Is Bigger Really Better? A Question For Other Females

HA! Thank you. I agree with what EffinSara said. Large girths and lengths need to be worked up to, but an average or a bit above can satisfy your needs for girth, length, and g-spot stimulation, again, if the person uses their genitals well. You could always try a large dildo to see if it's for you before jumping into it with a person, since that might pose for an uncomfortable situation if you end up hurting while trying to take them! less

Speaking strickly from my own viewpoint, it's a myth that the bigger the cock the better the sex. The best sex I have ever had has been with guys considered average. Humongous cocks may be interesting to look at, but that's it for me. Give me one that's about 5.5-7.5" in length with a girth of 5" or 6" and I'm a happy camper, and since my husband fits within these dimensions, I have all I ever want or need.

I think a lot of women will agree with me on this, truth be told. I also think that men buy into the bigger-is-better myth more than women. They put pressure on themselves and mess up their self-esteem because they think women all want and need bigger to be satisfied, but that's not true. Some maybe, but not most. The vaginal opening is very small, and an average-sized dick will easily provide enough stretching and filling to make a woman satisfied. less

Speaking strickly from my own viewpoint, it's a myth that the bigger the cock the better the sex. The best sex I have ever had has been with guys considered average. Humongous cocks may be interesting to look at, but that's it for me. Give me one that's about 5.5-7.5" in length with a girth of 5" or 6" and I'm a happy camper, and since my husband fits within these dimensions, I have all I ever want or need.

I think a lot of women will agree with me on this, truth be told. I also think that men buy into the bigger-is-better myth more than women. They put pressure on themselves and mess up their self-esteem because they think women all want and need bigger to be satisfied, but that's not true. Some maybe, but not most. The vaginal opening is very small, and an average-sized dick will easily provide enough stretching and filling to make a woman satisfied. less

My guy is average sized as well and the thing I love about him is that the more excited I can get him - the more he'll reach his "full potential" in size. He's perfect for me, I never bought into the "huge cock" mentality at all. I was smart and wanted a guy that I felt I could handle. I've even been told to watch it with the big ones because they could get painful. I'd hate for my guy to have to wear anything on themselves to prevent themselves from hurting me in anyway.

I agree with Raven that men seem to put more pressure on themselves about it. I think that is true and it's the same thing I told my boyfriend. He was afraid to let me see him naked orginally because he was afraid I would think he was "too small" and I would want to get rid of him.

Like Sir said as well, it's how well you use it.

Also, I don't think I would find it as appealing either if the guy I was giving oral to was that huge!

In the book Ride 'Em Cowgirl by Sadie Allison (I think...) she talks about sizes and how to deal with them as well. It's a great book. less

My guy is average sized as well and the thing I love about him is that the more excited I can get him - the more he'll reach his "full potential" in size. He's perfect for me, I never bought into the "huge cock" mentality at all. I was smart and wanted a guy that I felt I could handle. I've even been told to watch it with the big ones because they could get painful. I'd hate for my guy to have to wear anything on themselves to prevent themselves from hurting me in anyway.

I agree with Raven that men seem to put more pressure on themselves about it. I think that is true and it's the same thing I told my boyfriend. He was afraid to let me see him naked orginally because he was afraid I would think he was "too small" and I would want to get rid of him.

Like Sir said as well, it's how well you use it.

Also, I don't think I would find it as appealing either if the guy I was giving oral to was that huge!

In the book Ride 'Em Cowgirl by Sadie Allison (I think...) she talks about sizes and how to deal with them as well. It's a great book. less

I agree with EffinSara. I've been with big guys before, and there was a large portion of the time that sex with them was just flat out painful. I very much prefer my average sized husband. His penis is just the right size for me, and he's a far more attentive lover than anyone I've ever been with. There are even times when his average sized penis is a bit too much for me to handle.

I always tell people "You aren't getting anywhere if you don't know how to drive the Titanic." when they start bragging about penis size. less

I agree with EffinSara. I've been with big guys before, and there was a large portion of the time that sex with them was just flat out painful. I very much prefer my average sized husband. His penis is just the right size for me, and he's a far more attentive lover than anyone I've ever been with. There are even times when his average sized penis is a bit too much for me to handle.

I always tell people "You aren't getting anywhere if you don't know how to drive the Titanic." when they start bragging about penis size. less

Total myth. It just depends on how they use it.

My best friend is a guy, and he has.. a small dick. And he's a veritable man-whore. Apparently he does something right, because he gets laid more often than my guy friends with average or large penises (those that I know the size of, at least). I think, like some of you mentioned before, it's a psychological thing. He thinks girls want guys with bigger dicks, so he works harder to pleasure them.

So, a smaller penis can be a good thing. I'm not really sure, since I've never actually had sex with him or anyone under 'average'.. but I like 'average' and 'pretty big', and I'm not sure I could deal with 'monster'. Monster dildo, maybe - monster penis coming right at me to destroy me like Tokyo, not so much. less

Ok, all I hear from my girlfriend is how big her husband is and how great he is in bed with his monster cock..I've only been with a few guys who were probably about normal size down there..So what's the deal? Is sex better if a guy has a huge one? Anybody had some experience or lucky enough to be married to someone who is well endowed?? Details please...want to know what I have been missing!
If it is that good, I need to meet someone like that!! less

So here's the thing. There are different sized penises, and there are different sized vaginas. The Kama sutra splits them into three categories each (and gives them silly names like dear and elephant).

What's my point? If your sizes approximately match up, then that is awesome. If a guy with a big dick meets a girl with a small vagina - its gonna be potentially painful and certainly challenging. Likewise, if a woman with a big vagina gets a guy with a small dick....well, she's possibly going to feel like it's not quite enough. Of course, external to all this is the fact that sex skills are really the most important factor in how much pleasure a partner derives from your bits.

So, in short, bigger isn't always better. It depends on *your* size. less

So here's the thing. There are different sized penises, and there are different sized vaginas. The Kama sutra splits them into three categories each (and gives them silly names like dear and elephant).

What's my point? If your sizes approximately match up, then that is awesome. If a guy with a big dick meets a girl with a small vagina - its gonna be potentially painful and certainly challenging. Likewise, if a woman with a big vagina gets a guy with a small dick....well, she's possibly going to feel like it's not quite enough. Of course, external to all this is the fact that sex skills are really the most important factor in how much pleasure a partner derives from your bits.

So, in short, bigger isn't always better. It depends on *your* size. less

Ok, all I hear from my girlfriend is how big her husband is and how great he is in bed with his monster cock..I've only been with a few guys who were probably about normal size down there..So what's the deal? Is sex better if a guy has a huge one? Anybody had some experience or lucky enough to be married to someone who is well endowed?? Details please...want to know what I have been missing!
If it is that good, I need to meet someone like that!! less