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Different people have different ideas of 1 what a good sex life would be or 2 what theirs actually is. SO lets see shall we
If there's No foreplay, there's no cooter! Ha Ha. I'm actually kidding. We've had sex without foreplay. Just last week I was in the shower when my lovie came home and was peekin'! When I walked out it was like-- spun me around on the bed, wham, bam, slap on the ass and thank you ma'am! Bahaha. It's really rare that he just does it, but he does every so often because I told him one of my fantasies were for him to sling me onto the bed--unexpected and welll.... He loves foreplay as much as I do though. If he wasn't so good about giving foreplay and caring about my sexual part as well, I would be havin' a problem with the wham, bam thank you ma'am. If we never had much foreplay, I'd feel that my arousal was not of any importance to him.
He's the only person I've been with that EVER done anything for me during the dirty dirty. Lol. We got a chance to finally use the under the bed restraints tonight and I did love that, but I was the hostage! Lol. It was fun, but the entire 45 minutes I was tied down, I was gettin' not givin' so it works out pretty well.
My idea of a good sex life is exactly what I have, which I AM thankful for because I do know what it's like to not know what good sex is or not even know why sex is considered fun. Yep, I used to not have good sex.. at all! So I'm pretty thankful that he insists on spending time on me. If it's taking me a while to "get there" (he always insists I have an O before going into intercourse) during foreplay, I'll tell him to stop and go ahead with the sex, but he's persistent. He's not going to do it until he's sure I've already had one, which is fantastic because I'm actually able to O both from intercourse alone and clitorally and I hear that is rare.