The New Intimacy

Initiator v. Submissive - which are you?

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Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl 02/10/2013

Are u the one to ask for sex or is your spouse?

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do you initiate sex? (26 posts)
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
who initites the sex?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
TJtheMadHatter
1  (2%)
gsfanatic , Eugler , MissCandyland , AliMc , K101 , Loriandhubby , BrittaniMaree , Afotog , Breas , RedKyuubi , Sweet-n-Playful , mpfm , amazon , Terri69 , Kirill1171 , ginnyluvspotter , shorejen9 , bog , kdlt , Charry , LexiKitten , dv8 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , damnbul12
24  (41%)
captainsgirl , BlooJay , deltalima , chicmichiw , bratcat , Martiniman , hotinpink , *Ashley* , talkless , caffeinated , Fun2 , Geogeo , souviet , Noelle , StarrStacked , WhoopieDoo , PropertyOfPotter , noway , SP
19  (33%)
Cindi025 , karenm , AngelKittenDolly , SecretKinksters , edeneve , donatello6789 , seaotter , lilyflower , SMichelle , Rossie
10  (17%)
jake0530 , tortilla , Llahsram , Falsepast
4  (7%)
Total votes: 58
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Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Me -- it's got to be on my time
02/10/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
We're both pretty happy to initiate, makes things fun
02/10/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
i feel like most f the time i am the one to make the frist advance or initiate sex, but it may actually be more equal than i actually think.
02/11/2013
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
We are pretty equal in our initiating sex to one another.
02/11/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
who initites the sex?
Sometimes me, sometimes him. I'd say it's about equal.
02/11/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Usually him, but we are both always horny and wanting sex.
02/11/2013
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
who initites the sex?
both of us
02/11/2013
Contributor: talkless talkless
Sometimes it him...but normally i initiate it before he has a chance
02/11/2013
Contributor: caffeinated caffeinated
My sex drive is much higher. Sigh.
02/11/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
depends on the day
02/11/2013
Contributor: amazon amazon
Equal
02/11/2013
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
we both do equally
02/15/2013
Contributor: Fun2 Fun2
Me most of the time, but I am a him.
02/16/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
we both do equally
02/16/2013
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
We both do
02/16/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
We both do
02/16/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
who initites the sex?
i have a higher sex drive than my current boy so it's most often me
02/18/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
He works really hard all day (physical labor), and he's tired a lot. So I tend to grope, grab, and proposition a lot.
02/18/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
who initites the sex?
usually me.
02/18/2013
Contributor: StarrStacked StarrStacked
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
who initites the sex?
I do most of the time, I find it annoying. My bf isn't great at handing out compliments so I take him initiating sex as him telling me that he still finds me attractive and desirable.
02/19/2013
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
*Her* most of the time.
02/19/2013
Contributor: Charry Charry
It depends.
02/19/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Usually I do.
02/19/2013
Contributor: Mx.Nekora Mx.Nekora
Mostly my boyfriend. But i do too.
02/28/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
who initites the sex?
we both do equally
03/01/2013