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How would you define your sex life?

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Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Different people have different ideas of 1 what a good sex life would be or 2 what theirs actually is. SO lets see shall we
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
slow and steady wins the race
indiechick , BG529 , Ansley , vintagina , ejrbrndps , melissa1973 , ghent529 , js250 , Nora29714 , Rossie , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , aliceinthehole , John E W , Gunsmoke , bayosgirl , Ilovelingerie , Stinkytofu10 , Llahsram , Mistress Sassy , KrissyNovacaine , potstickers
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The quicker the better
Ansley , melissa1973 , js250 , soe , chantalgiardina , Mistress Sassy , KrissyNovacaine
7
No foreplay for me
Ansley , js250 , John E W , KrissyNovacaine
4
If there isn't foreplay there isn't sex
Ansley , vintagina , melissa1973 , tortilla , js250 , Rossie , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , CoffeeCup , John E W , Gunsmoke , bayosgirl , K101 , Narr , chantalgiardina , Mistress Sassy , KrissyNovacaine , married with children , Vegan Silk , WhoopieDoo , Mrs. Tickle and Giggle , Mr. Tickle and Giggle , thisisadeletedaccount
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Other
Chilipepper , unfulfilled , SMichelle , Ansley , Kissy , melissa1973 , Falsepast , Beck , Melan!e , js250 , MissYouBubbles , Badass , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , John E W , Ilovelingerie , gsfanatic , lacybutton , Mistress Sassy , Tork48309 , Colonel Angus
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Total votes: 74 (46 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Dream: Yes, Master, I'll Be Ready When You Get Home from Work

Reality: Once a Year is Incredibly Lucky - Bonus Points If He's Someone I Know
05/21/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husbands the type to skip foreplay, but I'd love to have it. We have sex at least weekly besides when I'm menstrating.
05/21/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I chose them all because it really depends on the day.
05/21/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
Lots of forms for us, so other!
05/21/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
i don't have one
05/21/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by Falsepast
i don't have one
agreed.
05/21/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
We like variety
05/21/2012
Contributor: ghent529 ghent529
variety is good to
05/21/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
All of the above and then some. I need variety or I get seriously bored!!
05/21/2012
Contributor: MissYouBubbles MissYouBubbles
There are sometimes when I like nothing more then to get right to it, and then there is most of the time where I like a little bit of everything

Generally there isn't a fire per say that we have to work around, so I will break out some toys (not all the time) or just spend a little time on foreplay and then there ya go lol.
05/21/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Slow and steady with LOTS of foreplay!
05/21/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
I am all over the board... sometimes i want it slow, sometimes i want it rough.. sometimes i want foreplay, sometimes i want my sexy time right NOW...
05/21/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I like it slow at times. I like it fast and rough and sometimes I like to skip the foreplay and get right into it.
05/21/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
I like variety. Depends on when it is.
05/21/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
For me sex is like enjoying good wine - best savored - not guzzled like cheap beer.
05/22/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
Different people have different ideas of 1 what a good sex life would be or 2 what theirs actually is. SO lets see shall we
If there's No foreplay, there's no cooter! Ha Ha. I'm actually kidding. We've had sex without foreplay. Just last week I was in the shower when my lovie came home and was peekin'! When I walked out it was like-- spun me around on the bed, wham, bam, slap on the ass and thank you ma'am! Bahaha. It's really rare that he just does it, but he does every so often because I told him one of my fantasies were for him to sling me onto the bed--unexpected and welll.... He loves foreplay as much as I do though. If he wasn't so good about giving foreplay and caring about my sexual part as well, I would be havin' a problem with the wham, bam thank you ma'am. If we never had much foreplay, I'd feel that my arousal was not of any importance to him. He's the only person I've been with that EVER done anything for me during the dirty dirty. Lol. We got a chance to finally use the under the bed restraints tonight and I did love that, but I was the hostage! Lol. It was fun, but the entire 45 minutes I was tied down, I was gettin' not givin' so it works out pretty well.

My idea of a good sex life is exactly what I have, which I AM thankful for because I do know what it's like to not know what good sex is or not even know why sex is considered fun. Yep, I used to not have good sex.. at all! So I'm pretty thankful that he insists on spending time on me. If it's taking me a while to "get there" (he always insists I have an O before going into intercourse) during foreplay, I'll tell him to stop and go ahead with the sex, but he's persistent. He's not going to do it until he's sure I've already had one, which is fantastic because I'm actually able to O both from intercourse alone and clitorally and I hear that is rare.
05/22/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
For me sex is like enjoying good wine - best savored - not guzzled like cheap beer.
I love how you put that! Purrfect wording
05/22/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
Different people have different ideas of 1 what a good sex life would be or 2 what theirs actually is. SO lets see shall we
Well, I like foreplay lots of the time, but other times I just want to get to it.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
For me sex is like enjoying good wine - best savored - not guzzled like cheap beer.
Very well put
05/22/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Sometimes it's quick, sometimes it's a few hour delight, depends a lot on what we're in the mood for
05/22/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Dream: Yes, Master, I'll Be Ready When You Get Home from Work

Reality: Once a Year is Incredibly Lucky - Bonus Points If He's Someone I Know
05/22/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
I take it I have answered incorrectly?
05/22/2012
Contributor: Colonel Angus Colonel Angus
The poll needs more choices.
05/23/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
i like to take my time.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
usually I like quite a bit if foreplay. But sometimes I'm too excited and have to just get right to it.
05/23/2012
Contributor: FriskyInFlorida FriskyInFlorida
no foreplay, no sex
06/02/2012
Contributor: Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
Different people have different ideas of 1 what a good sex life would be or 2 what theirs actually is. SO lets see shall we
I like to play around and get in the mood.
06/02/2012
Contributor: Mr. Tickle and Giggle Mr. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
I like to play around and get in the mood.
Hey mrs tiCkle and gIggle you want to have some foreplay now.

And foreplay first then sex
06/02/2012
Contributor: Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Tickle and Giggle
Hey mrs tiCkle and gIggle you want to have some foreplay now.

And foreplay first then sex
you so silly
06/02/2012