Ladies, do you ever use a finger in the "back door" to pleasure your guy?

Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
I love to give my guy a SUPER orgasm once in a while with direct finger stimulation to the prostate. How common is this among hetero couples?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, he likes prostate massage that way
23
Yes, he like me to play back there, but not all the way to the prostate
6
No, he does not like it
29
No, no way I am going there
10
Total votes: 68 (61 voters)
Poll is closed
05/30/2011
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Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I would gladly do it for him if he liked it, but he does not.
05/30/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I love to give my guy a SUPER orgasm once in a while with direct finger stimulation to the prostate. How common is this among hetero couples?
my Master doesn't like anything near his ass so I'm not able to do something like that. I would if he wanted it though.
05/30/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
yep, he likes
05/30/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I love to give my guy a SUPER orgasm once in a while with direct finger stimulation to the prostate. How common is this among hetero couples?
Sometimes, but he does not like it.
05/30/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Yup! I tend to use the Pure Wand on him more often though because my finger isn't really long enough to stimulate him to the fullest extent. He does love it and he does get a stronger orgasm from it.
05/30/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I've done it once but he said it felt really, really weird. He looked like he might have been sick, to be honest. I wasn't sure if I was massaging the prostate and he just didn't like it, or what.
05/30/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I LOVE IT when my GF does that for me!
05/30/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I've tried it once on my husband and he ejaculated immediately. He said he didn't like it and won't allow my finger near his hole ever again!
05/30/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Nope.
05/30/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Yup! I tend to use the Pure Wand on him more often though because my finger isn't really long enough to stimulate him to the fullest extent. He does love it and he does get a stronger orgasm from it.
The Pure Wand is great for p-spot stimulation. She also uses several glass toys for me including the Lucid Heart, Silenzio and Cyberglass 4-way.
05/30/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
My guy isn't into prostate play.
05/30/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
The wife does this one in awhile, I wish she would do it more.
05/30/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
yes sometimes
05/30/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
My husband hates it. He said he already tried several times with his last girlfriend and hated it. He wont try it again so I dont go there with him at all!
05/30/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
He won't let me near it
05/30/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
No. He wont let me near it, and I'd probably leave him if he asked me to.. Just not something we're into.
05/30/2011
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
We've done it a few times. As far as I can tell, he enjoys it a lot.
05/31/2011
Contributor: LambChop LambChop
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I love to give my guy a SUPER orgasm once in a while with direct finger stimulation to the prostate. How common is this among hetero couples?
His pleasure is mine, and vice versa. This is definitely on our list.
05/31/2011
Contributor: Leila Eden Leila Eden
My ex loved prostate massage and I'd use a few different toys as well as my finger. He would have such amazing orgasms that I loved doing it for him.
05/31/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Would love to try it on him if he ever asked me to or wanted me to but he has no interest in trying it
05/31/2011
Contributor: Karen Affeldt Karen Affeldt
Just when I'm giving him head. I swear I can feel his dick get bigger when I do that.
06/01/2011
Contributor: STIX STIX
I actually introduced my boyfriend to backdoor play. I use both fingers and toys on him and he loves it. He says his most intense orgasms are a result of my gentle probing. Tehe.
06/01/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Karen Affeldt
Just when I'm giving him head. I swear I can feel his dick get bigger when I do that.
My wife says the same thing - apparently just a tad more blood gets us 'pumped up'
06/01/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I love to give my guy a SUPER orgasm once in a while with direct finger stimulation to the prostate. How common is this among hetero couples?
We have just started playing lightly anally. I am waiting with great anticipation for my wife to be comfortable enough to do this to me.
06/01/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by newfoundlust
We have just started playing lightly anally. I am waiting with great anticipation for my wife to be comfortable enough to do this to me.
Take my word for it - you'll literally explode. Both the wife and I were surprised to see what happened when I finally convinced her to try. It seems that as long as the toys we use are non-phallic she's been OK with it. I don't care for plugs that just sit there - so she uses a few of our glass toys. It took a few hints to get her to do the thrusting - for me it's about pressure changes caused by the ripples or waves in the glass. Good luck - don't let her put it off too long!
06/01/2011
Contributor: ButterflyKisses92 ButterflyKisses92
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I love to give my guy a SUPER orgasm once in a while with direct finger stimulation to the prostate. How common is this among hetero couples?
You know, my boyfriend loves to do this to me. I love it too, I find it to be extremely pleasurable. He's expressed interest in having me do it to him, but I can't stand to stick my finger in there, it just seems icky to me. I'm working on getting over it, maybe I'll find a toy to start with.
10/13/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
So far he hasn't let me, but this post makes me want to try again.
10/13/2011
Contributor: jg19 jg19
I love it when my wife plays back there.
10/13/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I need an "Other": we haven't tried anal yet, but I really want to try it on him. We talked about anal a long time ago and he didn't sound too open to it, so I've taken to expanding my back massages to his butt, as well as touching his perineum during oral. Perhaps he'll warm up to it soon!
10/16/2011