Quantity over quality?

Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
Some of the fine folk here, male as well as female, are not new to art of multi-orgasming. But just because you can do it it doesn't necessarily mean that you actually like doing it... I, for example, find that when I try for several orgasms in a single session it weakens the power of each, and I much rather build it up and have one, single, glorious one. So, my question is, if you can have multiple orgasms, do you actually prefer them over a single, more intense one? Or are you actually one of those lucky ones whose multiple orgasms all feel like an atomic bomb each?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Multiples (more is always better!)
10  (13%)
Just the one (good things come to those who wait!)
40  (51%)
I get the best of both worlds (what do you mean, I have to choose?)
29  (37%)
Total votes: 79
Poll is closed
07/14/2011
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Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
I'm with you! If I try to have multiples I tend to psyche myself out of the big one waiting for the others.
07/14/2011
Contributor: anonomous anonomous
One big one and I'm all set haha
07/14/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Hell, I am not even sure there is a good answer for my case. I have a hell of a time getting to the first one, but once I am there usually I am home free and there is not one damn thing I can do about the others that follow. Sometimes the intensity of the first one just bleeds over into the next, and the next and next, and an hour later I am a blithering mess on the throe.

There have been times, usually during forced orgasm play, when I have had these (for lack of better word) whole body convulsions from not being able to ride out the contractions or decrescendo before they begin all over again. My husband says I say things that make absolutely no sense and sound like I am speaking a foreign language. LOL. Talk about getting fucked-silly.
07/14/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Quality first
07/14/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
My orgasms actually tend to build. They start small and get bigger. Usually. Not always. Sometimes I'll have sort of an uber-orgasm and then the rest is downhill. But the downhill ride is still pretty fun.
07/14/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Mrs Lust is definitely a one good one kind of gal. She likes a break after that, then we can play again.
07/14/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I usually can't stand to only have one orgasm. It's rare for me not to have at least three per session on my own. It use to be that my first one was the big earth shattering one, with the second dropping a little and the third wouldn't be anything special.
But since meeting my Master, even number thirteen is fantastic! I actually think they get even better after the first orgasm these days.
07/14/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I find that they come faster, and are more intense, the more I have - they don't get weaker or less intense.
07/14/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
I really like to have one or two very intense ones.

But, usually, all I can produce are minor, disappointing ones so I often keep going until I've had between ten and twenty in one session.

Occasionally, I can't even have one!
07/15/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenyana
Some of the fine folk here, male as well as female, are not new to art of multi-orgasming. But just because you can do it it doesn't necessarily mean that you actually like doing it... I, for example, find that when I try for several orgasms in a ... more
Usually my first one or two are the most intense. If the first one wasn't intense, then the second one will usually be.

I don't "try" for multiples, though. It happens. For me, usually intensity is increased with some (but not too much) build up, and sometimes if I have not had an orgasm for several days.
07/15/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Hell, I am not even sure there is a good answer for my case. I have a hell of a time getting to the first one, but once I am there usually I am home free and there is not one damn thing I can do about the others that follow. Sometimes the intensity ... more
I think we were separated at birth.
07/15/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I think we were separated at birth.
Eden Fantasys new motto...Bringing Families Together at the Sex Shop You Can Trust!

hehe. It is still really early here and my brain is a little foggy.
07/15/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
I am satisfied with one and pleasantly surprised with any that follow
07/15/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenyana
Some of the fine folk here, male as well as female, are not new to art of multi-orgasming. But just because you can do it it doesn't necessarily mean that you actually like doing it... I, for example, find that when I try for several orgasms in a ... more
I am actually pretty lucky. I am a multi and they usually get harder and stronger with each one.
07/18/2011
Contributor: Powder Powder
Usually one is good enough. I've done up to three at a time, but it just become too much work and the payoff is only sometimes better than the first.
07/18/2011
Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I am actually pretty lucky. I am a multi and they usually get harder and stronger with each one.
This is me, all green with envy. Enjoy it, most women would give an arm and a leg for that!
07/19/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Just one if it's more powerful.
07/19/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I vary a bit. Multiple vaginal orgasms tend to get stronger and stronger with each one (but even the first is awesome, and I'd be satisfied with that if it was all I had on a given night), and I can keep going (or let my partner keep going) without breaking stride with vaginal orgasms.

Clitoral orgasms are a one-and-done deal, though, because my clit gets really sensitive afterward, but more than that, after a clitoral orgasm my body's just *done*. But each of those could be standalone--- maybe multiple vaginal one night, maybe just clitoral the next, maybe a long session with multiple vaginal, anal, and finish things off with a clitoral orgasm the next night. It all depends on how I and/or my partner feel.
07/20/2011
Contributor: Erato Erato
I always thought that multiple orgasms sound like such an amazing thing. But after having lived through multiples I have to agree with everyone that one perfect orgasm is the best.

I had to take organismal physiology for my major and though not the point of the class, it did make me understand for how most people quality over quantity is best through nerve conduction and muscle cell contractions. Yes I am indeed a nerd....

But to those of you that have multiples that get better I am soooooo jealous!!
07/20/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenyana
Some of the fine folk here, male as well as female, are not new to art of multi-orgasming. But just because you can do it it doesn't necessarily mean that you actually like doing it... I, for example, find that when I try for several orgasms in a ... more
I get both sometimes often at the same time
08/02/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
For me (Being a guy) in a row, the first time is usually the second best, the second time is the best and after the third time is usually right about when id like to chill for a bit. The first orgasm is great but depending on my time and level of being turned on I have to keep in mind pacing. (Not that I get off quickly, but it isn't very difficult to do) My second orgasm I can really put some work in because I have lost a good bit of feeling that gives me more freedom to do what I want aka its easier to please my wife in round 2. Round three is so far down on feeling that I actually have to put some effort into having an orgasm. Now keep in mind that's about half a day or a few hours.
08/02/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I usually only get one or two, but the first is always the best! I'm not complaining about the others, though!
08/03/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I went for multiples because it's what I tend toward. For me it might be orgasm 2 or 3 that really hits hard, with 1 being not that great.
08/03/2011
Contributor: MJ1337 MJ1337
I wish I could have more than one... I can have one in the morning and one late evening if I give myself enough time to recoupe... otherwise, nada
08/03/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I rarely get multiple orgasms, and I prefer it that way.
09/13/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I've never really had it lessen my O's. I rarely O only one time though! My partner's very determined. Lol. I haven't ever experienced less intensity when I have multiples. A lot of times for me they're back to back for a few minutes then start up again until I'm tired out. I don't always like a lot of G-spot stimulation though. Some days it's too much and I can only handle a couple of those.
09/13/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenyana
Some of the fine folk here, male as well as female, are not new to art of multi-orgasming. But just because you can do it it doesn't necessarily mean that you actually like doing it... I, for example, find that when I try for several orgasms in a ... more
I prefer the one raging orgasm over multiple small orgasms, but I do love numbers for bragging rights
11/29/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
Just one for me as it takes a bit of time to build up for another (an hour or more).
12/01/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Typically I can only have one, but when another comes it is usually just as amazing.
12/11/2011