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Guys, What Would You Rather Hear?

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Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
Okay, as we all know, our sexual partners can be very vocal, or very quiet in bed... Or anywhere in between. What turns you on the most? A good loud moan, or just a little panting? Guys, I wanna know... What do you like to hear?!

(This is mostly geared toward men with female partners, but anyone can join in!)
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I like my girls silent but sexy.
A little panting or gasping, soft and sweet.
Soft pants and little moans are nice.
AYoungMan , SexyStuff , streetshark182 , ToyGurl
4  (9%)
I like to elicit the occasional squeal...
CharmCity
1  (2%)
I like a good amount of moaning.
Checkmate , Crash , married with children , Vaccinium , Eliza , Redboxbaby , muffles , Istanbull , Stujen , jakjak , Keegski , moonch1ld , Cream in the Cupcake , LennaKieran , guard083 , Xiel , extrafun , jcprice02 , barrettbn2 , nicole07 , Rossie , CSEA , Lily Night , Bonesdance , Judas Iscars , cobiffle , newfoundlust , namelesschaos , mr conflicted , potstickers , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , jeangel246 , Nora , ViVix , pinkpottergirl
35  (78%)
Bring on the screamers!
ToyTimeTim , ToyBoy , Beck
3  (7%)
The Infamous Other, please explain!
MaryExy , Peggi
2  (4%)
Total votes: 45
Poll is closed
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Contributor: AYoungMan AYoungMan
Haha! I guess on the quieter side.
03/13/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I love it when the wife wakes up the neighbor that live three thousand yard away.
That can only happen during the day though, it would surely wake up the kids.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
I like a good amount of moaning with an occasional scream thrown in
03/13/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I dont want her to wake up the kids, but I like to hear when Im doing a good job. so a lot of soft moaning.
03/14/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Answering for the hubs- soft moans etc- showing she is enjoying herself
03/14/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
I don't know whether I'm doing a good job unless there is a good amount of noise, so pretty much the more noise the better. However, screaming is a bit distracting for me.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I'm a girl, but I voted here because I sleep with women. I love moaning. Soft sounds the whole time, louder toward climax. Noise is the best way to communicate during sex.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I voted for my husband. He says, "I love those deep guttural moans, no screams though, they are distracting."
03/14/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I forgot to mention, who likes it if she moans your name?!
03/15/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
I forgot to mention, who likes it if she moans your name?!
As long as it's mine - great!
03/15/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
As long as it's mine - great!
Haha!
03/15/2011
Contributor: jcprice02 jcprice02
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
Okay, as we all know, our sexual partners can be very vocal, or very quiet in bed... Or anywhere in between. What turns you on the most? A good loud moan, or just a little panting? Guys, I wanna know... What do you like to hear?!

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I like loud moaning.
04/16/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
My husband loves a little moaning
04/16/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
My boyfriend think its sexy to say his name!
04/16/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My husband loves to hear my moans.
04/18/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
Okay, as we all know, our sexual partners can be very vocal, or very quiet in bed... Or anywhere in between. What turns you on the most? A good loud moan, or just a little panting? Guys, I wanna know... What do you like to hear?!

(This is ... more
I do moan, I loveee to moan! He gets into it too when I do. However, there are times when we are trying to be seducive and sneaky so we must be quiet and thats a hard one for me so he gets alittle ehh about it.
04/18/2011
Contributor: link82 link82
My man likes my quiet panting, and then I obviously get louder when I orgasm
04/18/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
I wish we had the house empty more I love the moaning! It fuels me.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
My wife is very quiet, almost silent, and I really wish she would be more vocal. I don't care if the neighbors can hear!
05/14/2011
Contributor: Judas Iscars Judas Iscars
Mooaaaning...
05/14/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
just some noise and moaning works for me
05/14/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
Voted for my guy. He says he likes a mix of the occasional squeal and a good amount of moaning.
05/14/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
Okay, as we all know, our sexual partners can be very vocal, or very quiet in bed... Or anywhere in between. What turns you on the most? A good loud moan, or just a little panting? Guys, I wanna know... What do you like to hear?!

(This is ... more
I enjoy lots of moaning/crying out, plus lots of dirty talk and instructions, yes right there, lick my pussy there....etc.. Lets me know both what she is liking this time plus if she gets going not to stop what I am doing.
05/14/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My guy loves to hear me moan/whimper/gasp for air.

When I'm not making any noise he wonders if he is doing any good so I have to keep reassuring him with little verbal inputs as I continue to focus on what he is doing.

He says he really enjoys listening to me moan and watch me arch my back and titlt my head back when he is on top, he says that is when he knows I'm close and it turns him on a lot.
05/16/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
I dirty talk (some swearing almost as bad as a sailor), moan & make quite a bit of noise during sex. That can be a good thing or a bad thing depending on the location of the sex act or proximity to others.
05/16/2011
Contributor: mr conflicted mr conflicted
The more noise the better! We have come a long way here as I used to be pretty quiet (but wanted her to be vocal). I just wish she were more verbal as far as what she likes/wants. I mean, I like it when she tells me that she feels she doesn't need to direct me since I am doing fine, but I find it a real turn on to have her talk me through things.
05/25/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I love it when she moans during sex, makes me just want to ram her harder
09/29/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
It really depends on the night and the type of sex we're having, but my hubby says soft pants and little moans are nice. We can't stand seeing girls on pornos who are like YGHHFGFDGUUUUUGGHHHH FUCK FUCK FUC EGH UGH MMMMMM FUUUCCKKK. It's so annoying.
10/12/2011
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
I like it all....quiet, loud, moan, screams...etc.... mix it up a little
10/14/2011