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Buying adult toys...together or alone?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
When you are going to buy adult toys to use as a couple, do you actually shop for them together, online, looking at catalogs or going to a boutique, or do you get some toy you think you would both enjoy and "surprise" the other person...OR, do you shop for the toy you feel YOU would like or THEY would like and then just "bring it out". What is your TOY BUYING STYLE?
06/12/2011
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I try to have at least a few options picked out that I think he'd like. I generally do all the research on which ones are recommended, and then I'll get his approval (especially for lingerie items)
06/12/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
When I was with my ex, we would shop together online, except for last-minute lubricant. I also shopped for us, as I knew what she'd like and what I'd like.
06/12/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by Bignuf
When you are going to buy adult toys to use as a couple, do you actually shop for them together, online, looking at catalogs or going to a boutique, or do you get some toy you think you would both enjoy and "surprise" the other person...OR, ... more
We like to shop together, but every now and then, throw in a surprise for the other person. I love trying new things and watching his response.
06/12/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
For the most part I do most of the buying, but I try to get his input on everything first, unless I know he's going to like it or it's something new I'm pretty sure he'll like, then I'll get it and surprise him with it.
06/12/2011
Contributor: curmudgeoncat curmudgeoncat
I've only ever bought them alone, but I have gone to adult toy shops with partners before.
06/12/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
When you are going to buy adult toys to use as a couple, do you actually shop for them together, online, looking at catalogs or going to a boutique, or do you get some toy you think you would both enjoy and "surprise" the other person...OR, ... more
I'll normally be between a few and ask him for his opinion to which will be the most fun. We do go to sex shops together to browse around as well
06/12/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
We shop together. I show him the things I want to get and he approves of them before I make my order. It's part of our dynamic, though most of the time he tells me to have fun and get whatever I want
06/12/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I show her the items that I think are of interest. She will pick from them. Sometimes she looks for something else too. We do most of our shopping here on eden.
06/13/2011