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Do you have any deep sexual secrets you can NEVER tell your significant other? Private Poll.

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
One lady I work with, married for 12 years and with two kids, admitted to a couple of our other co-workers, who are openly lesbian (NOT involved with each other), that she once had a "fling" in college with another girl, when exploring her sexuality. Although I have no idea how the whole conversation started, she opened up to them that she "still harbors some deep attraction to other woman", but would NEVER act on those. Her husband, she says, is a great husband to her and a great dad to his kids, but he is super fundamentalist religious and very OPEN and VOCAL about his distaste for ANY "alternative" anything. Thus, she "knows" that if he EVER found out she had lusted for another woman, he would "pack up the kids, move ten states away, change his name and I would never hear from him again". She is terrified of making a wrong comment or casting a glance at another female when they are together, lest he "find out" her "deep secret".

Do YOU have any "secrets" of a sexual nature you can NEVER let your Significant Other know about???
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
YES I do.
11
Nope. No secrets here.
44
Other?
3
Total votes: 58 (58 voters)
Poll is closed
07/31/2012
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Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
We are open books with each other.
07/31/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
There are things that maybe have not been discussed, but I don't think there's anything that I absolutely can't tell him about.
07/31/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
One lady I work with, married for 12 years and with two kids, admitted to a couple of our other co-workers, who are openly lesbian (NOT involved with each other), that she once had a "fling" in college with another girl, when exploring her ... more
nope
07/31/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
One lady I work with, married for 12 years and with two kids, admitted to a couple of our other co-workers, who are openly lesbian (NOT involved with each other), that she once had a "fling" in college with another girl, when exploring her ... more
My friend and I (we are both female) had a gang bang w/ 3 guys. She and I aren't into eachother or anything so it was strictly guy on girl. I could tell my hubby, but it's really not important as far as it being something I would ever do again.
07/31/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I don't have any secrets.
07/31/2012
Contributor: Willowe Willowe
There are some things I haven't told her that I definitely wouldn't bring up in casual conversation, but nothing that I would NEVER tell her. It would just need to be the right moment and the right situation, and if she ever asked I would answer honestly.
07/31/2012
Contributor: LLmama LLmama
Nope, nothing.
07/31/2012
Contributor: ChickenFeathers ChickenFeathers
Not really. I have a feeling she doesn't tell me everything, though.
07/31/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
No. I wouldn't have married someone I needed to keep secrets from.
07/31/2012
Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
No secretes.
07/31/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
One lady I work with, married for 12 years and with two kids, admitted to a couple of our other co-workers, who are openly lesbian (NOT involved with each other), that she once had a "fling" in college with another girl, when exploring her ... more
I, personally, don't have these deep secrets from my partners but I have to say how sad I would find it if I had to live like this woman! I was asked on Monday if I had any issues with my husband answering questions for me after my surgery...I was having a sterilization procedure. I said then and I still say that if have to keep such things secret from the husband I would probably be better off without said husband!
I expected my husband to be the person I wanted him to be for so long and so unswervingly that one day I woke up and he wasn't the man I fell in love with and married. I thank God he never did that to me, and forgave me for doing it to him. I can now, honestly say I love him unconditionally...odd fantasies and all!
Now a days I love hearing about his and our life partner's deep desires and secrets.
07/31/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
nope
08/01/2012
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
We don't keep any secrets, no matter how embarrassing they might be
08/01/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
No secrets.
08/12/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
One lady I work with, married for 12 years and with two kids, admitted to a couple of our other co-workers, who are openly lesbian (NOT involved with each other), that she once had a "fling" in college with another girl, when exploring her ... more
I have no secrets at all from my husband/Master. He knows absolutely everything about my past and also my life. We don't keep secrets from one another.
08/12/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Nope, no secrets at all.
08/12/2012
Contributor: Augustxsins Augustxsins
No, not really. Some things might not have come up yet, but I feel pretty comfortable talking to him about most anything.
08/13/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Completely open with my husband. I feel like that's how it should be (at least in the context of marriage.)
08/13/2012
Contributor: crazycouple7281 crazycouple7281
I tell my girlfriend everything, so nope, open book.
08/13/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
One lady I work with, married for 12 years and with two kids, admitted to a couple of our other co-workers, who are openly lesbian (NOT involved with each other), that she once had a "fling" in college with another girl, when exploring her ... more
YES I do.
08/13/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
None that i know of.
08/13/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I have a close male friend that I tell that sort of stuff to.
08/14/2012
Contributor: neil i. neil i.
I wouldn't say that there are things I could never talk about. More like some things that I am maybe not fully comfortable discussing.
08/14/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Nope, nothing--we both really value honesty and communication, and understand that when you're in a relationship with someone, you accept the whole package--flaws, mistakes and all. I have to say, I'm really sad for your co-worker, though. How tragic that someone could end up in a lifelong, committed relationship with someone who would leave them over something so harmless...you should be able to share yourself with your spouse, not tuck things away in abject fear over them discovering it and completely disowning you over it. That's not a healthy marriage at all...
08/29/2012
Contributor: petlove0311 petlove0311
nope, he knows everything
01/29/2013
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
No, none here
01/29/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
No secrets here, but fantasies are a different story. That being said, I'd still tell her IF she asked.
01/29/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
I would tell my husband anything. And I particularly cherish that openness.
01/29/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We are open about everything, and I mean everything.
01/29/2013