Have you ever had a "FLING" ?

Have you ever had a "FLING" ?

IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
Have you ever had a fling? And please feel free to discuss what you definition of a "fling" is.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes but i was single at the time so i was just having fun
23  (38%)
Yes , but i was in a relationship and i love my partner, the other person didnt mean anything to me. It was just sex
6  (10%)
Yes, but that "fling' later turned into a serious long term relationship
7  (11%)
No ive never had a "fling"
25  (41%)
Total votes: 61
Poll is closed
08/14/2011
  • Save 20% on Luxury Toys
  • Save 70%. Limited Quantity
  • Sexy Treats For Her! Gorgeous Gift Set For $60
  • Save 50% on Selected Items
  • Spoil Him! Luxury Gift Set for Men For $60
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Ansley Ansley
*raises hand* Serial monogamist, here.
08/14/2011
catgirl9 catgirl9
I've never had a fling.
08/14/2011
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I spent the entire summer of my 17th year of life having one fling after another. I had just broke up with a boyfriend of a little over a year, and I just wanted to have fun without any strings.
08/14/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
The only time I have had flings in the past was when I was single. They are fun, but right now I want a more long term relationship.
08/14/2011
sarki sarki
Yes I have had a few while single
08/14/2011
anonomous anonomous
Never intentionally but this jerkoff did act like it so I stopped seeing him fast. Fucker.
08/15/2011
TheeGirlNextDoor TheeGirlNextDoor
Quote:
Originally posted by sarki
Yes I have had a few while single
me too :]
08/15/2011
Ghost Ghost
Many. Mostly at concerts.
08/15/2011
Rossie Rossie
I don't do flings.
08/15/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
i had a few when i was single and then once when I wasnt but didnt mean anything.
08/15/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I've had a few, while still in an Open Relationship with My Man.

To me, a "fling" is an intense, but short term (less than a year) relationship that may revolve around sex, but includes really liking the other person. Circumstances usually end it after a few weeks or months. At least, that's how it worked for me. Not one to have one night stands.

One of the men I had a really nice fling with moved back to the East coast and changed schools so we never got to see each other again. We tried to stay in touch, but without being together, it fizzled. It lasted about a semester in college.
08/15/2011
IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
I don't do flings.
Neither do i. . I have a male friend who constatly talks about his flings so i just wanted to know if its a regular thing for other people.
08/15/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Yup when I was younger.
08/15/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
I think a fling is a small relationship. Unofficial (or maybe official, just didn't last long). For instance, my first year of high school i was with a guy for 3 years. We broke up a few times and during those times i had a few official relationships that didn't last more than a week.
08/16/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
Yup. To me a fling is a casual relationship, almost like friends with benefits but you know it's going to end up front.
08/16/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
No flings under my belt...hehe.
08/16/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
Never had one. Closest I got was this guy who was hanging out with me just to sleep with me, but I didn't figure that out until he stopped being free when I wouldn't put out lol.
08/16/2011
ParisLove ParisLove
Nope ive never had one
08/16/2011
married with children married with children
never have, dont really care to.
08/16/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Never have, never will
08/16/2011
RonLee RonLee
I was in Germany at the Goethe-Institute language school. In my class I met a charming and beautiful young South American girl. It was an intense summer romance. We were married fifteen months later.

Our marriage was rather... how should I put It, tumultuous to say the least. Sadly she died of cancer a year ago last June. Even though she drove me crazy, I miss her still and probably always will.
08/16/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I've never had a fling of any kind.
08/16/2011
js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
I was in Germany at the Goethe-Institute language school. In my class I met a charming and beautiful young South American girl. It was an intense summer romance. We were married fifteen months later.

Our marriage was rather... how should ...
Sorry about your loss. This is a very sad and difficult type of loss for everyone. Cancer is the worst to go through and lose a loved one one day at a time!! My heart goes out to you.
08/16/2011
IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
I was in Germany at the Goethe-Institute language school. In my class I met a charming and beautiful young South American girl. It was an intense summer romance. We were married fifteen months later.

Our marriage was rather... how should ...
Awwww I'm very sorry
08/19/2011
Screen Door Screen Door
my boyfriend and I originally started out as a fling. We were friends and one day we just confided in each other our kinky fantasies and we planned a friends with benefits thing...but before we even did anything, we just spent a lot of time together and next thing, we're dating. That was over a year ago, it's been rocky but great.
08/22/2011
fabidefabi fabidefabi
We were each others booty cal. Married now 4 years
08/22/2011
Illumin8 Illumin8
Nope, never really had a fling.
09/17/2011
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Before I got married I had a single *very brief* fling.
09/17/2011
K101 K101
Never. My partner and I were discussing things similar to this tonight. We were talking about the trends of open relationships and the infedelity stuff being almost like a trend now days. I told him I must just be old fashioned because I could never even think about things like flings or anything like that. He thankfully agreed. Lol
09/18/2011
  • 1
  • 2
Total posts: 40
Unique posters: 38