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Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
After sex I want to just lay there holding my wife but she wants to just hit the shower and clean up. I like her to lay there, maybe with her head on my chest and my cum dripping out of her. She thinks it's gross, icky and just wan'ts to clean up and go to sleep.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Immediatly get up and take a shower?
Jimbo Jones , TheSinDoll , MeliPixie , *HisMrs* , Kdlips , SamsDelight , bayosgirl , jc123 , cryinglightning86
9  (14%)
Hold each other in the afterglow?
Miss T , Lady Marmelade , Taylor , slynch , nicky51679 , Tidwtrguy , indiglo , ellejay , StephieBoo02 , Lummox , potstickers , Shellz31 , Haiku , Liz2 , PussyGalore , Orion , PiratePrincess , Gunsmoke , phunkyphreak , BadgersRose , leanright69 , ~LaUr3n~ , Adam02viper , sixfootsex , MR Chickhabit , Lily Night , MaryExy , ac0313 , ToyGurl , Cedarlooman , hornypoet69 , onehotmama , Stinkytofu10 , Cherry21 , Jammin14580 , kingofthevampires , Stagger13 , ColorMeCute , MissMori , llellsee , shcoo , pixxie87 , aliceinthehole , Stephanie Majors , DreamWolf , ThoughtsAblaze , True Pleasures , The Curious Couple , eeep , deltalima , SMichelle , MissCandyland , Entropy , noway , Love Lula , happywaffle34 , wrecklesswords
57  (86%)
Total votes: 66
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Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
I didn't vote.

Other would be my answer. I am split on the answers. It depends on the guy I am having sex with at the time. Sometimes I will lay there with the guy. Though sometimes right after sex I go home and take a shower right away. Its a 50/50 split.
03/04/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
It depends on the day and the person. Like if we both have something that we were supposed to do but then got caught up in having sex, then we will probably skip the holding.
03/04/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I don't always shower, but we do a clean-up. I find it hard to be romantic with cum and fluids all over the place.
03/04/2011
Contributor: Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
If you have a towel nearby, you can clean up the immediate mess and then get some cuddling in before the shower.
03/04/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
Often my boyfriend and I enjoy cleaning each other up with tissues or a towel (for me it's an excuse to keep touching him just a little longer), and cuddling or napping before we hop in the shower. But sometimes there just isn't time for that.
03/05/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Quote:
Originally posted by Tidwtrguy
If you have a towel nearby, you can clean up the immediate mess and then get some cuddling in before the shower.
I wish I could just do that. She wants to clean herself up and disinfect the area, inside and out, as soon as she can before she falls asleep, ha ha.
03/05/2011
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
I love cuddling. Or showering afterwards and getting naughty some more.
03/05/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
We love to hold each other and feel the relaxed after glow of the moment. If I expect a mess from potential squirting or my period, we lie on my Throe or else just move away from the wet spot. I can wait until the am for cleanup and the toys do as well.
03/05/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
I get up, get a towel to wipe down with, pee and then climb back into bed. I would find it insulting if he showered immediately after sex and I think he feels the same. Now, if anal goes wrong or there's just a lot of lube involved showering becomes a must.
03/05/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
We always try to cuddle after.
03/05/2011
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I don't do either immediately after. I usually get up to clean myself up, use the bathroom, and get back in bed for some cuddling.
03/19/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
i shower
05/30/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
After sex I want to just lay there holding my wife but she wants to just hit the shower and clean up. I like her to lay there, maybe with her head on my chest and my cum dripping out of her. She thinks it's gross, icky and just wan'ts to ... more
I need the ubiquitous 'other' option. For us it depends on what we have done, how late it is and whether we are all sweaty. Sometimes we lay and bask, other times we get cleaned up quickly then lay and bask.
05/30/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Well...after I cum, we are not usually done. We continue and she cums another 5-10 times on average...today it was 41...

We do not clean up immediately afterward in eny case; we enjoy the cuddling and afterglow.
05/30/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
It depends. I like cuddling, but we'll usually fall asleep and feel all gross in the morning. We're also in a dorm so I have to get dressed if I want to go to the bathroom, which one should always do after sex anyway. I'm sure things will change once we have an apartment. If we weren't using protection (condoms) I'd probably want to clean up pretty quickly.
05/30/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
Always lay there and cuddle and chat...sometimes there is a quick trip for a bathroom break to pee but it is right back to the cuddling.
05/30/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Usually neither.
05/30/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
I would love to just cuddle but unfortunately I have to get up and clean everything up right away. Cuddling comes afterwards.
05/30/2011
Contributor: hornypoet69 hornypoet69
I definitely love cuddling afterwards. But then I like having cum on me, so I generally have no desire to go clean up.
05/31/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
If we had anal play/sex, then we clean up right away to prevent the spread of bacteria. Otherwise, we like to hug each other for long time after sex.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Jammin14580 Jammin14580
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
After sex I want to just lay there holding my wife but she wants to just hit the shower and clean up. I like her to lay there, maybe with her head on my chest and my cum dripping out of her. She thinks it's gross, icky and just wan'ts to ... more
Looovve the afterglow
12/14/2011
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
Love simmering
12/18/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
Cuddle
12/19/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I get up and pee/wipe down immediately to prevent UTIs
12/19/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Majors Stephanie Majors
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
After sex I want to just lay there holding my wife but she wants to just hit the shower and clean up. I like her to lay there, maybe with her head on my chest and my cum dripping out of her. She thinks it's gross, icky and just wan'ts to ... more
We always take a shower right after but usually we hold each other and rest for a few minutes before showering not just get up right away although that is a case if we are super tired.
12/21/2011
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
We either snuggle, or go back to what we were doing. Just depends on the time of day.
01/06/2012
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We snuggle after sex.
01/06/2012
Contributor: Fun with Dick & Jane Fun with Dick & Jane
We cuddle for a while but then I need to get up and go to the bathroom to prevent a UTI. My partner is okay with that since I always bring him back a warm towel to use on his boys.
01/06/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
After sex I want to just lay there holding my wife but she wants to just hit the shower and clean up. I like her to lay there, maybe with her head on my chest and my cum dripping out of her. She thinks it's gross, icky and just wan'ts to ... more
I usually lay there. He might as well.
01/07/2012