Is an eager partner a turn on.

Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Does your sexual partner being eager for sex a major turn on for you.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
43  (96%)
No
Never really gave it much thougth
2  (4%)
other
Total votes: 45
Poll is closed
03/16/2013
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Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
It doesn't hurt the mood; but actually is a sign of communication!
03/16/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
I should hope the answer is yes for everyone.
03/16/2013
Contributor: table38792 table38792
Of course, moods affect the underlying activity.

Easiest poll ever lol
03/16/2013
Contributor: lilacviolet lilacviolet
Well obviously. What other answer could there be.
03/17/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
Of course!
03/17/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by SaucyxGirl
Does your sexual partner being eager for sex a major turn on for you.
Of course!
03/17/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
Absolutely!
03/17/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Extremely!
03/17/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
Lolwut? What kind of question is that? Of course!!
03/17/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by SaucyxGirl
Does your sexual partner being eager for sex a major turn on for you.
Absolutely!
03/17/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
What am I missing? Is this a question or point farming?
03/17/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
Yes (current husband). Previous husband? Not a turn on, after we stopped trying to make the marriage work anyway.
03/17/2013
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
It's certainly more of a turn on than a partner that's not eager
03/17/2013
Contributor: mdnght mdnght
Yes! I'd definitely not want it if it seemed like whoever I was about to do it with didn't really want to...
03/17/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I absolutely do like an eager partner.

For all of the folks who've asked why this question was posed...
"Lolwut? What kind of question is that? " - Silverwinds
"What am I missing? Is this a question or point farming?" - Gunsmoke


Some years ago, in my youth, I dated more than a few young ladies and we more often than not ended even a first date intimately. Some were very eager and some weren't. The ones who weren't were however found to always be just as wet when her panties came off. I posed the question why act coy when it's obvious that you we want the same thing. What I heard was that, her family, friends and even "society" had given her the instruction that good girls are NOT eager for amorous activities, even when they really are.
Perhaps some of those girls had also even been told that a partner would find her wanting sex to be a turn off. Insidious and sad to give such advice to someone.

I hope that we as a society have been able to get away from instructing young people to engage in that kind of duplicity.
03/17/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
That's my biggest turn on.
03/17/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
I absolutely do like an eager partner.

For all of the folks who've asked why this question was posed...
"Lolwut? What kind of question is that? " - Silverwinds
"What am I missing? Is this a question or point ... more
Today in my life it is a turn on most positively.

If in my youth a man of your persuasion had encouraged me to "take my wet panties" off even if they indeed were when I wasn't ready I'm sure, no positive sex would no longer mean the same thing to me today as it does.

Sex should be on equal compliant terms with both giving and receiving equally. It is usually the case one partners sexual history is more experienced than the other but the intonation's of RonLee's post regarding "good girls" does not sit will with me.

Girls and Women both are sometimes just not ready to be intimate with someone even if they want to. I'm hoping your more wise now with age than in your youth and you realize this today.

I've got to stop here because this very "Easiest Poll Ever" just brought back unwelcome memories.
03/17/2013
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
For me, yes! My guy is always eager to please me and loves having all kinds of sex. Even when I'm not in the mood, just seeing how much he wants it can get me going!
03/17/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
It usually turns me on unless im really not in the mood. but his persistence gets me going.
03/17/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
What am I missing? Is this a question or point farming?
No I was asking because a good friend of mine hates when guys are overly eager and nearly drooling (her words lol) for sex. she said it was a major turn off and I was curious if others found eagerness to be a turn off.
03/17/2013
Contributor: solly solly
Totally!
03/17/2013
Contributor: ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
I've never really thought about it.
03/17/2013
Contributor: shnsmth6 shnsmth6
Quote:
Originally posted by SaucyxGirl
Does your sexual partner being eager for sex a major turn on for you.
of coarse
03/18/2013
Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
Yes, totally.
It's a bit of a turn off if my partner is not excited.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Definitely
03/18/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Definitely yes!
03/21/2013
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by SaucyxGirl
Does your sexual partner being eager for sex a major turn on for you.
yes, it is a turn on for me.
03/21/2013
Contributor: MrWood MrWood
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
I absolutely do like an eager partner.

For all of the folks who've asked why this question was posed...
"Lolwut? What kind of question is that? " - Silverwinds
"What am I missing? Is this a question or point ... more
I agree with your response RonLee. I've dated aloted of women too, and while most of them wanted sex, it was the ones that showed their desire, that it was a much more turn on for me. I also love when my gf lets me know that she wants me, not just me wanting her. Not all women (or most) show their sexual desires until the man initiates it. I'm just saying it's a turn on for me to have a women initiate it sometimes.
03/22/2013
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Yes, why wouldn't it be!?
03/22/2013