! This is exactly the way I am planning to go on.
07/17/2020
Contributor: JustinVisual JustinVisual
Quote:
Originally posted by Dominica
Yes, dear, you're thinking in the right direction! Easy does it. What was helpful for me to love the anal is well-done foreplay at the backdoor region. Firstly my partner massaged that area a lot, then added a finger, then two fingers...As the ... more
Thanks for your support! I wish my girlfriend was more tolerant to anal as you were!
07/17/2020
Contributor: nikywolfe nikywolfe
It hasnt always been the case but I thoroughly enjoy anal now! Mostly receiving than giving but I'm working on it. Toys play a huge factor. As well as preparation. If I know I'm going to get lucky I'll plan ahead with a butt plug to start the stretching. Once we've started foreplay and fully aroused I'm pretty much at the point where he can enter by adding lots of lube. After the first slow thrust and accommodation is made, adding speed with other stimulation gives me the most mind blowing orgasm. I really love the trifecta - clit sucker, dildo in the vagina, and dick in my ass. Once you find your groove you'll love it or maybe just my personal preference
07/31/2020
Contributor: tetiqizo tetiqizo
"I have tried anal sex and it was unpleasant or painful, so no more for now."

I really hoped that I would like it
08/02/2020
Contributor: Pete82 Pete82
Ever since my gf introduced me to the joys of anal/prostate play, I've been addicted to it. Now I have my own collection of vibes, plugs and dildos and still want so many more different anal toys to get fucked with, either by the gf or solo play. The feeling is just amazing once you get the right place
08/03/2020
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I don't really like anal sex. I've done it mostly for him and when on my period.
He on the other hand loves anal sex. Plugs and pegging. Most our dildos go into his rear end nowadays.
08/04/2020
Contributor: Rosy Rose Rosy Rose
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Originally posted by Liz2
Anal sex is one area that many people would rather not discuss and even take measures to avoid. At the same time, there is interest in anal sex through porn. Many people are also using butt plugs and dils for anal stimulation and enjoying the ... more
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08/12/2020
Contributor: Sue12 Sue12
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Originally posted by Liz2
Anal sex is one area that many people would rather not discuss and even take measures to avoid. At the same time, there is interest in anal sex through porn. Many people are also using butt plugs and dils for anal stimulation and enjoying the ... more
I enjoy anal, my partner wasn’t really into it but did it to please me...

So, we didn’t do it very often. Not that o am single, I use a butt plug every once in awhile only bc I don’t want a mess. Sometimes my “system “ is ok with it and sometimes it’s not.
12/27/2020
Contributor: Thundersgirl66 Thundersgirl66
I never thought of anal sex until my ex tried it without asking me first. Turns out he was a closeted homosexual ??. That’s a whole diff story.
Communication and trust are important before trying anal sex. Being chillaxed is another. If you think ?? on it too much it will not be pleasurable.
My man and I have vaginal sex first so he’ll be lubed naturally and then he penetrates my a$$ slowly. Yes there’s a feeling of fullness but as you relax that goes away. I like to use a vibrator on the right setting to play with my clitoris. The sensations are amazing for us both. Besides he likes ???? watching me get all of mine ??.
Gotta stop thinking that it’s one-sided, his side. Or that it’s just for gay people. Broaden your horizon one time. Its either yes ???? or no ????.
02/22/2021