Which would you rather have, vag or anal sex?

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Which would you rather have, vag or anal sex?

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Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
I talked about this with a friend not too long ago and was wondering what everyone else though.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Vag
83
Anal
22
Total votes: 105 (98 voters)
Poll is closed
04/10/2011
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Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
It really depends on my mood. Sometimes if I can't come from PIV, anal works wonders.
04/11/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I love anal sex but not all the time. But some butt play(with toys) is usually involved in vaginal sex for us.
04/11/2011
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
I would love to vote, but honestly I love them equally. Both? That's my choice! They both have their own props and I can't be happy with one over the other.
04/11/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Enchantedkitty
I talked about this with a friend not too long ago and was wondering what everyone else though.
It depends on what I want at that moment. Usually we have PIV after and changing up with oral, then move to anal at the end. This isn't always how we do it, but we often combine both in one session.

I can't pick. They do different things for me, so I like them in different ways.
04/11/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Enchantedkitty
I talked about this with a friend not too long ago and was wondering what everyone else though.
I wish there was a "both" on the poll. I enjoy vag and anal both.
04/11/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
Vag
04/11/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
They both have their place but most times, I prefer PIV.
04/11/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Still working on getting my girl to agree to anal - so it's my sentimental favorite!
04/11/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I love anal, but vaginal is definitely better to me.
04/11/2011
Contributor: hornypoet69 hornypoet69
Well I don't have a vagina, nor do I like vaginas, so this isn't really a tough decision for me. That being said, I can have lots of fun, without any sort of penetration.
04/11/2011
Contributor: PinkPedal PinkPedal
I like Viginal its very rare for me to want anal, mostly because of the pain
04/11/2011
Contributor: hornypoet69 hornypoet69
Quote:
Originally posted by PinkPedal
I like Viginal its very rare for me to want anal, mostly because of the pain
Contrary to popular belief, pain isn't a necessary part of anal. Using lots of lube, and working up to a penis with smaller toys is a great way to reduce or eliminate any pain.
04/11/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
anal is a nice change, but I would rather have PIV
04/11/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I like anal a lot n would want it way more often
04/14/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by hornypoet69
Well I don't have a vagina, nor do I like vaginas, so this isn't really a tough decision for me. That being said, I can have lots of fun, without any sort of penetration.
LOL...
Indeed it does depend upon one's partners equipment.
04/14/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I'm still working on liking anal so I have to say vaginal for now.
04/16/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
vag, not into anal yet.
10/06/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Both, if I'm in the mood. It depends on what I want and what My Man is in the mood for. We sometimes have PIV without anal, especially for a quickie. Anal sex usually (but not always) follows PIV and/or oral for us.
10/06/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
Quote:
Originally posted by Enchantedkitty
I talked about this with a friend not too long ago and was wondering what everyone else though.
I like anal once in a while.
10/06/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Enchantedkitty
I talked about this with a friend not too long ago and was wondering what everyone else though.
This is like asking if I enjoy caramel or hot fudge on my ice cream. I love both. They are different. They both have their sensual and tactile unique qualities. We, like many others apparently, here, do BOTH in many of our lovemaking sessions. Oral is in there too, by the way!!!!
10/06/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Both, if I'm in the mood. It depends on what I want and what My Man is in the mood for. We sometimes have PIV without anal, especially for a quickie. Anal sex usually (but not always) follows PIV and/or oral for us.
You said it better then me, P'Gell (hello again...we have to stop meeting like this .
Often we go through that whole oral vaginal anal thing too...but for us, anal is NEVER, ever part of a quickie. That is ONLY for when we have time to relax and play.
10/06/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
I'm still working on liking anal so I have to say vaginal for now.
The right lube, and going slow...will make you a believer, Kitty.
10/06/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by hornypoet69
Contrary to popular belief, pain isn't a necessary part of anal. Using lots of lube, and working up to a penis with smaller toys is a great way to reduce or eliminate any pain.
Amen. I LOVE anal...and have NEVER enjoyed pain. If there were EVER pain involved, you could count me TOTALLY out. There have been periods where there was "discomfort" and that immediately was stopped by switching positions. It is how we learned what works great for us...and what does not. (for instance, anal in Doggy Position?...great for movies, NEVER in MY tush, thank you). You are SO right, however, this should be ALL PLEASURE and NO PAIN if done RIGHT and by conscientious and careful lovers.
10/06/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by cobiffle
I like anal a lot n would want it way more often
I sure hope your partner would not deny you that!!!???
10/06/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Still working on getting my girl to agree to anal - so it's my sentimental favorite!
Let her read all the posts here from gals like me who really enjoy it. Then study up so YOU know what you are doing and TAKE YOUR TIME. There does not need to be any "coercion". When you try it, it really will be AMAZINGLY better if it is HER idea. Believe me on this.
10/06/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by PinkPedal
I like Viginal its very rare for me to want anal, mostly because of the pain
Okay....that word PAIN means one thing to me. Someone doing something WRONG. Anal does not, and should not have PAIN anywhere involved. Honestly.

Sounds like you have been game to try, so heed the advice of this old lady who is a huge anal fan and has been at this for decades without ONCE having pain and having several lovers do it with me, including my darling loving hubby of over 30 years.

Lay on your SIDE, up side leg bent forward (like you are going to take an enema), Best to lay on your LEFT SIDE DOWN, actually.

Have him either STAND behind you, if you are laying this way on the EDGE OF A BED ( we love it this way) or lay behind you "spooning like". Use all the lube you can possibly imagine, then use extra, and then add a BUNCH more. Create a darned sloppy mess of the bed with lube (use a plastic sheet and towels to NOT damage the bed, or get a great item like the THROE from Liberator), then have him FIRST introduce his finger into you....making sure to play with your clit as well (nice to have at least one orgasm with a finger in your tush, to CONDITION your brain that anal play is HAPPY play), then have him introduce his penis...SLOWLY...like over a half hour at the fastest, slowly. FORGET the porn movie pumping and pile driving nonsense. SLOW, SLOW and SLOWER. YOU CONTROL motion and when YOU say stop, he stops. YOU say go, he goes...SLOWLY. Then add MORE lube. Once YOU feel he is in far enough, even if it is only one inch the first time, then have him be HAPPY you are the amazing woman you are and willing to try. There will be many times to go further, later.

Understand? COMFORTABLE, SLOW, EXTRA INSANE amount of lube,and SLOW!!!!!

Another position for a beginner, but you need to REALLY trust him to go slow, is just in the plain old MISSIONARY position, but with your legs WAY up, over his shoulders or feet on his chest. Works best with your butt on a pillow or else, again, with him standing on the floor at the edge of the bed and you laying on the bed, butt hanging just over the edge. A very natural position for penetration and NO pain.

BEST OF LUCK. ENJOY!!!!!
10/06/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Nothing beets a hot wet pussy...anal is just a fantasy for most men...
10/14/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Probably vaginal for me.
10/15/2011