This question is for straight people in a relationship. Who usually initiates sex? The man or the woman?
Who in the couple usually initiates sex? The man or the woman?
01/28/2011
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We play with each other all throughout the day and we both initiate it but the act of sex itself doesn't happen until the end of the day and we're equal opportunity instigators. A touch can turn into intercourse just like that *snaps fingers*.
01/28/2011
I usually end up initiating sex.
01/28/2011
I think I initiate a little more, but we both do.
01/28/2011
That's interesting, my girlfriend is almost never the one to initiate sex.
01/28/2011
We've been married 25 years and I guess, when I really think about it, it has worked out to 50/50. When we were younger he initiated more I think, but now that it's back to the two of us, I think I initiate more now. 'Course, to be fair, he is still catching up with my newly found interest.
01/28/2011
It's roughly 50/50 although I'd say he probably does it a bit more. Lots of his attempts are fairly halfhearted,though: we'll just be sitting around watching a movie and he'll look over and say, "Hey, can I have a blowjob?"
ME: What? No, I'm watching this
HIM: Pleaaaase?
ME: No.
And that's that. But I don't know if constant blowjob requests really count as full-on initiating anything, haha.
ME: What? No, I'm watching this
HIM: Pleaaaase?
ME: No.
And that's that. But I don't know if constant blowjob requests really count as full-on initiating anything, haha.
01/28/2011
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haha, I don't know either, it's up for debate I guess
Originally posted by
toxie m
It's roughly 50/50 although I'd say he probably does it a bit more. Lots of his attempts are fairly halfhearted,though: we'll just be sitting around watching a movie and he'll look over and say, "Hey, can I have a
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It's roughly 50/50 although I'd say he probably does it a bit more. Lots of his attempts are fairly halfhearted,though: we'll just be sitting around watching a movie and he'll look over and say, "Hey, can I have a blowjob?"
ME: What? No, I'm watching this
HIM: Pleaaaase?
ME: No.
And that's that. But I don't know if constant blowjob requests really count as full-on initiating anything, haha. less
ME: What? No, I'm watching this
HIM: Pleaaaase?
ME: No.
And that's that. But I don't know if constant blowjob requests really count as full-on initiating anything, haha. less
01/28/2011
It's pretty equal here. We're both sex addicts, lol.
01/28/2011
I wish it weren't so - but I do about 90-10
01/28/2011
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lol
Originally posted by
Joie de Cherresse
It's pretty equal here. We're both sex addicts, lol.
01/28/2011
In our relationship I'm normally the one to initiate sex.
01/28/2011
There is a constant thread - the EF contributors are the ones who initiate sex in those couples where one's sex drive is lower than the other - dah!
01/28/2011
It is me most of the time. I guess my sex drive is alot higher then hers.
01/28/2011
Do any of the people on here that usually initiate sex start to feel self conscience about it?
01/29/2011
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My wife gets toomuch on her mind and I have only one thing on mine.
Originally posted by
vegan.guy
This question is for straight people in a relationship. Who usually initiates sex? The man or the woman?
01/29/2011
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Same here
Originally posted by
PussyGalore
We play with each other all throughout the day and we both initiate it but the act of sex itself doesn't happen until the end of the day and we're equal opportunity instigators. A touch can turn into intercourse just like that *snaps fingers*.
01/29/2011
Roughly 50/50.
01/30/2011
We generally share initiating 50/50.
01/30/2011
i say me about 95%. upsets me when i think about it. makes me feel undesirable. its rare when he does.
01/30/2011
With us I virtually always initiate.
01/30/2011
I'd say it is probably 50/50. If not, then maybe I initiate it more. All in all, I think it is pretty close to equal.
01/30/2011
He's always up for it and I'm always mentally horny, so it's generally 50/50, since a small touch just expands into sex
01/31/2011
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Yea, sometimes a touch is all that's needed.
Originally posted by
northstar
He's always up for it and I'm always mentally horny, so it's generally 50/50, since a small touch just expands into sex
01/31/2011
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Yeah. I know how you feel. It can be frustrating when you usually initiate sex.
Originally posted by
mrs.mckrakn
i say me about 95%. upsets me when i think about it. makes me feel undesirable. its rare when he does.
02/02/2011
Normally I initiate it, I always seem to be in the mood. But the past few weeks, it has been my wife, which is a nice change of pace. Because a lot of the time, she isn't in the mood.
02/03/2011
In my couple - me (the female).
02/03/2011
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Thanks for specifying your sex! It's easier than having to look at peoples profiles.
Originally posted by
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
In my couple - me (the female).
02/03/2011
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That must be nice. And surprising. You sure she doesn't want something expensive? Just kidding
Originally posted by
leatherlover
Normally I initiate it, I always seem to be in the mood. But the past few weeks, it has been my wife, which is a nice change of pace. Because a lot of the time, she isn't in the mood.
02/03/2011
Sex in my house is really irritating! Mainly because I'm always the one who instigates it. I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend.
02/03/2011
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